While Church leaders have counseled us to adopt the spirit of Elijah and write our life stories and family histories, they haven’t given us any instruction about how to do it. The truth is, many family histories we’ve inherited from well-meaning relatives could use a little help. Some aren’t particularly interesting because they’re primarily a collection of names and dates arranged into sentences that tell readers what their subjects did, but not who they were. Others suffer from an over-concern about painting family members in a favorable light. Everyone is a model of saintliness we’re supposed to revere and emulate.…


