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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 10:23:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Glen:  I&#039;m not defending the LDS Church. I personally don&#039;t think people should remain members of the LDS Church because: (1) the hierarchy exercises total power without any check whatsoever; (2) the hierarchy is operating in a &quot;lying for the Lord&quot; mode where individual leaders know they are acting deceitfully, but justify their behavior to themselves because they believe their church is a net positive force; (3) the hierarchy fosters and encourages the members to engage in what I consider leader-worship (which I think is a form of idolatry where you believe the leaders have a direct connection with an anthropomorphized God that you yourself lack) also by refusing to admit error (e.g., where Joseph Smith or Brigham Young were utterly wrong); (4) the church is thoroughly and unrepentently sexist, and as such dehumanizes women, and therefore by extension all men who participate in it; and finally (5) the church is unreformable, so any time spent justifying one&#039;s collaboration with it in the name of reform is time wasted.  

Despite the common origins, Community of Christ is a very different kind of church.  In the above characteristics, (1) the members have ultimate charge exercising common consent through voting delegates to the World Conference, (2) the leadership is intensely honest and open despite the difficulties you&#039;ve seen here in this conversation that honesty invites, (3) the leaders are regular people you can hang out with, they retire when their callings come to an end, and the members are called to be &quot;a prophetic people&quot; together and individually, (4) the church believes &quot;all are called&quot; and has full participation of women at every level of leadership, additionally we have or have had Asian, African, Latin American, European, and Pacific Islander apostles in addition to those from North America, and finally (5) Community of Christ has shown that it&#039;s extraordinarily reformable when it finds itself in error.  New scripture calls upon leaders and the church to repent when it has been in error.

Regarding afterlife: Community of Christ is quite focused on this life.  Speculation on afterlife can be comforting, but it&#039;s ultimately speculative.  For me, the anthem here is the old I think children&#039;s hymn... &quot;Have I done any good in the world today? ... then wake up and do something more than dream of your mansions above...&quot;

Spending time on this life and living this life meaningfully is a good use of life.  The core values (&quot;The Enduring Principles&quot;) of the church in this regard are, Grace and Generosity, Sacredness of Creation, Continuing Revelation, Worth of All Persons, All Are Called
Responsible Choices, Pursuit of Peace (Shalom), Unity in Diversity, and Blessings of Community.  

I can tell you that I personally value the blessings of a sharing community where all are valued, and we can be respectful of each other even though we don&#039;t all agree.  And many members don&#039;t like the Book or Mormon and don&#039;t read it or quote from it; and many members don&#039;t like Joseph Smith at all and they don&#039;t have to.  And if you don&#039;t like the history stuff and don&#039;t want to come with me on a trip to Kirtland Temple, you don&#039;t have to.  

Now are we actually better than the Rotary Club?  You&#039;ll have to go talk to a Rotarian and decide for yourself.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glen:  I&#8217;m not defending the LDS Church. I personally don&#8217;t think people should remain members of the LDS Church because: (1) the hierarchy exercises total power without any check whatsoever; (2) the hierarchy is operating in a &#8220;lying for the Lord&#8221; mode where individual leaders know they are acting deceitfully, but justify their behavior to themselves because they believe their church is a net positive force; (3) the hierarchy fosters and encourages the members to engage in what I consider leader-worship (which I think is a form of idolatry where you believe the leaders have a direct connection with an anthropomorphized God that you yourself lack) also by refusing to admit error (e.g., where Joseph Smith or Brigham Young were utterly wrong); (4) the church is thoroughly and unrepentently sexist, and as such dehumanizes women, and therefore by extension all men who participate in it; and finally (5) the church is unreformable, so any time spent justifying one&#8217;s collaboration with it in the name of reform is time wasted.  </p>
<p>Despite the common origins, Community of Christ is a very different kind of church.  In the above characteristics, (1) the members have ultimate charge exercising common consent through voting delegates to the World Conference, (2) the leadership is intensely honest and open despite the difficulties you&#8217;ve seen here in this conversation that honesty invites, (3) the leaders are regular people you can hang out with, they retire when their callings come to an end, and the members are called to be &#8220;a prophetic people&#8221; together and individually, (4) the church believes &#8220;all are called&#8221; and has full participation of women at every level of leadership, additionally we have or have had Asian, African, Latin American, European, and Pacific Islander apostles in addition to those from North America, and finally (5) Community of Christ has shown that it&#8217;s extraordinarily reformable when it finds itself in error.  New scripture calls upon leaders and the church to repent when it has been in error.</p>
<p>Regarding afterlife: Community of Christ is quite focused on this life.  Speculation on afterlife can be comforting, but it&#8217;s ultimately speculative.  For me, the anthem here is the old I think children&#8217;s hymn&#8230; &#8220;Have I done any good in the world today? &#8230; then wake up and do something more than dream of your mansions above&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Spending time on this life and living this life meaningfully is a good use of life.  The core values (&#8220;The Enduring Principles&#8221;) of the church in this regard are, Grace and Generosity, Sacredness of Creation, Continuing Revelation, Worth of All Persons, All Are Called<br />
Responsible Choices, Pursuit of Peace (Shalom), Unity in Diversity, and Blessings of Community.  </p>
<p>I can tell you that I personally value the blessings of a sharing community where all are valued, and we can be respectful of each other even though we don&#8217;t all agree.  And many members don&#8217;t like the Book or Mormon and don&#8217;t read it or quote from it; and many members don&#8217;t like Joseph Smith at all and they don&#8217;t have to.  And if you don&#8217;t like the history stuff and don&#8217;t want to come with me on a trip to Kirtland Temple, you don&#8217;t have to.  </p>
<p>Now are we actually better than the Rotary Club?  You&#8217;ll have to go talk to a Rotarian and decide for yourself.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 09:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, exactly.  A great point.  

What we should also point out here --- following Alexander Campbell while turning his conclusions around --- that we maximize our understanding of the Book of Mormon, if we understand its actual historical context.   If we try to wedge the square peg of the Book of Mormon into the round hole of actual Meso-American antiquity as it is now understood, we come up with altogether new readings of the text that are bizarre distortions of the original intent: e.g., Nephites and Lamanites as tiny tribes mixed in among giant indigenous nations that go unmentioned, &quot;swords&quot; as sticks with stones tied to the end, and &quot;horses&quot; as tapirs.

If, instead, we read the Book of Mormon in its actual 19th Century context, we can understand it as an epic of the young American republic in the wake of the Second Great Awakening --- excited in its still rare experiment of having thrown off monarchy, divided by sectarianism, paranoid about Freemasonry, and more.  

In this way, I&#039;ve argued that the Book of Mormon is to the Bible as the Aeneid is to the Iliad and Odyssey.  The great epics of the Roman and Greek worlds were scripture-like in the pre-Christian Roman Empire, as they provided sacred stories about who the Greeks and Romans were and about their relationships with the gods.  However, while the Iliad and Odyssey were composed orally in a non-literate period prior to the development of the discipline of history, and thus had great antiquity and appeared to have an organic quality that people equated with a divine origin, the Aeneid was quite deliberately composed by Virgil in the full light of history in order to connect the Romans into the Greek world-view of the Iliad.  

The authors underlying the 5 books traditionally ascribed to Moses (Genesis-Deuteronomy) all composed Moses stories that have to be understood in the historical context of the actual authors --- all centuries after Moses supposedly would have lived.  While understanding their own times well, these authors would have had very little insight into Moses&#039; era.  The same is true for Joseph Smith&#039;s Moses stories that have to be understood in the historical context of Joseph&#039;s era, not Moses&#039;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, exactly.  A great point.  </p>
<p>What we should also point out here &#8212; following Alexander Campbell while turning his conclusions around &#8212; that we maximize our understanding of the Book of Mormon, if we understand its actual historical context.   If we try to wedge the square peg of the Book of Mormon into the round hole of actual Meso-American antiquity as it is now understood, we come up with altogether new readings of the text that are bizarre distortions of the original intent: e.g., Nephites and Lamanites as tiny tribes mixed in among giant indigenous nations that go unmentioned, &#8220;swords&#8221; as sticks with stones tied to the end, and &#8220;horses&#8221; as tapirs.</p>
<p>If, instead, we read the Book of Mormon in its actual 19th Century context, we can understand it as an epic of the young American republic in the wake of the Second Great Awakening &#8212; excited in its still rare experiment of having thrown off monarchy, divided by sectarianism, paranoid about Freemasonry, and more.  </p>
<p>In this way, I&#8217;ve argued that the Book of Mormon is to the Bible as the Aeneid is to the Iliad and Odyssey.  The great epics of the Roman and Greek worlds were scripture-like in the pre-Christian Roman Empire, as they provided sacred stories about who the Greeks and Romans were and about their relationships with the gods.  However, while the Iliad and Odyssey were composed orally in a non-literate period prior to the development of the discipline of history, and thus had great antiquity and appeared to have an organic quality that people equated with a divine origin, the Aeneid was quite deliberately composed by Virgil in the full light of history in order to connect the Romans into the Greek world-view of the Iliad.  </p>
<p>The authors underlying the 5 books traditionally ascribed to Moses (Genesis-Deuteronomy) all composed Moses stories that have to be understood in the historical context of the actual authors &#8212; all centuries after Moses supposedly would have lived.  While understanding their own times well, these authors would have had very little insight into Moses&#8217; era.  The same is true for Joseph Smith&#8217;s Moses stories that have to be understood in the historical context of Joseph&#8217;s era, not Moses&#8217;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Glen Fullmer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glen Fullmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 04:04:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[John I appreciate your candor in regards to your beliefs.  One thing that is shared in common with both the Utah and CofC churches is tradition and history and looking forward to salvation in the future (granted the latter is more so with Utah Mormons). Guess this is the case with most religious organizations. In both cases, with restoration churches, that is where difficulties lie. If indeed that both the Book of Mormon and Joseph&#039;s participation with its creation are frauds, as you claim, then your concentration on the effects of the association in regards to making people better now, seems appropriate.  However, can they really do this any better than any other fraternal organization?  My experience is that both lack in that regard, especially the Utah Church. I know I would rather work with an organization that has arisen spontaneously for a particular current need rather than work for organizations that live mostly in tradition and expectation of future salvation, but then that might just be my proclivity. If you got rid of tradition, history and future salvation seeking, what do you think is the best things that the Community of Christ provides? The Utah Church? Strengths and weaknesses in comparison with each other given those constraints?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John I appreciate your candor in regards to your beliefs.  One thing that is shared in common with both the Utah and CofC churches is tradition and history and looking forward to salvation in the future (granted the latter is more so with Utah Mormons). Guess this is the case with most religious organizations. In both cases, with restoration churches, that is where difficulties lie. If indeed that both the Book of Mormon and Joseph&#8217;s participation with its creation are frauds, as you claim, then your concentration on the effects of the association in regards to making people better now, seems appropriate.  However, can they really do this any better than any other fraternal organization?  My experience is that both lack in that regard, especially the Utah Church. I know I would rather work with an organization that has arisen spontaneously for a particular current need rather than work for organizations that live mostly in tradition and expectation of future salvation, but then that might just be my proclivity. If you got rid of tradition, history and future salvation seeking, what do you think is the best things that the Community of Christ provides? The Utah Church? Strengths and weaknesses in comparison with each other given those constraints?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 04:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To clarify, if the Book of Mormon were demonstrated to be an historical text, then the question would remain, to what degree? As I think it was Alexander Campbell who pointed out before any of us, it is still obviously a 19th century text. Like all scripture it would be (and perhaps still is) an encounter with God pertaining to the era it was written in. The Old Testament is just people&#039;s interpretation of events and traditions. While the general sense of it is historically accurate, many of the specific events are ludicrous. Likewise (I know I am being a bit repetitive), the Koran is also generally historical, and obviously inspirational, but specific events just are not true. The thing with scripture is that it is most pertinent in its context and should never be taken completely literally. The beauty of ecumenism is that it allows us to share in the scriptural traditions of others. While I think the chances of the Book of Mormon being historical are slim to none, if it was then it still fits the pseudepigraphical/scriptural tradition. Its important not to shut our minds off to any potential source of wisdom, for if we do, then we risk a myopic world view which I have witnessed, especially in the LDS church.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To clarify, if the Book of Mormon were demonstrated to be an historical text, then the question would remain, to what degree? As I think it was Alexander Campbell who pointed out before any of us, it is still obviously a 19th century text. Like all scripture it would be (and perhaps still is) an encounter with God pertaining to the era it was written in. The Old Testament is just people&#8217;s interpretation of events and traditions. While the general sense of it is historically accurate, many of the specific events are ludicrous. Likewise (I know I am being a bit repetitive), the Koran is also generally historical, and obviously inspirational, but specific events just are not true. The thing with scripture is that it is most pertinent in its context and should never be taken completely literally. The beauty of ecumenism is that it allows us to share in the scriptural traditions of others. While I think the chances of the Book of Mormon being historical are slim to none, if it was then it still fits the pseudepigraphical/scriptural tradition. Its important not to shut our minds off to any potential source of wisdom, for if we do, then we risk a myopic world view which I have witnessed, especially in the LDS church.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:58:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m following you, but have to make your point a little bit more, Jeff.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m following you, but have to make your point a little bit more, Jeff.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Steve:  The history of Community of Christ in Utah hasn&#039;t been very successful.  From the earliest days, members in Utah feel ostracized by the society and they have really tended to leave.  Building up congregations when core members are frequently leaving is hard work.

So things in Salt Lake there right now are worse than they are for the church as a whole.  The congregation there has been at last legs for a while.  The overall demographic situation of the past 50 years is bad, but it&#039;s much worse where you are.  That said, I believe there&#039;s reason for optimism that doesn&#039;t exist in similarly challenged denominations.

Specifically, in Utah, if just a tiny fraction of the ExMormons in the are who still want to be in a Restoration church, but who can&#039;t abide the sexism of the LDS Church were to begin to meet together, you could fill that building to overflowing.  I believe that will happen, but it does require some people to step out in a leap of faith and take a stand so that others can follow.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve:  The history of Community of Christ in Utah hasn&#8217;t been very successful.  From the earliest days, members in Utah feel ostracized by the society and they have really tended to leave.  Building up congregations when core members are frequently leaving is hard work.</p>
<p>So things in Salt Lake there right now are worse than they are for the church as a whole.  The congregation there has been at last legs for a while.  The overall demographic situation of the past 50 years is bad, but it&#8217;s much worse where you are.  That said, I believe there&#8217;s reason for optimism that doesn&#8217;t exist in similarly challenged denominations.</p>
<p>Specifically, in Utah, if just a tiny fraction of the ExMormons in the are who still want to be in a Restoration church, but who can&#8217;t abide the sexism of the LDS Church were to begin to meet together, you could fill that building to overflowing.  I believe that will happen, but it does require some people to step out in a leap of faith and take a stand so that others can follow.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:43:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[J:  I think the word of wisdom is just that:  a word of wisdom; not a test of faith.   As with all scripture, it exists within its time and context in history.  People in the 19th century wrongly imagined that drinks that were too hot or too cold were unhealthy.  The advice there can be ignored.  The WoW is clearly spot on regarding tobacco and I certainly live that.  The advice on meat is good, but I admit I don&#039;t live it.  

Regarding alcohol, the WoW is clearly embedded in pre-Prohibition Temperance-movement era America.  There&#039;s a minority of people who can&#039;t drink safely who should abstain entirely and obviously alcohol and driving (and other activities) don&#039;t mix --- which (in my view) is more a condemnation of suburbs than alcohol.  But in general, I think moderate use of alcohol has positive social benefits.  

In Community of Christ, on the books use of alcohol has been prohibited for priesthood (which is held by a minority of members).  This mostly unenforced rule has been re-examined as of the most recent World Conference.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>J:  I think the word of wisdom is just that:  a word of wisdom; not a test of faith.   As with all scripture, it exists within its time and context in history.  People in the 19th century wrongly imagined that drinks that were too hot or too cold were unhealthy.  The advice there can be ignored.  The WoW is clearly spot on regarding tobacco and I certainly live that.  The advice on meat is good, but I admit I don&#8217;t live it.  </p>
<p>Regarding alcohol, the WoW is clearly embedded in pre-Prohibition Temperance-movement era America.  There&#8217;s a minority of people who can&#8217;t drink safely who should abstain entirely and obviously alcohol and driving (and other activities) don&#8217;t mix &#8212; which (in my view) is more a condemnation of suburbs than alcohol.  But in general, I think moderate use of alcohol has positive social benefits.  </p>
<p>In Community of Christ, on the books use of alcohol has been prohibited for priesthood (which is held by a minority of members).  This mostly unenforced rule has been re-examined as of the most recent World Conference.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:32:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, Paul!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Paul!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:31:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for saying so, Steve.  Rest assured, we will not let the temple go.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for saying so, Steve.  Rest assured, we will not let the temple go.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:20:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow, that was deep John, I love it!  This is some really good stuff.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, that was deep John, I love it!  This is some really good stuff.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 00:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have one other point to make:

Let&#039;s say, hypothetically of course, that conclusive evidence (not NHM) is discovered and the Book of Mormon is demonstrated to have elements of historical accuracy. It would still fit the pseudepigraphical, scriptural tradition. For example, many of the forgotten/non-canonized books of the Bible contain certain truths, however the story is exaggerated to a level beyond the realm of historical fact. Also, a book like the Koran and, as I referenced above, Native American oral traditions all contain pieces of truth, however they are glorified and expanded. An example in the Book of Mormon would be the story of Jaredite submarines. 

Again, this post is all hypothetical, however the bottom line is that no matter what, the Book of Mormon fits into a long line of scriptural tradition. If we were to accept the Book of Mormon in the manner outlined above, then we would also have to accept the Koran, Native stories, etc.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have one other point to make:</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s say, hypothetically of course, that conclusive evidence (not NHM) is discovered and the Book of Mormon is demonstrated to have elements of historical accuracy. It would still fit the pseudepigraphical, scriptural tradition. For example, many of the forgotten/non-canonized books of the Bible contain certain truths, however the story is exaggerated to a level beyond the realm of historical fact. Also, a book like the Koran and, as I referenced above, Native American oral traditions all contain pieces of truth, however they are glorified and expanded. An example in the Book of Mormon would be the story of Jaredite submarines. </p>
<p>Again, this post is all hypothetical, however the bottom line is that no matter what, the Book of Mormon fits into a long line of scriptural tradition. If we were to accept the Book of Mormon in the manner outlined above, then we would also have to accept the Koran, Native stories, etc.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Steve In Millcreek (SIM)</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-493013</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve In Millcreek (SIM)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 22:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[John Hamer, I ask to change topic somewhat.

Over recent months, I attended worship services at about 30 churches in the larger SLC UT area (other than my own: LDS) including the Community of Christ (CoC) in SLC&#039;s Millcreek area.  To add value to each visit, I attend the largest Sunday worship gathering of that faith that week.  In many cases, I see buildings and sanctuaries that are significantly larger than the week&#039;s attendances needs; and I am sad over the contrast with times past when I image that membership filled every pew.  My visits to CoC in Millcreek in 2012/13 matches this.

Please comment on CoC migration history in last 50 years; primarily, the demographic movement west of (out of) Missouri?  Does the building size of CoC-Millcreek indicate expected membership growth that did not (has not yet) occurred, evidence of membership loss, or out-migration over time? Outside of Independence MO, where are largest CoC gatherings today?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John Hamer, I ask to change topic somewhat.</p>
<p>Over recent months, I attended worship services at about 30 churches in the larger SLC UT area (other than my own: LDS) including the Community of Christ (CoC) in SLC&#8217;s Millcreek area.  To add value to each visit, I attend the largest Sunday worship gathering of that faith that week.  In many cases, I see buildings and sanctuaries that are significantly larger than the week&#8217;s attendances needs; and I am sad over the contrast with times past when I image that membership filled every pew.  My visits to CoC in Millcreek in 2012/13 matches this.</p>
<p>Please comment on CoC migration history in last 50 years; primarily, the demographic movement west of (out of) Missouri?  Does the building size of CoC-Millcreek indicate expected membership growth that did not (has not yet) occurred, evidence of membership loss, or out-migration over time? Outside of Independence MO, where are largest CoC gatherings today?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 424-425: Rachel Held Evans and A Year of Biblical Womanhood by AJP</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/rachel_held_evans/comment-page-1/#comment-493011</link>
		<dc:creator>AJP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:52:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I loved this interview.  I love the concept that our relationship with God is more important than our &quot;role&quot; as a woman (Rachel said it better I just can&#039;t remember her phrasing).  

My sister-in-law is Russian and a convert.  Sometimes we talk about these kinds of issues int he church and she always finds it humorous because these aren&#039;t really issues in the International LDS culture.  At least not so much in Europe.  I don&#039;t think she ever thought of herself as a feminist or progressive until she moved here to the US and was told she is.  

For multiple reasons, mainly cost of living, its just common for women to work.  It&#039;s not just Russia either because she has lived in other countries in Europe.  That was my experience when I lived in Asia.  It&#039;s like there isn&#039;t really a concept of &quot;homemaking&quot;. Just curious if any other non-US women or anyone that has lived outside the US has found this is the case.  The &quot;ideal&quot; life for women is to get an education and a career to support the family.

What is the root of this in the US?  Is it our Puritan roots?  Just that we are more religious/conservative in the US? I think that is the conclusion.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this interview.  I love the concept that our relationship with God is more important than our &#8220;role&#8221; as a woman (Rachel said it better I just can&#8217;t remember her phrasing).  </p>
<p>My sister-in-law is Russian and a convert.  Sometimes we talk about these kinds of issues int he church and she always finds it humorous because these aren&#8217;t really issues in the International LDS culture.  At least not so much in Europe.  I don&#8217;t think she ever thought of herself as a feminist or progressive until she moved here to the US and was told she is.  </p>
<p>For multiple reasons, mainly cost of living, its just common for women to work.  It&#8217;s not just Russia either because she has lived in other countries in Europe.  That was my experience when I lived in Asia.  It&#8217;s like there isn&#8217;t really a concept of &#8220;homemaking&#8221;. Just curious if any other non-US women or anyone that has lived outside the US has found this is the case.  The &#8220;ideal&#8221; life for women is to get an education and a career to support the family.</p>
<p>What is the root of this in the US?  Is it our Puritan roots?  Just that we are more religious/conservative in the US? I think that is the conclusion.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by j</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-493010</link>
		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:46:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Sunday School lesson this week was about the word of wisdom. In the LDS faith the Word of Wisdom didn&#039;t become a commandment until around 1942 when things like coffee and tea where outlawed. Not caffeinated soda drinks. At least not yet. The word of wisdom in the LDS church has become a symbol of ones worthiness and is mandated in order for a person to enter an LDS temple. 

Do you personally live the word of wisdom as out line in section 89 of the DandC. If so, how do you live it and how do you define it? in example &quot;hot drinks&quot;. What enfaces if any is given to the word of wisdom with in the CoC?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Sunday School lesson this week was about the word of wisdom. In the LDS faith the Word of Wisdom didn&#8217;t become a commandment until around 1942 when things like coffee and tea where outlawed. Not caffeinated soda drinks. At least not yet. The word of wisdom in the LDS church has become a symbol of ones worthiness and is mandated in order for a person to enter an LDS temple. </p>
<p>Do you personally live the word of wisdom as out line in section 89 of the DandC. If so, how do you live it and how do you define it? in example &#8220;hot drinks&#8221;. What enfaces if any is given to the word of wisdom with in the CoC?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Steve In Millcreek (SIM)</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-493009</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve In Millcreek (SIM)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Paul, In my opinion, the Community of Christ (CoC)is the best steward of the Kirtland temple; and their continuing ownership and oversight of that space cannot be improved. If LDS owned or managed it, they would polish it to the extreme; and house missionaries next door 24/7. While I love much about my ongoing LDS faith, I feel that many LDS sites are used to over-simplify and over-glamorize Latter-day history, turning them into a 19th century edition of 1950s Americana, (i.e., June Cleaver, Norman Rockwell, ..).  Further, if CoC let it go, I&#039;d prefer to see another one of the Missouri churches (such as the Remnant or Temple Lot churches) be next in line. Comments?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paul, In my opinion, the Community of Christ (CoC)is the best steward of the Kirtland temple; and their continuing ownership and oversight of that space cannot be improved. If LDS owned or managed it, they would polish it to the extreme; and house missionaries next door 24/7. While I love much about my ongoing LDS faith, I feel that many LDS sites are used to over-simplify and over-glamorize Latter-day history, turning them into a 19th century edition of 1950s Americana, (i.e., June Cleaver, Norman Rockwell, ..).  Further, if CoC let it go, I&#8217;d prefer to see another one of the Missouri churches (such as the Remnant or Temple Lot churches) be next in line. Comments?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by j</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-493008</link>
		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:36:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stormin.
I said different religions hold different value. You may not find much value in a particular religion where another person or society might.  I find it hard to believe that you cant find any thing beautiful with in the Mormon religion. You don&#039;t have to believe all the doctrine or be a Mormon to find value with in the LDS faith. All you can see is the negative at this point. I guess that is ok, I was heading down that same path when I first found out about some of the more questionable history of the LDS church. At first I wondered if I had been deliberately deceived. It created a lot of doubt in me and at one point I thought it was black and white like how you and president Hinckley see it. Its ether all true or its all false. That view is something you do have in common with the main stream LDS faith. Some people are able to move on from this point at witch you are at and some people are not. I hope you are like the first and able to find some value where others might find none.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stormin.<br />
I said different religions hold different value. You may not find much value in a particular religion where another person or society might.  I find it hard to believe that you cant find any thing beautiful with in the Mormon religion. You don&#8217;t have to believe all the doctrine or be a Mormon to find value with in the LDS faith. All you can see is the negative at this point. I guess that is ok, I was heading down that same path when I first found out about some of the more questionable history of the LDS church. At first I wondered if I had been deliberately deceived. It created a lot of doubt in me and at one point I thought it was black and white like how you and president Hinckley see it. Its ether all true or its all false. That view is something you do have in common with the main stream LDS faith. Some people are able to move on from this point at witch you are at and some people are not. I hope you are like the first and able to find some value where others might find none.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by mg</title>
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		<dc:creator>mg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 17:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;...Is the whole meaning of life simply a test of obedience to the transcription? &quot;  I find your view on this topic refreshing and enlightening.

I would have to say that, yes, the LDS meaning of life is one big test of obedience.  To the leaders, scriptures, or what ever they decide it to be.  The fact that people close to me know it, believe it, and choose to follow it baffles me to no end.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;&#8230;Is the whole meaning of life simply a test of obedience to the transcription? &#8221;  I find your view on this topic refreshing and enlightening.</p>
<p>I would have to say that, yes, the LDS meaning of life is one big test of obedience.  To the leaders, scriptures, or what ever they decide it to be.  The fact that people close to me know it, believe it, and choose to follow it baffles me to no end.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492993</link>
		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 14:11:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, Paul, I really appreciate that.

I think your suggestion is a worthwhile exercise to do.  There would be lots of different categories, such as &quot;things that were clearly unethical judged by contemporary 19th century standards&quot; to &quot;things that I personally wouldn&#039;t feel comfortable doing ethically&quot; to &quot;things that had bad consequences that were unintended,&quot; etc.

For myself, I think the obsessive focus on Joseph Smith (by historians, by adherents of Restoration tradition churches, by post-Mormons, and by unrelated detractors) isn&#039;t particularly healthy, useful, or interesting.  For me, Joseph Smith is not the most interesting part of the Restoration story, which is why I always prefer to talk about early members of the movement in general and not focus on this one single member in particular.  If I end up writing a history of the early church, I&#039;ve thought I would either write it from Emma&#039;s perspective entirely (tentatively titled, &quot;Emma, Her Sons, Their Church, and the Latter Day Saints); or else from the perspective of regular members out in the branches (a much more difficult proposition, which may not be possible).  

I think that Mark Scherer&#039;s concept for his 3-Volume history of the Restoration, Reorganization, and Community of Christ was entitled &quot;The Journey of a People&quot; with the idea that it should be more than just a myopic headquarters-centric history.  (Sadly, most histories of the church tend to read like biographies of Joseph Smith Jr. slightly expanded to include some institutional history around him.) 

Anyway, I realize that I&#039;m unusual in my relative disinterest in Joseph Smith as opposed to the movement he participated in.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Paul, I really appreciate that.</p>
<p>I think your suggestion is a worthwhile exercise to do.  There would be lots of different categories, such as &#8220;things that were clearly unethical judged by contemporary 19th century standards&#8221; to &#8220;things that I personally wouldn&#8217;t feel comfortable doing ethically&#8221; to &#8220;things that had bad consequences that were unintended,&#8221; etc.</p>
<p>For myself, I think the obsessive focus on Joseph Smith (by historians, by adherents of Restoration tradition churches, by post-Mormons, and by unrelated detractors) isn&#8217;t particularly healthy, useful, or interesting.  For me, Joseph Smith is not the most interesting part of the Restoration story, which is why I always prefer to talk about early members of the movement in general and not focus on this one single member in particular.  If I end up writing a history of the early church, I&#8217;ve thought I would either write it from Emma&#8217;s perspective entirely (tentatively titled, &#8220;Emma, Her Sons, Their Church, and the Latter Day Saints); or else from the perspective of regular members out in the branches (a much more difficult proposition, which may not be possible).  </p>
<p>I think that Mark Scherer&#8217;s concept for his 3-Volume history of the Restoration, Reorganization, and Community of Christ was entitled &#8220;The Journey of a People&#8221; with the idea that it should be more than just a myopic headquarters-centric history.  (Sadly, most histories of the church tend to read like biographies of Joseph Smith Jr. slightly expanded to include some institutional history around him.) </p>
<p>Anyway, I realize that I&#8217;m unusual in my relative disinterest in Joseph Smith as opposed to the movement he participated in.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492990</link>
		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:31:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stormin:  Joseph Smith, the LDS Church, the FLDS Church, and Ex-Mormon atheists, are all different things.

If you&#039;re an Ex-Mormon atheist, you&#039;ll eventually find that there are worse tragedies in the world than missionaries traveling around converting people to the LDS Church.

However, if you&#039;re an Evangelical Christian, you are a hypocrite who is plainly ignorant of the history of Christianity in general and of textual criticism of the Bible in particular.  You are the person of whom Jesus spoke when he asks why are you paying attention to the mote in your brother&#039;s eye, when you ignore the beam in your own?  You should study the results of 2 centuries of Christian scholarship on the Bible before worrying yourself about Mormonism further.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stormin:  Joseph Smith, the LDS Church, the FLDS Church, and Ex-Mormon atheists, are all different things.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re an Ex-Mormon atheist, you&#8217;ll eventually find that there are worse tragedies in the world than missionaries traveling around converting people to the LDS Church.</p>
<p>However, if you&#8217;re an Evangelical Christian, you are a hypocrite who is plainly ignorant of the history of Christianity in general and of textual criticism of the Bible in particular.  You are the person of whom Jesus spoke when he asks why are you paying attention to the mote in your brother&#8217;s eye, when you ignore the beam in your own?  You should study the results of 2 centuries of Christian scholarship on the Bible before worrying yourself about Mormonism further.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492989</link>
		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because he&#039;s talking about oaths.  He just said don&#039;t say, &quot;I swear by God that X is the case&quot; or &quot;I swear by heaven that I never did Y&quot;.  The idea here is that swearing oaths is blasphemy.

This teaching about oaths is not saying that the content of everything else we might talk about should be deleted in favor of just wandering around all day saying &quot;yes, yes, no, no.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because he&#8217;s talking about oaths.  He just said don&#8217;t say, &#8220;I swear by God that X is the case&#8221; or &#8220;I swear by heaven that I never did Y&#8221;.  The idea here is that swearing oaths is blasphemy.</p>
<p>This teaching about oaths is not saying that the content of everything else we might talk about should be deleted in favor of just wandering around all day saying &#8220;yes, yes, no, no.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Paul B</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492985</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 06:19:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Community of Christ as the Diet Pepsi version of the LDS Church’s Coke”

Actually the CofC may be more of the “real thing,” where as the SLC, LDS church may be just ‘flat pop’ when considering which one is more of an experiential ‘Jesus’ church (from my personal experience with regard to the SLC, LDS church).

John, you have been very forbearing by responding to my postings with great technique and decorum, hence, I want to acknowledge that you are also the “real thing” -- a real scholar AND a gentleman.

Perhaps this is outside the scope of this podcast, but I had a thought. It seems that a lot of the ‘validation/credibility’ comments posted here are most pertinent to JS and the Book of Mormon. With regard to JS, however, it would be interesting to see a comparative list of what is perceived as being ‘good’ about JS as to what is perceived as being ‘bad’ (the contrasting headings ‘good’ and ‘bad’ could be substituted with something similar). In other words, being that it was declared by the angel that JS’s name “shall be known for good and evil among all nations; the righteous shall rejoice while the wicked shall rage,” it may be useful or of interest to actually list both those ‘good’ and ‘evil’ attributes, works, behaviors, subjective opinions, conjectures, etc.  Just a suggestion.

And again, thanks for all that you do and have done for the enlightenment of many of us.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Community of Christ as the Diet Pepsi version of the LDS Church’s Coke”</p>
<p>Actually the CofC may be more of the “real thing,” where as the SLC, LDS church may be just ‘flat pop’ when considering which one is more of an experiential ‘Jesus’ church (from my personal experience with regard to the SLC, LDS church).</p>
<p>John, you have been very forbearing by responding to my postings with great technique and decorum, hence, I want to acknowledge that you are also the “real thing” &#8212; a real scholar AND a gentleman.</p>
<p>Perhaps this is outside the scope of this podcast, but I had a thought. It seems that a lot of the ‘validation/credibility’ comments posted here are most pertinent to JS and the Book of Mormon. With regard to JS, however, it would be interesting to see a comparative list of what is perceived as being ‘good’ about JS as to what is perceived as being ‘bad’ (the contrasting headings ‘good’ and ‘bad’ could be substituted with something similar). In other words, being that it was declared by the angel that JS’s name “shall be known for good and evil among all nations; the righteous shall rejoice while the wicked shall rage,” it may be useful or of interest to actually list both those ‘good’ and ‘evil’ attributes, works, behaviors, subjective opinions, conjectures, etc.  Just a suggestion.</p>
<p>And again, thanks for all that you do and have done for the enlightenment of many of us.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Glen Fullmer</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492984</link>
		<dc:creator>Glen Fullmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 05:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is no gray (binary) if you look at anything at the appropriate level. I think this is why Jesus said, or as Matthew said he said, or whoever wrote Matthew said he said, &quot;But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.&quot;  Sounds like a pretty &quot;black and white&quot; kind of guy to me !  ;-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is no gray (binary) if you look at anything at the appropriate level. I think this is why Jesus said, or as Matthew said he said, or whoever wrote Matthew said he said, &#8220;But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.&#8221;  Sounds like a pretty &#8220;black and white&#8221; kind of guy to me !  <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Stormin</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492983</link>
		<dc:creator>Stormin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 04:23:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A lot of beauty caused by Joseph Smith and LDS inc. ??? Polygamy that has many young women in the FLDS church in bondage and depraved in numerous ways NOW.  Millions that pay LDS inc. (a corporation that runs various businesses) a tithing and doing mindless/worthless temple and church work instead of being home with their families thinking they are pleasing God versus just providing more investment money to the Cons in Charge.  Missionaries traveling the world converting people to a FRAUD and a False God.  Finally, just think of the many of us that have identified LDS inc. as a fraud  ------ many ( around 50%) lose their testimony of Jesus Christ/God and become atheists!  Oh the Beauty that Joseph Smith brought to the World ----- lets hope he can receive his just reward for the hurt he has caused in this world!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of beauty caused by Joseph Smith and LDS inc. ??? Polygamy that has many young women in the FLDS church in bondage and depraved in numerous ways NOW.  Millions that pay LDS inc. (a corporation that runs various businesses) a tithing and doing mindless/worthless temple and church work instead of being home with their families thinking they are pleasing God versus just providing more investment money to the Cons in Charge.  Missionaries traveling the world converting people to a FRAUD and a False God.  Finally, just think of the many of us that have identified LDS inc. as a fraud  &#8212;&#8212; many ( around 50%) lose their testimony of Jesus Christ/God and become atheists!  Oh the Beauty that Joseph Smith brought to the World &#8212;&#8211; lets hope he can receive his just reward for the hurt he has caused in this world!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by N. Bruce Nelson</title>
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		<dc:creator>N. Bruce Nelson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 02:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[While excommunications are very rare, they can still happen.  One example is that if a polygamous member of the church takes on an additional wife after baptism, they are excommunicated.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While excommunications are very rare, they can still happen.  One example is that if a polygamous member of the church takes on an additional wife after baptism, they are excommunicated.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 02:49:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great points, j!

President Hinckley&#039;s statement only serves to widen the dichotomy between Mormonism and other world views. In my opinion, such bold declarations are the inevitable side effect of portraying an institution as the one true church. Especially with regards to the Utah church, they are finding themselves in a corner in terms of dealing with the reality of history. The progressive nature of the Community of Christ is refreshing compared to the dominant orthodoxy of the Utah sect. By making black and white statements, we neglect to find any value in the gray. This discussion board has shown that inspiration can exist even in fiction or, in scriptural terms, pseudepigrapha.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great points, j!</p>
<p>President Hinckley&#8217;s statement only serves to widen the dichotomy between Mormonism and other world views. In my opinion, such bold declarations are the inevitable side effect of portraying an institution as the one true church. Especially with regards to the Utah church, they are finding themselves in a corner in terms of dealing with the reality of history. The progressive nature of the Community of Christ is refreshing compared to the dominant orthodoxy of the Utah sect. By making black and white statements, we neglect to find any value in the gray. This discussion board has shown that inspiration can exist even in fiction or, in scriptural terms, pseudepigrapha.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by j</title>
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		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 02:27:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m not as scholarly or articulate as many of you who post here. I like the conversation taking place. If I might humbly address this issue of what makes scripture and what does not. As the Christen scriptures say we are children of God. Offspring of God. He made us. We are part of his creation the Universe. We are intricately connected with God and his inspired creations. We are part of God. I feel that how ever scripture comes about it is inspired. Even if those writings are produced by the synapse in a human brain firing. That being every thing that man can produce or put to paper. Some of it is more helpful or more entertaining or more inspiring than others. 

Regarding President Hinckley&#039;s comment about the church being true or a fraud, it is a very black and white statement and he misses the point. Even if the LDS church is a fraud it is still divine. The LDS church (how ever you think it came into being) is still with in the realm of the universe and is one of Gods creations. Just because the human race is fallible doesn&#039;t discredit our value in being beautiful or created by God. There is great beauty with in the LDS faith. There is wonderful and inspired things with in the church. Many faiths have their short comings but it does not mean they are not with out value. Some more than others. I think the diversity of religions on the planet is a good thing. Even the ones that are quote un quote &quot;wrong&quot; labeled as a fraud.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not as scholarly or articulate as many of you who post here. I like the conversation taking place. If I might humbly address this issue of what makes scripture and what does not. As the Christen scriptures say we are children of God. Offspring of God. He made us. We are part of his creation the Universe. We are intricately connected with God and his inspired creations. We are part of God. I feel that how ever scripture comes about it is inspired. Even if those writings are produced by the synapse in a human brain firing. That being every thing that man can produce or put to paper. Some of it is more helpful or more entertaining or more inspiring than others. </p>
<p>Regarding President Hinckley&#8217;s comment about the church being true or a fraud, it is a very black and white statement and he misses the point. Even if the LDS church is a fraud it is still divine. The LDS church (how ever you think it came into being) is still with in the realm of the universe and is one of Gods creations. Just because the human race is fallible doesn&#8217;t discredit our value in being beautiful or created by God. There is great beauty with in the LDS faith. There is wonderful and inspired things with in the church. Many faiths have their short comings but it does not mean they are not with out value. Some more than others. I think the diversity of religions on the planet is a good thing. Even the ones that are quote un quote &#8220;wrong&#8221; labeled as a fraud.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 23:48:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Very nice points, Jeff.

I would like to add that my argument here is that if a person wants to value scripture, they have give up the modern, reactionary definition of scripture, i.e., that scripture is the literal, inerrant, and authoritative word of God, written down effectively by a human dictaphone who actually hears God speak in a physical, anthropomorphized voice.  If that is approximately your definition of scripture, the answer is that scripture does not exist because nothing exists that fits that definition.  

Glen:  I believe you&#039;re essentially asking, what&#039;s the point of scripture if we&#039;re not talking about the actual transcription of a divine dictaphone?  We ought to turn that around and ask what would the point be of scripture that was like that, if such a thing did exist?  Is the whole meaning of life simply a test of obedience to the transcription?   Why would God want to test whether we are mindlessly obedient to the transcription?   Is that a recipe for a valuable and meaningful life?  What&#039;s the point of an unthinking life like that?    

Conceiving of scripture as the literal word of God, as opposed to the human response to God, is imputing divinity to text.  This is, in my view, scripture-worship and idolatry.  Moreover, believing that Thomas S. Monson or Joseph Smith is spoken to by God in a way that is a complete order of magnitude different than that available to everyone else is imputing a kind of divinity (certainly supernatural powers) to men.  This is, in my view, leader-worship and idolatry.

If instead scripture is vital and profound human responses to God, then you are reading collected wisdom and experience of people facing life&#039;s issues throughout time, along with parables, symbolic stories, theology, philosophy, laments, prayers, and more.  From these you can find new inspiration and meaning as you read and interpret them anew.  These aren&#039;t rule books to prevent us from thinking, they are tools that we can use by thinking for ourselves.

And could John D&#039;s neighbor write something profound and meaningful in his journal that could be valuable to him and you and me?  Maybe so.  The heavens are open.  All are called.   If only one person were called and we were merely called to listen to that person, we would called to idolatry and leader-worship.  Does the worth of all persons necessarily lead to confusion? It obviously does not lead to everyone agreeing about everything, which is not necessarily a bad thing.   But it also doesn&#039;t lead to mindless obedience, which is a good thing.  Church doesn&#039;t have to be one person standing up front talking about a talk that leaders gave a few months back, which itself is just a correlated rehash of previous talks given by leaders.  Having a discussion like this one about scripture and life and faith can be church.

For myself, I believe there&#039;s no value to deciding that the point of life is simply memorizing  a set of answers or obeying a set of rules or worshiping another human being as if he were a semi-divine viceroy of God.  I believe the point of life is to engage our minds, to debate propositions, to ponder ethics, to test ideals, and to continually increase in intelligence?   

Joseph Smith believed that the glory of God is intelligence (LDS D&amp;C 93:36).  The ancient prophet who wrote the Priestly source of what was later combined to create Genesis believed that humans are made in God&#039;s image (Genesis 1:27).  Shakespeare argued that the quality that made humanity godlike was our &quot;apprehension&quot; or understanding (Hamlet II:2).  

For me, this is a foundation for a meaningful meaning of life --- with discoveries and discussions forever building from there.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very nice points, Jeff.</p>
<p>I would like to add that my argument here is that if a person wants to value scripture, they have give up the modern, reactionary definition of scripture, i.e., that scripture is the literal, inerrant, and authoritative word of God, written down effectively by a human dictaphone who actually hears God speak in a physical, anthropomorphized voice.  If that is approximately your definition of scripture, the answer is that scripture does not exist because nothing exists that fits that definition.  </p>
<p>Glen:  I believe you&#8217;re essentially asking, what&#8217;s the point of scripture if we&#8217;re not talking about the actual transcription of a divine dictaphone?  We ought to turn that around and ask what would the point be of scripture that was like that, if such a thing did exist?  Is the whole meaning of life simply a test of obedience to the transcription?   Why would God want to test whether we are mindlessly obedient to the transcription?   Is that a recipe for a valuable and meaningful life?  What&#8217;s the point of an unthinking life like that?    </p>
<p>Conceiving of scripture as the literal word of God, as opposed to the human response to God, is imputing divinity to text.  This is, in my view, scripture-worship and idolatry.  Moreover, believing that Thomas S. Monson or Joseph Smith is spoken to by God in a way that is a complete order of magnitude different than that available to everyone else is imputing a kind of divinity (certainly supernatural powers) to men.  This is, in my view, leader-worship and idolatry.</p>
<p>If instead scripture is vital and profound human responses to God, then you are reading collected wisdom and experience of people facing life&#8217;s issues throughout time, along with parables, symbolic stories, theology, philosophy, laments, prayers, and more.  From these you can find new inspiration and meaning as you read and interpret them anew.  These aren&#8217;t rule books to prevent us from thinking, they are tools that we can use by thinking for ourselves.</p>
<p>And could John D&#8217;s neighbor write something profound and meaningful in his journal that could be valuable to him and you and me?  Maybe so.  The heavens are open.  All are called.   If only one person were called and we were merely called to listen to that person, we would called to idolatry and leader-worship.  Does the worth of all persons necessarily lead to confusion? It obviously does not lead to everyone agreeing about everything, which is not necessarily a bad thing.   But it also doesn&#8217;t lead to mindless obedience, which is a good thing.  Church doesn&#8217;t have to be one person standing up front talking about a talk that leaders gave a few months back, which itself is just a correlated rehash of previous talks given by leaders.  Having a discussion like this one about scripture and life and faith can be church.</p>
<p>For myself, I believe there&#8217;s no value to deciding that the point of life is simply memorizing  a set of answers or obeying a set of rules or worshiping another human being as if he were a semi-divine viceroy of God.  I believe the point of life is to engage our minds, to debate propositions, to ponder ethics, to test ideals, and to continually increase in intelligence?   </p>
<p>Joseph Smith believed that the glory of God is intelligence (LDS D&amp;C 93:36).  The ancient prophet who wrote the Priestly source of what was later combined to create Genesis believed that humans are made in God&#8217;s image (Genesis 1:27).  Shakespeare argued that the quality that made humanity godlike was our &#8220;apprehension&#8221; or understanding (Hamlet II:2).  </p>
<p>For me, this is a foundation for a meaningful meaning of life &#8212; with discoveries and discussions forever building from there.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 23:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Re: &quot;I guess I’m arguing for the point (or clinging to it) that President Hinckley made in Conference years ago: It is either true or the biggest fraud perpetrated by a man.&quot;

If Gordon B. Hinckley&#039;s framing of the issue --- that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is either (1) the one and only true church on Earth authorized by God or else (2) a total fraud --- is valid to assess the organization over which he held supreme authority, the answer is not in question:  he and his church were total frauds.  The contradictions in the truth-claims are conclusive and inarguable.  

The texts of the Bible, the Moses of scripture, the Jesus of history, the apostle Paul, the Book of Mormon, Joseph Smith, Mormonism, President Gordon B. Hinckley, the LDS Church, and Community of Christ are all different things.  Gordon B. Hinckley was able to speak for himself and might have been able to speak for the institution he controlled, but the rest is beyond his monopoly to define.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Re: &#8220;I guess I’m arguing for the point (or clinging to it) that President Hinckley made in Conference years ago: It is either true or the biggest fraud perpetrated by a man.&#8221;</p>
<p>If Gordon B. Hinckley&#8217;s framing of the issue &#8212; that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is either (1) the one and only true church on Earth authorized by God or else (2) a total fraud &#8212; is valid to assess the organization over which he held supreme authority, the answer is not in question:  he and his church were total frauds.  The contradictions in the truth-claims are conclusive and inarguable.  </p>
<p>The texts of the Bible, the Moses of scripture, the Jesus of history, the apostle Paul, the Book of Mormon, Joseph Smith, Mormonism, President Gordon B. Hinckley, the LDS Church, and Community of Christ are all different things.  Gordon B. Hinckley was able to speak for himself and might have been able to speak for the institution he controlled, but the rest is beyond his monopoly to define.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 21:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Glen: If you would care to listen to my opinion on this matter, I think I may have an answer.

For the most part, it is established that the New Testament writers probably did not know Jesus as intimately as they would have us believe, but were merely recording the oral tradition of the great man Jesus from 30 years prior (or when Paul wrote 1Corinthians, 20 years prior). Much of their writings probably reflect an exaggerated rendition of a passed down story. Likewise, and even to a greater degree, the Old Testament is certainly not actual history, but an even better example of embellished Jewish oral traditions. Much of what I am saying can be seen in my earlier post.

In addition to Christian examples, the Koran contains many inspiring, yet non-literal stories as recorded by Muhammed. Native American writer Vine Deloria has portrayed the fantastic intricacies of Native American oral tales. Although they are sacred to the individual tribes, I would imagine most people (within and without) recognize that they did not actually occur as told.

Although my point contains several parts, I first refer you to John Hamer&#039;s statement above. Mythical literature and tradition has inspired people (and perhaps has been inspired) for millenia. The goal is to find the portions which resonate most profoundly, while realizing that a fundamentalist viewpoint clouds our ability to truly appreciate such writings. The second thing I would point out is that theology and dogma in general has never been a static, incorruptible concept. Historical context will always play a role in determining doctrine. With regards to D&amp;C 1, I would refer you to Joseph Smith&#039;s 1838 history. Each church was vigorously calling the other one apostate, so naturally Joseph would declare his church true. The Book of Mormon, while it is not for everyone, still fits a long-time scriptural tradition of inspirational messages which affect people deeply. Are we able to feel inspired by anyone&#039;s writings? I suppose so. However, I think scripture is different, as it stands the test of time and affects us at our very core.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glen: If you would care to listen to my opinion on this matter, I think I may have an answer.</p>
<p>For the most part, it is established that the New Testament writers probably did not know Jesus as intimately as they would have us believe, but were merely recording the oral tradition of the great man Jesus from 30 years prior (or when Paul wrote 1Corinthians, 20 years prior). Much of their writings probably reflect an exaggerated rendition of a passed down story. Likewise, and even to a greater degree, the Old Testament is certainly not actual history, but an even better example of embellished Jewish oral traditions. Much of what I am saying can be seen in my earlier post.</p>
<p>In addition to Christian examples, the Koran contains many inspiring, yet non-literal stories as recorded by Muhammed. Native American writer Vine Deloria has portrayed the fantastic intricacies of Native American oral tales. Although they are sacred to the individual tribes, I would imagine most people (within and without) recognize that they did not actually occur as told.</p>
<p>Although my point contains several parts, I first refer you to John Hamer&#8217;s statement above. Mythical literature and tradition has inspired people (and perhaps has been inspired) for millenia. The goal is to find the portions which resonate most profoundly, while realizing that a fundamentalist viewpoint clouds our ability to truly appreciate such writings. The second thing I would point out is that theology and dogma in general has never been a static, incorruptible concept. Historical context will always play a role in determining doctrine. With regards to D&amp;C 1, I would refer you to Joseph Smith&#8217;s 1838 history. Each church was vigorously calling the other one apostate, so naturally Joseph would declare his church true. The Book of Mormon, while it is not for everyone, still fits a long-time scriptural tradition of inspirational messages which affect people deeply. Are we able to feel inspired by anyone&#8217;s writings? I suppose so. However, I think scripture is different, as it stands the test of time and affects us at our very core.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Glen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 21:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for the podcast.  I enjoyed the discussion.

This comment is directed to both Johns.   John Dehlin posed a question that did not seem to be answered by either John D. or John H.  The discussion was regarding scripture and whether to view it literally or some other way.  I think John H. presented the idea that scripture is largely the impressions of men.  My best recollection of the question posed by John D. regarding scripture is this:  &quot;What&#039;s the point (if its the impressions of men), then that is not really scripture, what that is is a bunch of other peoples&#039; opinions, biases.  What&#039;s holy about that?  And, why is that compelling to warrant our attention, if in reality it is not inherently superior to what my friend might write in his journal.&quot; Its about 45 minutes into Part II.

In a sense broader than this podcast topic, I think this question deserves an entire episode.  If, for example, one of the New Testament writers provided us with his opinions, his recollections, etc. then why should I value his writings any more than I might value John Dehlins&#039;s or John Hamer&#039;s opinions and writings.  Similarly, if Joseph Smith&#039;s revelations (like D&amp;C 1 about the one and only true church) are simply his ideas....well...then they are simply his ideas that are of no more value than some other man&#039;s opinions about a church he might have started.

I can&#039;t quite write the right words to capture my problem in this subject area.  If I read the Book of Mormon or the D&amp;C or the Bible, what am I reading?  Am I reading the word of God?  Either I am or I am not....if I am not then of what value is it?  I know this is black and white thinking that many discount.  So, what about the middle ground, if such writings are sometimes the Word of God and sometimes the words of man....then the same question seems relevant:  What value is it to me because then somebody or myself would have to figure out which portions were God talking or which were a man.

Or, another middle ground: &quot;What if they are an approximation of what God said to the prophet...the prophets best attempt to formulate into words what he experienced.&quot;  If that is true, then which prophet has the best formulation, the most correct, etc.  And, if its true, then really any person who has a spiritual experience might qualify as somebody we ought to listen to.  But, then the problem is that there are too many opinions/experiences that differ.  Still seems to lead to the same confusion.

I guess I&#039;m arguing for the point (or clinging to it) that President Hinckley made in Conference years ago:  It is either true or the biggest fraud perpetrated by a man.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the podcast.  I enjoyed the discussion.</p>
<p>This comment is directed to both Johns.   John Dehlin posed a question that did not seem to be answered by either John D. or John H.  The discussion was regarding scripture and whether to view it literally or some other way.  I think John H. presented the idea that scripture is largely the impressions of men.  My best recollection of the question posed by John D. regarding scripture is this:  &#8220;What&#8217;s the point (if its the impressions of men), then that is not really scripture, what that is is a bunch of other peoples&#8217; opinions, biases.  What&#8217;s holy about that?  And, why is that compelling to warrant our attention, if in reality it is not inherently superior to what my friend might write in his journal.&#8221; Its about 45 minutes into Part II.</p>
<p>In a sense broader than this podcast topic, I think this question deserves an entire episode.  If, for example, one of the New Testament writers provided us with his opinions, his recollections, etc. then why should I value his writings any more than I might value John Dehlins&#8217;s or John Hamer&#8217;s opinions and writings.  Similarly, if Joseph Smith&#8217;s revelations (like D&amp;C 1 about the one and only true church) are simply his ideas&#8230;.well&#8230;then they are simply his ideas that are of no more value than some other man&#8217;s opinions about a church he might have started.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t quite write the right words to capture my problem in this subject area.  If I read the Book of Mormon or the D&amp;C or the Bible, what am I reading?  Am I reading the word of God?  Either I am or I am not&#8230;.if I am not then of what value is it?  I know this is black and white thinking that many discount.  So, what about the middle ground, if such writings are sometimes the Word of God and sometimes the words of man&#8230;.then the same question seems relevant:  What value is it to me because then somebody or myself would have to figure out which portions were God talking or which were a man.</p>
<p>Or, another middle ground: &#8220;What if they are an approximation of what God said to the prophet&#8230;the prophets best attempt to formulate into words what he experienced.&#8221;  If that is true, then which prophet has the best formulation, the most correct, etc.  And, if its true, then really any person who has a spiritual experience might qualify as somebody we ought to listen to.  But, then the problem is that there are too many opinions/experiences that differ.  Still seems to lead to the same confusion.</p>
<p>I guess I&#8217;m arguing for the point (or clinging to it) that President Hinckley made in Conference years ago:  It is either true or the biggest fraud perpetrated by a man.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 19:25:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I should also say that I&#039;m simultaneously arguing that you can view Judeo-Christianity whole-cloth, including the Restoration, as fraudulent.  That&#039;s a reality-based, defensible perspective today that everyone is free to have.  

The indefensible perspectives are fundamentalism (believing that the stories here in the Bible and/or the Book of Mormon are literal histories).  Even here, everyone is free to have that perspective; but if they do, it means that their world-view is going to be less useful at predicting reality than a reality-based world-view would be.

Here&#039;s an analogy:  You can reject Newton entirely because he believed fervently in what he thought was the science of astrology.  Or you can pick the parts of Newton out that are good and emphasize those while rejecting his mistakes.  Both of these are defensible positions.  The indefensible position would be worshiping Newton and viewing all of his writings as authoritative (fundamentalism).]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I should also say that I&#8217;m simultaneously arguing that you can view Judeo-Christianity whole-cloth, including the Restoration, as fraudulent.  That&#8217;s a reality-based, defensible perspective today that everyone is free to have.  </p>
<p>The indefensible perspectives are fundamentalism (believing that the stories here in the Bible and/or the Book of Mormon are literal histories).  Even here, everyone is free to have that perspective; but if they do, it means that their world-view is going to be less useful at predicting reality than a reality-based world-view would be.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an analogy:  You can reject Newton entirely because he believed fervently in what he thought was the science of astrology.  Or you can pick the parts of Newton out that are good and emphasize those while rejecting his mistakes.  Both of these are defensible positions.  The indefensible position would be worshiping Newton and viewing all of his writings as authoritative (fundamentalism).</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 19:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Glen:  There is no real difference between the Joseph Smith story and the story of the pseudonymous author of Deuteronomy, whose book is the basis for scripture-based religion itself --- the religious reform that is at the foundation of Old Testament Judeo-Christianity.  

Likewise, we can see the same thing in the work of the canonical gospel evangelists who did not know Jesus but were very content to create stories about him.  For example, we can see directly the work of the anonymous authors of the gospels of Matthew and Luke their editing of Mark and Q and their creation of non-historical stories to fill out their books.  The work of the editors who expanded the source text in the gospel attributed to John again created stories that were entirely original to the writer and had no basis in history.  Thus, the basis for the New Testament of Christianity is also known to be what you are calling &quot;fraudulent&quot;.

However, I&#039;m arguing here that it&#039;s not fraudulent.  Rather, the error in thinking here is derived from the modern perspective that these writings should be viewed as literal history.  They should not be viewed in that way.

All tradition is compromised.  Humans are imperfect.  We are continually gaining in knowledge.  People did not have more knowledge in some golden age in the past; they had less.  That the past is imperfect is not an excuse for throwing it away. But it means that as we honor it, we mustn&#039;t consider it authoritative or enslave ourselves to it.  In Community of Christ, we don&#039;t.  
_________________

To my knowledge, people don&#039;t really get excommunicated from Community of Christ any more.  I&#039;m given to understand the last times many excommunications might have happened was during the 1980s schism when separatists were attempting to claim church property.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glen:  There is no real difference between the Joseph Smith story and the story of the pseudonymous author of Deuteronomy, whose book is the basis for scripture-based religion itself &#8212; the religious reform that is at the foundation of Old Testament Judeo-Christianity.  </p>
<p>Likewise, we can see the same thing in the work of the canonical gospel evangelists who did not know Jesus but were very content to create stories about him.  For example, we can see directly the work of the anonymous authors of the gospels of Matthew and Luke their editing of Mark and Q and their creation of non-historical stories to fill out their books.  The work of the editors who expanded the source text in the gospel attributed to John again created stories that were entirely original to the writer and had no basis in history.  Thus, the basis for the New Testament of Christianity is also known to be what you are calling &#8220;fraudulent&#8221;.</p>
<p>However, I&#8217;m arguing here that it&#8217;s not fraudulent.  Rather, the error in thinking here is derived from the modern perspective that these writings should be viewed as literal history.  They should not be viewed in that way.</p>
<p>All tradition is compromised.  Humans are imperfect.  We are continually gaining in knowledge.  People did not have more knowledge in some golden age in the past; they had less.  That the past is imperfect is not an excuse for throwing it away. But it means that as we honor it, we mustn&#8217;t consider it authoritative or enslave ourselves to it.  In Community of Christ, we don&#8217;t.<br />
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<p>To my knowledge, people don&#8217;t really get excommunicated from Community of Christ any more.  I&#8217;m given to understand the last times many excommunications might have happened was during the 1980s schism when separatists were attempting to claim church property.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Glen Fullmer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glen Fullmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:30:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks again John for taking time to answer my questions.

Given what you have said so far, I Stand All Amazed ;-) that you associate with the Community of Christ as you say it is based on a foundation of a man and a book both of whom you claimed to be fraudulent. Do you love, the organization, in spite of all of this?

Brings up another question, do they have such a thing as excommunication in the CofC?  If so, what are the conditions for that action?  Who decides?  Has it happened recently? ;-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks again John for taking time to answer my questions.</p>
<p>Given what you have said so far, I Stand All Amazed <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  that you associate with the Community of Christ as you say it is based on a foundation of a man and a book both of whom you claimed to be fraudulent. Do you love, the organization, in spite of all of this?</p>
<p>Brings up another question, do they have such a thing as excommunication in the CofC?  If so, what are the conditions for that action?  Who decides?  Has it happened recently? <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 13:59:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Question for John D: When will the next part be uploaded?! I&#039;ve been waiting with baited breath!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Question for John D: When will the next part be uploaded?! I&#8217;ve been waiting with baited breath!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Sins of a Skeptic Empire &#124; Irresistible (Dis)Grace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sins of a Skeptic Empire &#124; Irresistible (Dis)Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 04:28:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] was listening to John Dehlin&#8217;s podcast interview with John Hamer on Mormon Stories, and one thing that intrigued me were John H&#8217;s comments about the different worldview that [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] was listening to John Dehlin&#8217;s podcast interview with John Hamer on Mormon Stories, and one thing that intrigued me were John H&#8217;s comments about the different worldview that [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 04:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, I just figured if the LDS church would spend billions on a shopping mall, they might try to buy the temple too...

Glad to hear they won&#039;t sell!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, I just figured if the LDS church would spend billions on a shopping mall, they might try to buy the temple too&#8230;</p>
<p>Glad to hear they won&#8217;t sell!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 03:22:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Very good points, Jeff.]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 03:18:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Paul,

I agree with you that &quot;lying for the Lord&quot; goes back to Joseph Smith.  As I&#039;ve said, Joseph Smith did things that I don&#039;t think are ethical.  I&#039;m not trying to justify them; I&#039;m attempting to explain them in a fairly charitable way while hopefully continuing to say that one can justifiably view many of these things less charitably.  Leaders should be called out and condemned for bad behavior and error.  I think I&#039;ve called Joseph Smith out on lots of errors and bad behaviors here.

Although John D. focused a lot on Joseph Smith in the interview, the Restoration isn&#039;t only about Joseph Smith. In my brief history of Community of Christ, Joseph Jr. dies on page 13 of 72.  We can go many Sundays in a row without ever mentioning Joseph Smith.  

People who only have experience with the LDS Church can&#039;t help but think of Community of Christ as the Diet Pepsi version of the LDS Church&#039;s Coke.  But the churches are actually very different across the board; there&#039;s especially a complete difference in the way leaders are viewed --- as the humble humans they truly are in Community of Christ and as the exclusively-God-touched facades they are presented to be in the LDS Church (an impression that LDS leaders maintain also by &quot;lying for the Lord&quot;). 

You mention &quot;Praise to the Man&quot;.  The original lyrics go:

Praise to the man who commun&#039;d with Jehovah
Jesus anointed that Prophet and Seer
Mingling with Gods, he can plan for his brethren
Kings shall extol him, and nations revere.

However, Joseph Smith III himself re-wrote the lyrics for the Community of Christ version of the hymn:

Praise to the Lord for the great restoration
Brought by the angel to Joseph the Seer
Pleading with God in behalf of his brethren
The church to establish, the gospel declare.

There&#039;s the difference in trajectory right there.  And, of course, the hymn has subsequently been deleted from the hymnal altogether.

So why is God calling me to be in a Restoration tradition church that rejects lying for the Lord, that believes All are Called, and that honors heritage and scripture without seeing either as rigidly authoritative?  I believe it&#039;s because the need for such a community is so manifest among seekers in the Restoration tradition.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Paul,</p>
<p>I agree with you that &#8220;lying for the Lord&#8221; goes back to Joseph Smith.  As I&#8217;ve said, Joseph Smith did things that I don&#8217;t think are ethical.  I&#8217;m not trying to justify them; I&#8217;m attempting to explain them in a fairly charitable way while hopefully continuing to say that one can justifiably view many of these things less charitably.  Leaders should be called out and condemned for bad behavior and error.  I think I&#8217;ve called Joseph Smith out on lots of errors and bad behaviors here.</p>
<p>Although John D. focused a lot on Joseph Smith in the interview, the Restoration isn&#8217;t only about Joseph Smith. In my brief history of Community of Christ, Joseph Jr. dies on page 13 of 72.  We can go many Sundays in a row without ever mentioning Joseph Smith.  </p>
<p>People who only have experience with the LDS Church can&#8217;t help but think of Community of Christ as the Diet Pepsi version of the LDS Church&#8217;s Coke.  But the churches are actually very different across the board; there&#8217;s especially a complete difference in the way leaders are viewed &#8212; as the humble humans they truly are in Community of Christ and as the exclusively-God-touched facades they are presented to be in the LDS Church (an impression that LDS leaders maintain also by &#8220;lying for the Lord&#8221;). </p>
<p>You mention &#8220;Praise to the Man&#8221;.  The original lyrics go:</p>
<p>Praise to the man who commun&#8217;d with Jehovah<br />
Jesus anointed that Prophet and Seer<br />
Mingling with Gods, he can plan for his brethren<br />
Kings shall extol him, and nations revere.</p>
<p>However, Joseph Smith III himself re-wrote the lyrics for the Community of Christ version of the hymn:</p>
<p>Praise to the Lord for the great restoration<br />
Brought by the angel to Joseph the Seer<br />
Pleading with God in behalf of his brethren<br />
The church to establish, the gospel declare.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s the difference in trajectory right there.  And, of course, the hymn has subsequently been deleted from the hymnal altogether.</p>
<p>So why is God calling me to be in a Restoration tradition church that rejects lying for the Lord, that believes All are Called, and that honors heritage and scripture without seeing either as rigidly authoritative?  I believe it&#8217;s because the need for such a community is so manifest among seekers in the Restoration tradition.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 02:41:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like many American denominations in similar circumstances, Community of Christ is income poor, but property rich.  The church also has a pretty significant endowment that are set aside to maintain sacred properties even in the event that there was no more tithing.  

In the case of Kirtland Temple, Community of Christ recently spent millions of dollars constructing a new visitor and spiritual formation center.  The church was willing to sell undeveloped properties (including Haun&#039;s Mill site) to the LDS Church in order to perpetually endow the sacred places that have already been developed, including the Joseph &amp; Emma Smith Historic Sites in Nauvoo and Kirtland Temple.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like many American denominations in similar circumstances, Community of Christ is income poor, but property rich.  The church also has a pretty significant endowment that are set aside to maintain sacred properties even in the event that there was no more tithing.  </p>
<p>In the case of Kirtland Temple, Community of Christ recently spent millions of dollars constructing a new visitor and spiritual formation center.  The church was willing to sell undeveloped properties (including Haun&#8217;s Mill site) to the LDS Church in order to perpetually endow the sacred places that have already been developed, including the Joseph &amp; Emma Smith Historic Sites in Nauvoo and Kirtland Temple.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 02:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No, it will never be sold.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, it will never be sold.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 02:20:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. I believe that Joseph Smith and other early Saints, including David Whitmer, Martin Harris, Oliver Cowdery, Sidney Rigdon, and many, many others experienced visions and other spiritual manifestations, as did many of their contemporaries outside the Restoration, as have spiritually inclined people throughout time.  Joseph interpreted his spiritual experiences as a divine calling and I believe he believed he was called to do the work he did.  

In my opinion, he would have been very aware that he had never experienced a &quot;visitation&quot; of an externally perceivable spectral or alien being.  This should not surprise us because such visitations do not exist outside of literature.

Joseph Smith&#039;s calling, in his view, included bringing forth the Book of Mormon, as a new scripture which he believed he was producing by the gift and power of the holy spirit.  Although he used the word &quot;translating&quot; in regards to his production of the text, it&#039;s very clear from the internal and external evidence concerning the Book of Mormon, along with the comparative evidence of Joseph Smith&#039;s other scriptural compositions, that Joseph Smith did not use the word &quot;translation&quot; to mean what we mean.  Indeed, as I&#039;ve suggested, the word was relatively broadly used for various miraculous gifts that we might call magic --- e.g., translating = teleporting; translating = transforming a mortal body to an immortal body.

In producing inspired scripture via the gift and power of the spirit, I believe that Joseph Smith believed he was revealing the word of God.  In so doing, he was speaking with the prophetic voice in precisely the same way that ancient Israelite prophets spoke with the prophetic voice.  The original Isaiah, when saying &quot;thus saith the Lord,&quot; presumed to speak for the Lord.  When the later Isaiah&#039;s did this, they were not only presuming to speak for the Lord, they were doing so while pretending to be the original Isaiah.  Which you can call a pious fraud, if that is the way you view things.

What Joseph Smith knew was false was the fact that the physical plates artifact that he used to buttress his audience&#039;s belief in the book he was composing was not, in fact, an ancient object.  Rather, he knew that this was something that he had himself made, mostly likely from sheet tin.  However, that does not necessarily mean that he felt that there wasn&#039;t an actual lost record.  Another contemporary example is the translation of the scroll of the Apostle John.  Joseph didn&#039;t ever claim to have access to the scroll which he believed was on the other side of the world.  And we can tell from the &quot;translation&quot; of the scroll that this was simply another original composition of Joseph&#039;s.  In other words, I think it&#039;s quite possible Joseph believed he was channeling or restoring actual history or at least inspired stories that were the word of God.  

The plates artifact can be viewed as an avatar to channel spiritual feelings, much like the various seer stones.  Of course, seer stones are just rocks.  However, they were obviously part of Joseph&#039;s spiritual formation process.   

2. I don&#039;t have to prove that no one ever saw the golden plates; that all contact with the plates artifact was tactile.  The Book of Mormon  can be shown conclusively to be a 19th century document by its internal evidence: its ubiquitous anachronisms, its literary dependence on the King James Bible, and the fingerprints of its author, Joseph Smith.  This can be buttressed with external evidence, including Joseph Smith&#039;s additional scriptural compositions, along with actual Meso-American history.  The proofs regarding the real nature of the Book of Mormon do not hinge on the golden plates; they are conclusively proved elsewhere.

Rather, with the plates artifact and the various witnesses, we are left having to understand the evidence and testimony given what we already know:  that there were no golden plates in a physical sense. When we are talking about the testimony of the witnesses, the fact that there were no golden plates in a physical sense is not a conclusion; it&#039;s a premise that is known from other proofs.

Given that premise, how do we understand the testimony?  As you say, people encountered a physical object wrapped in a cloth or nailed in a box.  They touched it and lifted it.  In the case of the 8 witnesses: 

a. They handled the artifact yes.  Mostly likely this was a tin avatar or prop.   It was probably sheet metal because more than one witness of the plates artifact felt the leaves under the cloth.

b. In the statement they signed that Joseph wrote, the agreed that the plates were the plates &quot;of which hath been spoken, which have the appearance of gold&quot;.  That is certainly what has been spoken, that they have the appearance of gold.  We are holding them in this box, and it has been spoken that they have the appearance of gold.

c. They saw the engravings.  You can too.  Do a google image search on &quot;Anthon Transcript&quot;.  That&#039;s what they were shown.  The engravings as transcribed onto paper. 

d. They hefted the plates artifact.  They most certainly did.  In a box.  Or wrapped in a cloth.

Mary&#039;s experience, although visionary, is fairly consonant with the physical experiences people had with the physical plates artifact; except, of course, that people who saw the plates in visions could also see the angels and see the plates directly with their spiritual eyes --- something they could not do with their physical eyes.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. I believe that Joseph Smith and other early Saints, including David Whitmer, Martin Harris, Oliver Cowdery, Sidney Rigdon, and many, many others experienced visions and other spiritual manifestations, as did many of their contemporaries outside the Restoration, as have spiritually inclined people throughout time.  Joseph interpreted his spiritual experiences as a divine calling and I believe he believed he was called to do the work he did.  </p>
<p>In my opinion, he would have been very aware that he had never experienced a &#8220;visitation&#8221; of an externally perceivable spectral or alien being.  This should not surprise us because such visitations do not exist outside of literature.</p>
<p>Joseph Smith&#8217;s calling, in his view, included bringing forth the Book of Mormon, as a new scripture which he believed he was producing by the gift and power of the holy spirit.  Although he used the word &#8220;translating&#8221; in regards to his production of the text, it&#8217;s very clear from the internal and external evidence concerning the Book of Mormon, along with the comparative evidence of Joseph Smith&#8217;s other scriptural compositions, that Joseph Smith did not use the word &#8220;translation&#8221; to mean what we mean.  Indeed, as I&#8217;ve suggested, the word was relatively broadly used for various miraculous gifts that we might call magic &#8212; e.g., translating = teleporting; translating = transforming a mortal body to an immortal body.</p>
<p>In producing inspired scripture via the gift and power of the spirit, I believe that Joseph Smith believed he was revealing the word of God.  In so doing, he was speaking with the prophetic voice in precisely the same way that ancient Israelite prophets spoke with the prophetic voice.  The original Isaiah, when saying &#8220;thus saith the Lord,&#8221; presumed to speak for the Lord.  When the later Isaiah&#8217;s did this, they were not only presuming to speak for the Lord, they were doing so while pretending to be the original Isaiah.  Which you can call a pious fraud, if that is the way you view things.</p>
<p>What Joseph Smith knew was false was the fact that the physical plates artifact that he used to buttress his audience&#8217;s belief in the book he was composing was not, in fact, an ancient object.  Rather, he knew that this was something that he had himself made, mostly likely from sheet tin.  However, that does not necessarily mean that he felt that there wasn&#8217;t an actual lost record.  Another contemporary example is the translation of the scroll of the Apostle John.  Joseph didn&#8217;t ever claim to have access to the scroll which he believed was on the other side of the world.  And we can tell from the &#8220;translation&#8221; of the scroll that this was simply another original composition of Joseph&#8217;s.  In other words, I think it&#8217;s quite possible Joseph believed he was channeling or restoring actual history or at least inspired stories that were the word of God.  </p>
<p>The plates artifact can be viewed as an avatar to channel spiritual feelings, much like the various seer stones.  Of course, seer stones are just rocks.  However, they were obviously part of Joseph&#8217;s spiritual formation process.   </p>
<p>2. I don&#8217;t have to prove that no one ever saw the golden plates; that all contact with the plates artifact was tactile.  The Book of Mormon  can be shown conclusively to be a 19th century document by its internal evidence: its ubiquitous anachronisms, its literary dependence on the King James Bible, and the fingerprints of its author, Joseph Smith.  This can be buttressed with external evidence, including Joseph Smith&#8217;s additional scriptural compositions, along with actual Meso-American history.  The proofs regarding the real nature of the Book of Mormon do not hinge on the golden plates; they are conclusively proved elsewhere.</p>
<p>Rather, with the plates artifact and the various witnesses, we are left having to understand the evidence and testimony given what we already know:  that there were no golden plates in a physical sense. When we are talking about the testimony of the witnesses, the fact that there were no golden plates in a physical sense is not a conclusion; it&#8217;s a premise that is known from other proofs.</p>
<p>Given that premise, how do we understand the testimony?  As you say, people encountered a physical object wrapped in a cloth or nailed in a box.  They touched it and lifted it.  In the case of the 8 witnesses: </p>
<p>a. They handled the artifact yes.  Mostly likely this was a tin avatar or prop.   It was probably sheet metal because more than one witness of the plates artifact felt the leaves under the cloth.</p>
<p>b. In the statement they signed that Joseph wrote, the agreed that the plates were the plates &#8220;of which hath been spoken, which have the appearance of gold&#8221;.  That is certainly what has been spoken, that they have the appearance of gold.  We are holding them in this box, and it has been spoken that they have the appearance of gold.</p>
<p>c. They saw the engravings.  You can too.  Do a google image search on &#8220;Anthon Transcript&#8221;.  That&#8217;s what they were shown.  The engravings as transcribed onto paper. </p>
<p>d. They hefted the plates artifact.  They most certainly did.  In a box.  Or wrapped in a cloth.</p>
<p>Mary&#8217;s experience, although visionary, is fairly consonant with the physical experiences people had with the physical plates artifact; except, of course, that people who saw the plates in visions could also see the angels and see the plates directly with their spiritual eyes &#8212; something they could not do with their physical eyes.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 02:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Iamse7n, I am sorry you see the world through such clear black/white or right/wrong eyes.  I have no problem with what John did and in no way feel it shows he had a lack of integrity.  Rather than see him as a coward, I think he was very courageous in what he did, and at all times he remained true to himself.  Sucks to be you to see the world in such a narrow minded way.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Iamse7n, I am sorry you see the world through such clear black/white or right/wrong eyes.  I have no problem with what John did and in no way feel it shows he had a lack of integrity.  Rather than see him as a coward, I think he was very courageous in what he did, and at all times he remained true to himself.  Sucks to be you to see the world in such a narrow minded way.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 01:50:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[John, any insight on the Mormon church trying to buy the Kirkland temple from the CofC?  When was their last attempt?  How much?  Would CofC ever sell?  I hope not, I love the fact that the CofC has maintained ownership all these years...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, any insight on the Mormon church trying to buy the Kirkland temple from the CofC?  When was their last attempt?  How much?  Would CofC ever sell?  I hope not, I love the fact that the CofC has maintained ownership all these years&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Glen Fullmer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glen Fullmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 23:10:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Two comments, John:

1. Thanks for your link to Living Scripture and a Vision of the Living Restoration as I read it with interest. The is definitely the &quot;middle-way of the middle-way) ;-) But I am still confused. I am a &quot;black-and-white&quot; kind of guy when looking at anything at a correct level.  I think truth can be stated correctly when asking yes/no questions at the correct level. Labeling Joseph as a fraud, is not helpful, however, to say that he created a book, then said it was &quot;The Word of God&quot; and he received it directly from God&#039;s messengers is fraud if he knew it was false.  You are stating that his assertions are false, so my question to you, from your understanding, did he know those statements were false?

2.  Like Jared Anderson, and a lot historians both in and out of Biblical studies, you state a number of assertions that can not be proved because they are stated in the negative.  &quot;No one ever saw the physical plates&quot; is one of those statements.  You can&#039;t prove a negative.  However, the positive testimony of the 8 witnesses is pretty clear:

&quot;Be it known unto all nations, kindreds, tongues, and people, unto whom this work shall come: That Joseph Smith, Jun., the translator of this work, has shewn unto us the plates of which hath been spoken, which have the appearance of gold; and as many of the leaves as the said Smith has translated we did handle with our hands; and we also saw the engravings thereon, all of which has the appearance of ancient work, and of curious workmanship. And this we bear record with words of soberness, that the said Smith has shewn unto us, for we have seen and hefted, and know of a surety that the said Smith has got the plates of which we have spoken. And we give our names unto the world, to witness unto the world that which we have seen. And we lie not, God bearing witness of it.&quot;

a. they handled them with their hands the leaves of the book
b. they had the appearance of gold
c. they saw the engravings
d. they hefted the plates (like Emma Smith)

So you are saying that this might have been true, but only in their minds eye?

Emma Smith said they were laying around while the book was being translated and said in an interview:

&quot;The plates often lay on the table without any attempt at concealment, wrapped in a small linen tablecloth, which I had given him to fold them in. I once felt of the plates, as they thus lay on the table, tracing their outline and shape. They seemed to be pliable like thick paper, and would rustle with a metallic sound when the edges were moved by the thumb, as one does sometimes thumb the edges of a book....&quot;

So are you saying that was a figment of her imagination as well?

Also didn&#039;t Mary Whitmer actually see them as well as reported by Parley P. Pratt?

&quot;Mary Musselman Whitmer (August 27, 1778 - January 1856) was the&quot; wife of Peter Whitmer, Sr. Through her son David Whitmer, she and her family became acquainted with Joseph Smith, Jr. around 1828. In 1829, probably during June, she was caring for three boarders (Joseph Smith, Emma Hale Smith, and Oliver Cowdery) in addition to her large household while the Book of Mormon was being translated. She said she was often overloaded with work to the extent she felt it quite a burden. During this time, the male boarders and members of her household were speaking of being shown the Golden Plates. One evening when she went to milk the cows, she said that a stranger with a knapsack spoke to her, explained what was going on in her house, comforted her, then produced a bundle of plates from his knapsack, turned the leaves for her, showed her the engravings, exhorted her to faith in bearing her burden a little longer, then suddenly vanished with the plates. She always called the stranger Brother Nephi.&quot;

Although visionary this last one was interesting as to the detail.

Again I appreciate the interview and your responses to previous questions,

Glen]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two comments, John:</p>
<p>1. Thanks for your link to Living Scripture and a Vision of the Living Restoration as I read it with interest. The is definitely the &#8220;middle-way of the middle-way) <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  But I am still confused. I am a &#8220;black-and-white&#8221; kind of guy when looking at anything at a correct level.  I think truth can be stated correctly when asking yes/no questions at the correct level. Labeling Joseph as a fraud, is not helpful, however, to say that he created a book, then said it was &#8220;The Word of God&#8221; and he received it directly from God&#8217;s messengers is fraud if he knew it was false.  You are stating that his assertions are false, so my question to you, from your understanding, did he know those statements were false?</p>
<p>2.  Like Jared Anderson, and a lot historians both in and out of Biblical studies, you state a number of assertions that can not be proved because they are stated in the negative.  &#8220;No one ever saw the physical plates&#8221; is one of those statements.  You can&#8217;t prove a negative.  However, the positive testimony of the 8 witnesses is pretty clear:</p>
<p>&#8220;Be it known unto all nations, kindreds, tongues, and people, unto whom this work shall come: That Joseph Smith, Jun., the translator of this work, has shewn unto us the plates of which hath been spoken, which have the appearance of gold; and as many of the leaves as the said Smith has translated we did handle with our hands; and we also saw the engravings thereon, all of which has the appearance of ancient work, and of curious workmanship. And this we bear record with words of soberness, that the said Smith has shewn unto us, for we have seen and hefted, and know of a surety that the said Smith has got the plates of which we have spoken. And we give our names unto the world, to witness unto the world that which we have seen. And we lie not, God bearing witness of it.&#8221;</p>
<p>a. they handled them with their hands the leaves of the book<br />
b. they had the appearance of gold<br />
c. they saw the engravings<br />
d. they hefted the plates (like Emma Smith)</p>
<p>So you are saying that this might have been true, but only in their minds eye?</p>
<p>Emma Smith said they were laying around while the book was being translated and said in an interview:</p>
<p>&#8220;The plates often lay on the table without any attempt at concealment, wrapped in a small linen tablecloth, which I had given him to fold them in. I once felt of the plates, as they thus lay on the table, tracing their outline and shape. They seemed to be pliable like thick paper, and would rustle with a metallic sound when the edges were moved by the thumb, as one does sometimes thumb the edges of a book&#8230;.&#8221;</p>
<p>So are you saying that was a figment of her imagination as well?</p>
<p>Also didn&#8217;t Mary Whitmer actually see them as well as reported by Parley P. Pratt?</p>
<p>&#8220;Mary Musselman Whitmer (August 27, 1778 &#8211; January 1856) was the&#8221; wife of Peter Whitmer, Sr. Through her son David Whitmer, she and her family became acquainted with Joseph Smith, Jr. around 1828. In 1829, probably during June, she was caring for three boarders (Joseph Smith, Emma Hale Smith, and Oliver Cowdery) in addition to her large household while the Book of Mormon was being translated. She said she was often overloaded with work to the extent she felt it quite a burden. During this time, the male boarders and members of her household were speaking of being shown the Golden Plates. One evening when she went to milk the cows, she said that a stranger with a knapsack spoke to her, explained what was going on in her house, comforted her, then produced a bundle of plates from his knapsack, turned the leaves for her, showed her the engravings, exhorted her to faith in bearing her burden a little longer, then suddenly vanished with the plates. She always called the stranger Brother Nephi.&#8221;</p>
<p>Although visionary this last one was interesting as to the detail.</p>
<p>Again I appreciate the interview and your responses to previous questions,</p>
<p>Glen</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 21:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I maintained my integrity throughout the experience.  Obviously, when faced with a system that is itself thoroughly dishonest, one must decide how to respond to the system.  

Let&#039;s take the somewhat more extreme example of a person who finds herself living in North Korea and has to decide how to operate there.  She can protest overtly and be caught up in the system&#039;s standard operating defenses and perhaps become a martyr of some kind; she can collaborate with the system either with the idea of encouraging reform by making a positive difference within it (probably not a realistic hope) or with idea of forcing reform by undermining the system from within somehow; or she can extricate herself from the system by defecting --- in the last case either by leaving as hastily as possible (even at great cost) or by leaving in a planned way (which might require some degree of collaboration with the system while implementing the plan).  

In my case, I chose to extricate myself from the dishonest system (in which I found myself participating) via a planned exit that was relatively fast (3 years total), but not so precipitously fast as to be overly costly.  Meanwhile, I did collaborate to some extent by responding to the system precisely as it wanted to be responded to.  

Obviously, one can&#039;t help but admire people who went the more overt path and stood up against the vicious bigotry enshrined in BYU&#039;s rules.  The gay people who stood up and were subsequently blackmailed by BYU and/or those who were abused with electro-shock therapy and the like by BYU are certainly heroes who fought oppression head-on and valiantly.  

Fighting evil overtly like that was not an easy path.  Obviously, many such heroes lost years of work and the university credits owed them; and, of course, many were psychologically scarred.  In the short time I was &quot;out&quot; at BYU, doing my part helping support others in the LGBT support group in Provo, two of my small number of gay friends attempted suicide.  

So there are certainly more overtly heroic ways to fight a thoroughly dishonest and corrupt system than the path I chose, but I nevertheless am comfortable that I maintained my personal integrity throughout; helping out where possible, while causing no harm.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I maintained my integrity throughout the experience.  Obviously, when faced with a system that is itself thoroughly dishonest, one must decide how to respond to the system.  </p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take the somewhat more extreme example of a person who finds herself living in North Korea and has to decide how to operate there.  She can protest overtly and be caught up in the system&#8217;s standard operating defenses and perhaps become a martyr of some kind; she can collaborate with the system either with the idea of encouraging reform by making a positive difference within it (probably not a realistic hope) or with idea of forcing reform by undermining the system from within somehow; or she can extricate herself from the system by defecting &#8212; in the last case either by leaving as hastily as possible (even at great cost) or by leaving in a planned way (which might require some degree of collaboration with the system while implementing the plan).  </p>
<p>In my case, I chose to extricate myself from the dishonest system (in which I found myself participating) via a planned exit that was relatively fast (3 years total), but not so precipitously fast as to be overly costly.  Meanwhile, I did collaborate to some extent by responding to the system precisely as it wanted to be responded to.  </p>
<p>Obviously, one can&#8217;t help but admire people who went the more overt path and stood up against the vicious bigotry enshrined in BYU&#8217;s rules.  The gay people who stood up and were subsequently blackmailed by BYU and/or those who were abused with electro-shock therapy and the like by BYU are certainly heroes who fought oppression head-on and valiantly.  </p>
<p>Fighting evil overtly like that was not an easy path.  Obviously, many such heroes lost years of work and the university credits owed them; and, of course, many were psychologically scarred.  In the short time I was &#8220;out&#8221; at BYU, doing my part helping support others in the LGBT support group in Provo, two of my small number of gay friends attempted suicide.  </p>
<p>So there are certainly more overtly heroic ways to fight a thoroughly dishonest and corrupt system than the path I chose, but I nevertheless am comfortable that I maintained my personal integrity throughout; helping out where possible, while causing no harm.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by iamse7en</title>
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		<dc:creator>iamse7en</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 20:43:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m sorry I have such a negative reaction but I think you have no sense of integrity. If you don&#039;t want to live the rules/standards of a private university, then go elsewhere. It is cowardly and self-demeaning to go around and lie to sneak your way through the school. I&#039;m sorry, but I had such a negative reaction about people who justify such dishonest behavior, who rationalize away their own integrity... They&#039;re the type of people running our governments and crony-capitalist corporations.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry I have such a negative reaction but I think you have no sense of integrity. If you don&#8217;t want to live the rules/standards of a private university, then go elsewhere. It is cowardly and self-demeaning to go around and lie to sneak your way through the school. I&#8217;m sorry, but I had such a negative reaction about people who justify such dishonest behavior, who rationalize away their own integrity&#8230; They&#8217;re the type of people running our governments and crony-capitalist corporations.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 18:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Actually, Craig Criddle&#039;s argument is very, very weak.  I believe his study was completely irresponsible and his results are totally irrelevant.  

The principle of parsimony (Occam&#039;s razor) is a core part of determining the likelihood of any thesis in the historical narrative.  The evidence for Joseph Smith&#039;s authorship of the Book of Mormon is plentiful and overwhelming --- from the fact that so much of the narrative is autobiographical, from the fact that the author goes so far as to name himself (predict himself) in the text (2 Nephi 3:6,15 LDS), from his mother&#039;s recollection of Joseph&#039;s previous oral composition of Nephite stories, from the mass of witnesses of the composition process, and from the various ways events surrounded Joseph during the translation process were worked into the text (see Dan Vogel &quot;Joseph Smith: The Making of a Prophet&quot;).

The Spaulding authorship theory, by contrast, lacks any positive historical evidence whatsoever beyond the Hurlbut affidavits.  As convincing as these seem to be on the surface, it&#039;s clear that the people of Conneaut were misremembering Spaulding&#039;s novel.  (Essentially what apparently happened was the people in Conneaut got a hold of a Book of Mormon on their own, they convinced themselves that it was the text of the novel their long-dead neighbor had been working on which they had no access to, they had a Book of Mormon and read parts which were fresh in their minds, the rumor of their theory spread to nearby Kirtland and Hurlbut visited to take down the misremembered affidavits.)  

The conspiracy theory required to take us from Spaulding through Rigdon and Pratt to Smith strains all credibility, especially given the total lack of positive evidence that stands in stark contrast with the very clear and overwhelming evidence of Joseph Smith&#039;s authorship.  (For an illustration of the preposterous nature of this theory, see my essay: &quot;http://bycommonconsent.com/2009/07/18/the-spaulding-fable/&quot;)

Criddle might just as well have tested whether Shakespeare was the author or whether Thomas Jefferson was the author --- or any other person who (like Spaulding) we know was not the author from the historical record.  All such computer tests, including the Spaulding one, are irrelevant, and merely demonstrate the faultiness of Criddle&#039;s computer analysis.  

Since Criddle&#039;s argument is no better than the arguments people make that the Book of Mormon as an actual ancient text, there&#039;s no way to hypothesize what things would be like if either were the case.  We can say definitively that neither is the case.

Regarding L. Ron Hubbard:  I think it would be possible for someone raised in Scientology to come up with a reformed church of Scientology that could potentially have value, especially if it helped individuals free themselves from the hierarchy of the mainline church of Scientology.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, Craig Criddle&#8217;s argument is very, very weak.  I believe his study was completely irresponsible and his results are totally irrelevant.  </p>
<p>The principle of parsimony (Occam&#8217;s razor) is a core part of determining the likelihood of any thesis in the historical narrative.  The evidence for Joseph Smith&#8217;s authorship of the Book of Mormon is plentiful and overwhelming &#8212; from the fact that so much of the narrative is autobiographical, from the fact that the author goes so far as to name himself (predict himself) in the text (2 Nephi 3:6,15 LDS), from his mother&#8217;s recollection of Joseph&#8217;s previous oral composition of Nephite stories, from the mass of witnesses of the composition process, and from the various ways events surrounded Joseph during the translation process were worked into the text (see Dan Vogel &#8220;Joseph Smith: The Making of a Prophet&#8221;).</p>
<p>The Spaulding authorship theory, by contrast, lacks any positive historical evidence whatsoever beyond the Hurlbut affidavits.  As convincing as these seem to be on the surface, it&#8217;s clear that the people of Conneaut were misremembering Spaulding&#8217;s novel.  (Essentially what apparently happened was the people in Conneaut got a hold of a Book of Mormon on their own, they convinced themselves that it was the text of the novel their long-dead neighbor had been working on which they had no access to, they had a Book of Mormon and read parts which were fresh in their minds, the rumor of their theory spread to nearby Kirtland and Hurlbut visited to take down the misremembered affidavits.)  </p>
<p>The conspiracy theory required to take us from Spaulding through Rigdon and Pratt to Smith strains all credibility, especially given the total lack of positive evidence that stands in stark contrast with the very clear and overwhelming evidence of Joseph Smith&#8217;s authorship.  (For an illustration of the preposterous nature of this theory, see my essay: &#8220;http://bycommonconsent.com/2009/07/18/the-spaulding-fable/&#8221;)</p>
<p>Criddle might just as well have tested whether Shakespeare was the author or whether Thomas Jefferson was the author &#8212; or any other person who (like Spaulding) we know was not the author from the historical record.  All such computer tests, including the Spaulding one, are irrelevant, and merely demonstrate the faultiness of Criddle&#8217;s computer analysis.  </p>
<p>Since Criddle&#8217;s argument is no better than the arguments people make that the Book of Mormon as an actual ancient text, there&#8217;s no way to hypothesize what things would be like if either were the case.  We can say definitively that neither is the case.</p>
<p>Regarding L. Ron Hubbard:  I think it would be possible for someone raised in Scientology to come up with a reformed church of Scientology that could potentially have value, especially if it helped individuals free themselves from the hierarchy of the mainline church of Scientology.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Stormin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stormin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 18:47:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If I were told that, when an active Mormon, I would have had significant problems with it.  The prophets have claimed it was the &quot;most correct&quot; book on earth  ----- if it is not historically correct logic would say the church and prophets were false.  That&#039;s my opinion but I have taught many a gospel doctrine/priesthood class and know the &quot;intellectualism&quot; of members ------ so many are in a daze about doctrine, truth or logic!  I believe they have been brainwashed by their robotic testimonies they got from hearing others give so often  ----- they don&#039;t need to think any more just go to church, home teach maybe, pay tithing, go to temple, say Yes to leaders, hold callings, go to temple  ------ that is their life and it is too busy to worry about thinking about the doctrine or what truth really is.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I were told that, when an active Mormon, I would have had significant problems with it.  The prophets have claimed it was the &#8220;most correct&#8221; book on earth  &#8212;&#8211; if it is not historically correct logic would say the church and prophets were false.  That&#8217;s my opinion but I have taught many a gospel doctrine/priesthood class and know the &#8220;intellectualism&#8221; of members &#8212;&#8212; so many are in a daze about doctrine, truth or logic!  I believe they have been brainwashed by their robotic testimonies they got from hearing others give so often  &#8212;&#8211; they don&#8217;t need to think any more just go to church, home teach maybe, pay tithing, go to temple, say Yes to leaders, hold callings, go to temple  &#8212;&#8212; that is their life and it is too busy to worry about thinking about the doctrine or what truth really is.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Paul B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 17:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the response, John (Mr. Hamer!).

I suppose with regard to my own experiences in Mormonism (in the tradition of the SLC, LDS church) there were *my* historical contexualizations  of truth -- the ‘useful’ truths (for me), such as:
- being admonished to have and consequently implement a practical and reassuring ‘being prepared’ home food storage and usage system,
- experiencing the benefits of abstaining from the use of tobacco and alcohol (and who’s to say, perhaps even coffee and tea),
- learning to be ‘God fearing’, which did help keep me on a moralistic/ethical ‘straight and narrow path’ that I feel was a boon to me while growing up.
- learning to share and give freely of my income for (hopefully) the aid others and other good causes ,
- deriving comfort from some of the eschatological and other doctrines that made sense to me (and still do, to some degree) -- what I internally/subjectively identify with,
- the worthwhile experiences that contributed to my personal development as a result of serving in lay leadership and other positions within the context of ‘community’,
- and other things which were part and parcel of *my* contextual Mormonism (not failing to mention more importantly than all else, feeling more in tune, or identifying with my Savior, Jesus Christ, had my parents not converted to Mormonism.

Of course, there were also many deleterious aspects and experiences as a result of being raised in a staunch, Mormon household, and among some members of the church who were abject in their behavior towards me inflicting spiritual, social, and psychological harm. My life within Mormonism certainly was a catalyst to test my mettle in order to grow stronger, wiser, and hopefully more compassionately, or to paraphrase what JS said, “The nearer we get to God, the more we are disposed to look upon perishing (and detestable?!) souls with compassion”.

Having said all this, what I eventually came to resist and then resent, though, is that aspect of Mormonism (today, as in the time of JS) which promulgated the ‘metaphor’ for truth in the sense of “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus.” And it does this adamantly, and even aggressively by way of extensive public relations programs, misleading propaganda, and intensive indoctrination of all members both young and old.  Yet, the top leadership must surely know that “something is rotten in the state of Denmark.” There certainly has to be some rationale for the behavior of ‘lying for the Lord’ (a good church or cause), and other egregious, ‘not what Jesus would do’ actions, all of which is very disturbing to me. And it started with JS! The historical record attests to that, so why, John, are you a proponent of Mormonism and Joseph Smith by associating yourself with a JS type of church?

I *think* I understand what you are conveying in your last paragraph although you may have to clarify what you are saying in clearer terms. In light of the reasons listed above, I am grateful for *my* Mormonism, but to be sure, I am no longer singing ‘Praise to the Man.’ That’s for sure! And although I may not want to completely dismiss some the wonderful religious concepts JS introduced, e.g., “the glory of God is intelligence ..... this is my (God’s) work and my glory, to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.” and other esoteric, yet ‘sensible’ doctrines, I still want nothing more to do with the fellow. He is not *my* ‘king of the whole world.’ or *my* ‘god of this dispensation’ or whatever else he claimed, and what the current top leadership believes him to be. In fact, I am inclined to have more faith in and admiration for the ‘exalted’ mortal being Lao Tzu and Zarathustra (Zoroaster), rather than Joseph Smith.

In conclusion, although Mormonism can be, to some extent, an enigmatic quandary or paradox, perhaps it is also something more akin to what Paul Valery stated: &quot;To see is to forget the name of the thing one sees.”, i.e., it may eclipse a solid definition for many of us who have been, to whatever degree, ‘Mormonized’. If it wasn’t for this, there probably wouldn’t be a ‘Mormon Stories’ podcast, and a reason for those who have left the church, to not leave it alone!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the response, John (Mr. Hamer!).</p>
<p>I suppose with regard to my own experiences in Mormonism (in the tradition of the SLC, LDS church) there were *my* historical contexualizations  of truth &#8212; the ‘useful’ truths (for me), such as:<br />
- being admonished to have and consequently implement a practical and reassuring ‘being prepared’ home food storage and usage system,<br />
- experiencing the benefits of abstaining from the use of tobacco and alcohol (and who’s to say, perhaps even coffee and tea),<br />
- learning to be ‘God fearing’, which did help keep me on a moralistic/ethical ‘straight and narrow path’ that I feel was a boon to me while growing up.<br />
- learning to share and give freely of my income for (hopefully) the aid others and other good causes ,<br />
- deriving comfort from some of the eschatological and other doctrines that made sense to me (and still do, to some degree) &#8212; what I internally/subjectively identify with,<br />
- the worthwhile experiences that contributed to my personal development as a result of serving in lay leadership and other positions within the context of ‘community’,<br />
- and other things which were part and parcel of *my* contextual Mormonism (not failing to mention more importantly than all else, feeling more in tune, or identifying with my Savior, Jesus Christ, had my parents not converted to Mormonism.</p>
<p>Of course, there were also many deleterious aspects and experiences as a result of being raised in a staunch, Mormon household, and among some members of the church who were abject in their behavior towards me inflicting spiritual, social, and psychological harm. My life within Mormonism certainly was a catalyst to test my mettle in order to grow stronger, wiser, and hopefully more compassionately, or to paraphrase what JS said, “The nearer we get to God, the more we are disposed to look upon perishing (and detestable?!) souls with compassion”.</p>
<p>Having said all this, what I eventually came to resist and then resent, though, is that aspect of Mormonism (today, as in the time of JS) which promulgated the ‘metaphor’ for truth in the sense of “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus.” And it does this adamantly, and even aggressively by way of extensive public relations programs, misleading propaganda, and intensive indoctrination of all members both young and old.  Yet, the top leadership must surely know that “something is rotten in the state of Denmark.” There certainly has to be some rationale for the behavior of ‘lying for the Lord’ (a good church or cause), and other egregious, ‘not what Jesus would do’ actions, all of which is very disturbing to me. And it started with JS! The historical record attests to that, so why, John, are you a proponent of Mormonism and Joseph Smith by associating yourself with a JS type of church?</p>
<p>I *think* I understand what you are conveying in your last paragraph although you may have to clarify what you are saying in clearer terms. In light of the reasons listed above, I am grateful for *my* Mormonism, but to be sure, I am no longer singing ‘Praise to the Man.’ That’s for sure! And although I may not want to completely dismiss some the wonderful religious concepts JS introduced, e.g., “the glory of God is intelligence &#8230;.. this is my (God’s) work and my glory, to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.” and other esoteric, yet ‘sensible’ doctrines, I still want nothing more to do with the fellow. He is not *my* ‘king of the whole world.’ or *my* ‘god of this dispensation’ or whatever else he claimed, and what the current top leadership believes him to be. In fact, I am inclined to have more faith in and admiration for the ‘exalted’ mortal being Lao Tzu and Zarathustra (Zoroaster), rather than Joseph Smith.</p>
<p>In conclusion, although Mormonism can be, to some extent, an enigmatic quandary or paradox, perhaps it is also something more akin to what Paul Valery stated: &#8220;To see is to forget the name of the thing one sees.”, i.e., it may eclipse a solid definition for many of us who have been, to whatever degree, ‘Mormonized’. If it wasn’t for this, there probably wouldn’t be a ‘Mormon Stories’ podcast, and a reason for those who have left the church, to not leave it alone!</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 17:20:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am curious about a couple of things John H. and John D.. There is some solid evidence that Joseph &quot;borrowed&quot; this story from the writings of spaulding. Craig Criddle&#039;s argument is very very strong, so I have provided a link if you haven&#039;t heard it.
http://www.exmormonfoundation.org/audio2009_low.html
If you were convinced this was the case would it change your view of Joseph Smith? Couldn&#039;t people making the same argument for  L. Ron Hubbard as a prophet that you make for Joseph?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am curious about a couple of things John H. and John D.. There is some solid evidence that Joseph &#8220;borrowed&#8221; this story from the writings of spaulding. Craig Criddle&#8217;s argument is very very strong, so I have provided a link if you haven&#8217;t heard it.<br />
<a href="http://www.exmormonfoundation.org/audio2009_low.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.exmormonfoundation.org/audio2009_low.html</a><br />
If you were convinced this was the case would it change your view of Joseph Smith? Couldn&#8217;t people making the same argument for  L. Ron Hubbard as a prophet that you make for Joseph?</p>
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		<dc:creator>Stormin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 16:17:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks!  I like your article it is very clear on what you believe.  Even though I don&#039;t agree with any religion/church started by a liar and a fraud  ------ I definitely believe revelation has to be ongoing today to make God relevant.  I am thankful we can get that revelation that we need INDIVIDUALLY (directly from God or Holy Ghost) and do not need any religion to enslave us.  I am not against attending and supporting churches with like minded believers, as long as the enslavement is rational (support the church with money and time but 10% and doing unjustified Temple work is ridiculous!).]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks!  I like your article it is very clear on what you believe.  Even though I don&#8217;t agree with any religion/church started by a liar and a fraud  &#8212;&#8212; I definitely believe revelation has to be ongoing today to make God relevant.  I am thankful we can get that revelation that we need INDIVIDUALLY (directly from God or Holy Ghost) and do not need any religion to enslave us.  I am not against attending and supporting churches with like minded believers, as long as the enslavement is rational (support the church with money and time but 10% and doing unjustified Temple work is ridiculous!).</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 16:03:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks John D. and John H. This was a great interview. I sense the LDS church moving more toward the Community of Christ view. Specifically with the BOM. I heard recently that Terryl Givens gave a fireside talk (at leadership&#039;s request) where he stated that you do not have to have a literal belief in the Book of Mormon to have a temple recommend. This will give peace to allot of those questioning.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks John D. and John H. This was a great interview. I sense the LDS church moving more toward the Community of Christ view. Specifically with the BOM. I heard recently that Terryl Givens gave a fireside talk (at leadership&#8217;s request) where he stated that you do not have to have a literal belief in the Book of Mormon to have a temple recommend. This will give peace to allot of those questioning.</p>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 15:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#039;s a blog post I wrote about what I think the Restoration got right and what it got wrong.  This might explain my thinking here better: http://saintsherald.com/2013/06/12/living-scripture-and-a-vision-of-the-living-restoration/]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a blog post I wrote about what I think the Restoration got right and what it got wrong.  This might explain my thinking here better: <a href="http://saintsherald.com/2013/06/12/living-scripture-and-a-vision-of-the-living-restoration/" rel="nofollow">http://saintsherald.com/2013/06/12/living-scripture-and-a-vision-of-the-living-restoration/</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 15:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Glen: No, I&#039;m saying he (and the other early members) were wrong about that idea.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glen: No, I&#8217;m saying he (and the other early members) were wrong about that idea.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 14:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If I could toss in my two-cents here, I think it is important for us to examine Joseph in a multi-dimensional manner. Often, it is easier for us to classify people/institutions into one or two word categories like fraud/charlatan and whatnot. If one approaches the Joseph Smith story from a purely negative and cynical viewpoint, then obviously that is the most obvious conclusion. But as John H, among others, has pointed out, the &quot;prophet puzzle&quot; (to quote Jan Shipps) is much more complicated than that. When one examines the rise of any religious movement, it is never as cut and dry as we would like it to be. For example, in Islam, one has the Koran. Yet in many ways, that can be viewed as a pseudepigraphical text, but it is one of the largest religions on the planet today. Then there is the Bible, which again (especially the Old Testament) is much more a book of spiritual interpretation and tradition than real history. The Book of Mormon falls into that category along with a host of other pseudepigraphical texts. My point boils down to this: By our standards, was Joseph Smith a fraud? Perhaps. In the context of his time, was he anything out of the ordinary? For the most part, no. Does the Book of Mormon fit a pattern of religious tradition that has been around for millenia? I think yes. So before we view Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon as purely deceptive, we need to expand our world view to truly appreciate value in the book.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I could toss in my two-cents here, I think it is important for us to examine Joseph in a multi-dimensional manner. Often, it is easier for us to classify people/institutions into one or two word categories like fraud/charlatan and whatnot. If one approaches the Joseph Smith story from a purely negative and cynical viewpoint, then obviously that is the most obvious conclusion. But as John H, among others, has pointed out, the &#8220;prophet puzzle&#8221; (to quote Jan Shipps) is much more complicated than that. When one examines the rise of any religious movement, it is never as cut and dry as we would like it to be. For example, in Islam, one has the Koran. Yet in many ways, that can be viewed as a pseudepigraphical text, but it is one of the largest religions on the planet today. Then there is the Bible, which again (especially the Old Testament) is much more a book of spiritual interpretation and tradition than real history. The Book of Mormon falls into that category along with a host of other pseudepigraphical texts. My point boils down to this: By our standards, was Joseph Smith a fraud? Perhaps. In the context of his time, was he anything out of the ordinary? For the most part, no. Does the Book of Mormon fit a pattern of religious tradition that has been around for millenia? I think yes. So before we view Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon as purely deceptive, we need to expand our world view to truly appreciate value in the book.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Glen Fullmer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glen Fullmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 13:48:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So John, are you saying that Joseph Smith was deceived?  But at the same time unaware of it?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So John, are you saying that Joseph Smith was deceived?  But at the same time unaware of it?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 06:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Paul B.  When did I get so old that everyone calls me &quot;Mr. Hamer&quot;? I&#039;m happy to be called John.

Joseph Smith --- like everyone --- was a product of his own historical context.  As you say, a person creating a new religious tradition today would have very little overlap with what Joseph Smith did, since everything in early Mormonism is born out of the context of the surrounding history of the newborn American republic.  

Let me say that there is /no/ one and only true church.  

A church that claims to be the one and only true church is self-evidently wrong.  To the extent that Joseph Smith believed that he had a monopoly on divine authority, he was in error.  Likewise, broader Christianity is not the one and only true religion.  

But no, I also don&#039;t think that lacking exclusivity, we&#039;re just saying our way is merely super nice.  Aren&#039;t we swell?  

I believe that experience breeds wisdom.  We could create a new religion or a new philosophy today that has no baggage; one that is totally innocent.  And that religion or philosophy could fall into error tomorrow since it lacks the wisdom to guide it from error.  In the Restoration context, I think the experience of attempting to use force to attack our neighbors in Far West, in Daviess County Missouri, in Nauvoo --- I think those failures have helped Community of Christ inform our experience and made us a more credible proponent of peace today.  

I&#039;m not a relativist.  Not all world-views are of equal value.  For example, some world-views are better predictors of reality than others.  In a traditional LDS world-view, where you imagined that the Book of Mormon was a literal history, you would predict that archaeological excavations in MesoAmerica would turn up reformed Egyptian inscriptions.  And since they do not, you would find that your world-view is not a reliable predictor of accurate results.  My world-view, by contrast, would predict the results that have been achieved by MesoAmerican archaeology, since I understand that the 19th century nature of the Book of Mormon is not in question.

Not everyone can devote themselves to extensive research on theology, history, literary criticism, philosophy.  Many people have other priorities.  What if all informed persons totally abandoned religion and left control of all religious institutions to reactionary anti-scientific, anti-reality, unscrupulous charlatans?  What choice would regular people have if they decided they wanted to raise their children in the environment of a church?  Wouldn&#039;t they naturally fall into error and the control of deceitful persons?  Isn&#039;t it important and vital to provide a rational, ethical alternative to people who aren&#039;t able to devote their lives to detailed studies on their own?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Paul B.  When did I get so old that everyone calls me &#8220;Mr. Hamer&#8221;? I&#8217;m happy to be called John.</p>
<p>Joseph Smith &#8212; like everyone &#8212; was a product of his own historical context.  As you say, a person creating a new religious tradition today would have very little overlap with what Joseph Smith did, since everything in early Mormonism is born out of the context of the surrounding history of the newborn American republic.  </p>
<p>Let me say that there is /no/ one and only true church.  </p>
<p>A church that claims to be the one and only true church is self-evidently wrong.  To the extent that Joseph Smith believed that he had a monopoly on divine authority, he was in error.  Likewise, broader Christianity is not the one and only true religion.  </p>
<p>But no, I also don&#8217;t think that lacking exclusivity, we&#8217;re just saying our way is merely super nice.  Aren&#8217;t we swell?  </p>
<p>I believe that experience breeds wisdom.  We could create a new religion or a new philosophy today that has no baggage; one that is totally innocent.  And that religion or philosophy could fall into error tomorrow since it lacks the wisdom to guide it from error.  In the Restoration context, I think the experience of attempting to use force to attack our neighbors in Far West, in Daviess County Missouri, in Nauvoo &#8212; I think those failures have helped Community of Christ inform our experience and made us a more credible proponent of peace today.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not a relativist.  Not all world-views are of equal value.  For example, some world-views are better predictors of reality than others.  In a traditional LDS world-view, where you imagined that the Book of Mormon was a literal history, you would predict that archaeological excavations in MesoAmerica would turn up reformed Egyptian inscriptions.  And since they do not, you would find that your world-view is not a reliable predictor of accurate results.  My world-view, by contrast, would predict the results that have been achieved by MesoAmerican archaeology, since I understand that the 19th century nature of the Book of Mormon is not in question.</p>
<p>Not everyone can devote themselves to extensive research on theology, history, literary criticism, philosophy.  Many people have other priorities.  What if all informed persons totally abandoned religion and left control of all religious institutions to reactionary anti-scientific, anti-reality, unscrupulous charlatans?  What choice would regular people have if they decided they wanted to raise their children in the environment of a church?  Wouldn&#8217;t they naturally fall into error and the control of deceitful persons?  Isn&#8217;t it important and vital to provide a rational, ethical alternative to people who aren&#8217;t able to devote their lives to detailed studies on their own?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Paul B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 05:59:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a good podcast to the extent that I *think* I learned more -- that I can better understand Mormonism from some other perspectives. Okay, but....

The “but” is in reference to the comment made by ‘Stormin’ (“Joseph was a proven liar and fraud,...”). Sure, I understand that there are elements of truth according to the historical context(s) from which they sprang, but certain truths as being what cannot be negotiated or rationalized -- truths which stands outside of historical context as being  truly ‘true’ -- has to factored in, as well.  In other words, would Joseph Smith even remotely ‘get away with’ (for the lack of a better term) a lot of things that he was able to ‘get away with’ if he was among us today as the President of the church, or if  he started his movement today? 

To answer my own question: Sure, there are always people who will follow charismatic leaders in any age no matter what these leaders propose as being ‘the truth’. However, if JS were born today and started a religious movement, I don’t think you would disagree that it’s highly probable there wouldn’t be any Masonic based rituals, nor a ‘Book of Mormon’ claiming to be an historical, sacred scripture of ancient inhabitants of North and/or South Amercia; there wouldn’t be a ‘Pearl of Great Price’ comprising the writings of Abraham “by his own hand” and about the experiences of Moses, even if he was able to obtain the very same Egyptian artifacts that Chandler sold to the church.

It’s about this sort of thing that you lose me, Mr. Hamer, i.e., where do you stand, really, with regard to Mormonism?  I wasn’t able to come to grips with that.  Is Mormonism, for you, the one and only true way (and if so, is it by-way-of  the CofC ‘church’ -- ordinances) that one needs to ascribe to for the opportunity to obtain the ‘highest degree’ for their ‘eternal salvation’, as taught by JS? Or is Mormonism one of many ‘good’ ways, just like many streams and creeks that flow into bigger rivers (or one Christian river) that finally all reach the same ocean (e.g., eternal salvation) if followed?  Yet still, there is the nagging issue, like a thorn in my shoe, that says something isn’t totally right with Joseph Smith and his restoration movement when trying to consider it as the one, valid way. It just can’t be with any degree of rationality be consider as such. It’s ludicrous to me. A pious fraud, perhaps, and a continually evolving ‘nice way of life’ (for many people) in which, for example, to raise a family, but most certainly not anything to do with being the ‘one and only true church.’]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a good podcast to the extent that I *think* I learned more &#8212; that I can better understand Mormonism from some other perspectives. Okay, but&#8230;.</p>
<p>The “but” is in reference to the comment made by ‘Stormin’ (“Joseph was a proven liar and fraud,&#8230;”). Sure, I understand that there are elements of truth according to the historical context(s) from which they sprang, but certain truths as being what cannot be negotiated or rationalized &#8212; truths which stands outside of historical context as being  truly ‘true’ &#8212; has to factored in, as well.  In other words, would Joseph Smith even remotely ‘get away with’ (for the lack of a better term) a lot of things that he was able to ‘get away with’ if he was among us today as the President of the church, or if  he started his movement today? </p>
<p>To answer my own question: Sure, there are always people who will follow charismatic leaders in any age no matter what these leaders propose as being ‘the truth’. However, if JS were born today and started a religious movement, I don’t think you would disagree that it’s highly probable there wouldn’t be any Masonic based rituals, nor a ‘Book of Mormon’ claiming to be an historical, sacred scripture of ancient inhabitants of North and/or South Amercia; there wouldn’t be a ‘Pearl of Great Price’ comprising the writings of Abraham “by his own hand” and about the experiences of Moses, even if he was able to obtain the very same Egyptian artifacts that Chandler sold to the church.</p>
<p>It’s about this sort of thing that you lose me, Mr. Hamer, i.e., where do you stand, really, with regard to Mormonism?  I wasn’t able to come to grips with that.  Is Mormonism, for you, the one and only true way (and if so, is it by-way-of  the CofC ‘church’ &#8212; ordinances) that one needs to ascribe to for the opportunity to obtain the ‘highest degree’ for their ‘eternal salvation’, as taught by JS? Or is Mormonism one of many ‘good’ ways, just like many streams and creeks that flow into bigger rivers (or one Christian river) that finally all reach the same ocean (e.g., eternal salvation) if followed?  Yet still, there is the nagging issue, like a thorn in my shoe, that says something isn’t totally right with Joseph Smith and his restoration movement when trying to consider it as the one, valid way. It just can’t be with any degree of rationality be consider as such. It’s ludicrous to me. A pious fraud, perhaps, and a continually evolving ‘nice way of life’ (for many people) in which, for example, to raise a family, but most certainly not anything to do with being the ‘one and only true church.’</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 04:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stormin: I think I said in the podcast that I believed what Joseph Smith did regarding polygamy was an abuse of his authority and was a terribly wrong thing to do.  And I think I said in the podcast that what he did in regards to the plates artifact, while it had pious intent, nevertheless is not something that I would feel is ethical to do personally, and I think I said that I hoped that we in the Community of Christ tradition had learned from past obvious wrongs (as well as gray areas) and were now on more clearly defensible ground with recent scriptural additions to our canon.

I don&#039;t think I attempted to justify the position that LDS leaders have taken; as the main thrust of the interview indicated, I left the LDS Church because I didn&#039;t agree with the positions of its leaders.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stormin: I think I said in the podcast that I believed what Joseph Smith did regarding polygamy was an abuse of his authority and was a terribly wrong thing to do.  And I think I said in the podcast that what he did in regards to the plates artifact, while it had pious intent, nevertheless is not something that I would feel is ethical to do personally, and I think I said that I hoped that we in the Community of Christ tradition had learned from past obvious wrongs (as well as gray areas) and were now on more clearly defensible ground with recent scriptural additions to our canon.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think I attempted to justify the position that LDS leaders have taken; as the main thrust of the interview indicated, I left the LDS Church because I didn&#8217;t agree with the positions of its leaders.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Stormin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stormin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 03:15:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for answering the question  ----- sorry if I was a little terse but I just felt your dialog on the podcast was not getting to the key points with clear specific answers and much logic.  Trust is important to me, and sorry, but if he lied about (polygamous wives and golden plates for examples) I tend to easily believe he lied about all heavenly visitations.  Just like in a court of law (humans) tend to agree if one lies on the stand, you have to discount anything he says.  I agree we can all learn something from Joseph Smith  ------ he was clearly talented at obtaining and presenting information and putting it together (spinning it) to come up with something that millions not only believe but KNOW to be true.  Maybe the brainwashing of members to think they KNOW was really not originated or perfected by Joseph but other false prophet along the way.  But millions (LDS) are expecting some kind of salvation from following Joseph Smith and his teachings without the advantage of knowing the negatives about Joseph (this is more a comment about the LDS church the CoC is apparently more truthful).  Truly, we need to learn from history  ------ So we will not repeat the ERORRS of the past  ------ not to change or only tell one side of history so we do not learn the lessons that exist.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for answering the question  &#8212;&#8211; sorry if I was a little terse but I just felt your dialog on the podcast was not getting to the key points with clear specific answers and much logic.  Trust is important to me, and sorry, but if he lied about (polygamous wives and golden plates for examples) I tend to easily believe he lied about all heavenly visitations.  Just like in a court of law (humans) tend to agree if one lies on the stand, you have to discount anything he says.  I agree we can all learn something from Joseph Smith  &#8212;&#8212; he was clearly talented at obtaining and presenting information and putting it together (spinning it) to come up with something that millions not only believe but KNOW to be true.  Maybe the brainwashing of members to think they KNOW was really not originated or perfected by Joseph but other false prophet along the way.  But millions (LDS) are expecting some kind of salvation from following Joseph Smith and his teachings without the advantage of knowing the negatives about Joseph (this is more a comment about the LDS church the CoC is apparently more truthful).  Truly, we need to learn from history  &#8212;&#8212; So we will not repeat the ERORRS of the past  &#8212;&#8212; not to change or only tell one side of history so we do not learn the lessons that exist.</p>
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		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 23:29:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[John Hammer. Thanks for taking your time to answer my questions. 

Stormin. I think Joseph Smith was a bit like all people. He was a little more complicated than one dimention. After all, have we not all lied at some point in our life? You labeling him just a liar is an easy blanket accusation. I like to look at causality and motive behind actions even when looking at something we might at first call a lie.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John Hammer. Thanks for taking your time to answer my questions. </p>
<p>Stormin. I think Joseph Smith was a bit like all people. He was a little more complicated than one dimention. After all, have we not all lied at some point in our life? You labeling him just a liar is an easy blanket accusation. I like to look at causality and motive behind actions even when looking at something we might at first call a lie.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 21:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stormin: You&#039;re welcome to your own conclusions.  Not everyone sees value in the past, in heritage, in what went before; that&#039;s one of the reasons why people just tore down all the old buildings in towns and cities in the name of urban renewal in the 1960s and 70s.  What&#039;s the point in saving some old building that&#039;s covered in functionless bric-a-brac or gingerbread?  Just tear down and throw away everything that went before --- wipe out anything that lacks modern perfection, and is compromised.  It has no value; we can build something entirely new that has no baggage.  That&#039;s a perfectly understandable sensibility and you&#039;re welcome to it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stormin: You&#8217;re welcome to your own conclusions.  Not everyone sees value in the past, in heritage, in what went before; that&#8217;s one of the reasons why people just tore down all the old buildings in towns and cities in the name of urban renewal in the 1960s and 70s.  What&#8217;s the point in saving some old building that&#8217;s covered in functionless bric-a-brac or gingerbread?  Just tear down and throw away everything that went before &#8212; wipe out anything that lacks modern perfection, and is compromised.  It has no value; we can build something entirely new that has no baggage.  That&#8217;s a perfectly understandable sensibility and you&#8217;re welcome to it.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Stormin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 20:57:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joseph was a proven liar and fraud, the Book of Mormon a Fairy tale based on all the facts available  ----- there is no way I would believe in a God connected with Josephs lies!  Why would anyone follow or trust anyone who was a proven liar.  I am sorry but with all my education I failed to follow any logic in your &quot;over-the-top intellectual&quot; babel!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joseph was a proven liar and fraud, the Book of Mormon a Fairy tale based on all the facts available  &#8212;&#8211; there is no way I would believe in a God connected with Josephs lies!  Why would anyone follow or trust anyone who was a proven liar.  I am sorry but with all my education I failed to follow any logic in your &#8220;over-the-top intellectual&#8221; babel!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. In my view, Joseph&#039;s motivation in composing the Book of Mormon was to end sectarianism in the society around him and in his own family, to incorporate Native Americans into a relatively positive place within the Biblical world-view, to update Christianity so that it was more in keeping and consonant with contemporary scientific understanding of the world, and to spread the Christian message generally.  I think the goal of building Zion followed soon after; it may not have been an initial goal.  I don&#039;t think hunger for power was initially much of a motivator; although generating an imagined (and never realized) income from the sale of the book was likely an early motivation.  I don&#039;t think we need to rely on explanations like psychosis or madness to understand Joseph Smith at all; nor do I think there is reason to imagine explicit conspiracy.  

Joseph Smith lived in a world that was still on the threshold of an enchanted or magical world-view.  If you read his father&#039;s patriarchal blessings, you can see that Joseph Smith Sr. believed completely in things that we today would consider magical, e.g., the ability to teleport oneself from place to place.  That said, Joseph Smith did want to bring Christian cosmology more up-to-date with his understanding of contemporary science, including things like setting the earth in a Copernican world-view and denying ex nihilo creation (since at the time it was believed that matter couldn&#039;t be created out of nothing; so Joseph Smith&#039;s scripture has &quot;the gods&quot; organizing matter out of existing matter).

2. Community of Christ members do not wear garments, no.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. In my view, Joseph&#8217;s motivation in composing the Book of Mormon was to end sectarianism in the society around him and in his own family, to incorporate Native Americans into a relatively positive place within the Biblical world-view, to update Christianity so that it was more in keeping and consonant with contemporary scientific understanding of the world, and to spread the Christian message generally.  I think the goal of building Zion followed soon after; it may not have been an initial goal.  I don&#8217;t think hunger for power was initially much of a motivator; although generating an imagined (and never realized) income from the sale of the book was likely an early motivation.  I don&#8217;t think we need to rely on explanations like psychosis or madness to understand Joseph Smith at all; nor do I think there is reason to imagine explicit conspiracy.  </p>
<p>Joseph Smith lived in a world that was still on the threshold of an enchanted or magical world-view.  If you read his father&#8217;s patriarchal blessings, you can see that Joseph Smith Sr. believed completely in things that we today would consider magical, e.g., the ability to teleport oneself from place to place.  That said, Joseph Smith did want to bring Christian cosmology more up-to-date with his understanding of contemporary science, including things like setting the earth in a Copernican world-view and denying ex nihilo creation (since at the time it was believed that matter couldn&#8217;t be created out of nothing; so Joseph Smith&#8217;s scripture has &#8220;the gods&#8221; organizing matter out of existing matter).</p>
<p>2. Community of Christ members do not wear garments, no.</p>
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		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:13:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you think was Joseph Smiths motivation for these visions he had? was it psychosis, hunger for power, greed or something different all together? How out of touch with reality/real world/science was Joseph Smith? In Bushman&#039;s book Rough Stone Rowling he sighted Joseph Smiths desire to create a Zion or a people of one heart. But would that have been JS&#039;s motive from the start?

Do CoC wear magic underwear?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you think was Joseph Smiths motivation for these visions he had? was it psychosis, hunger for power, greed or something different all together? How out of touch with reality/real world/science was Joseph Smith? In Bushman&#8217;s book Rough Stone Rowling he sighted Joseph Smiths desire to create a Zion or a people of one heart. But would that have been JS&#8217;s motive from the start?</p>
<p>Do CoC wear magic underwear?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 16:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the era of polytheism, belief in the gods was wholly consonant with contemporary understandings of science --- where &quot;science&quot; is defined as the collective state of human knowledge and understanding.  There was no unifying theory as to why humans were beset in the world around them by different, competing, often chaotic, and entirely unpredictable forces.  The river would flood, lightening would strike, pestilence would unpredictably take strong people in their prime.  People naturally anthropomorphized these forces (the way we still anthropomorphize things like our cars).  They told sacred stories to encapsulate and transmit collected wisdom concerning these forces, and they created rituals in order to think about and interact with them.  

Later, monotheism arose in response to scientific observation.  Babylonian astronomers/astrologers through centuries of observation realized that the heavens were not a place of chaos.  The unfixed stars (the planets, moon, and sun) were not operating at random.  They traveled in highly predictable cycles.  Phenomena like eclipses could be predicted with incredible accuracy.  As a result, the greatest natural philosophers (proto-scientists) of the ancient world, Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle, concluded that there was a Prime Mover --- the basis for a belief in a single &quot;God&quot; to which all the lesser powers and forces were merely &quot;gods&quot; that ultimately operated within the divine Law of the one God.

Unfortunately, in the modern era since the Enlightenment, too much of religion has become detached from the collected wisdom and state of human knowledge and understanding (i.e., science).  Progressive or liberal Judeo-Christianity has continued to be informed (among its theologians and core thinkers at least, if not always translating to the pews) by this advance in understanding.  However, a large bulk of religion in general has taken the opposite tack:  it has detached itself from the knowledge of reality, denied reality, created reactionary anti-reality based world-views, and retreated into new and totally discredited truth claim constructs.  This is ultimately a harmful exercise that is totally discrediting to religion in general and which leaves members of reactionary fundamentalist religions with world-views that are not accurate predictors of reality.  

However, in discarding these new, reactionary world-views for what they are, we don&#039;t have to discard all tradition and our entire spiritual / philosophical heritage that came before us.  For example, there are lots of Western people who find value in the Eastern religious practice of meditation.  We should be similarly open to seeing the value of some of our own traditional spiritual practices, including prayer, private and public, and even contemplative, creative envisioning, of listening within our minds and hearts and being open to inspiration.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the era of polytheism, belief in the gods was wholly consonant with contemporary understandings of science &#8212; where &#8220;science&#8221; is defined as the collective state of human knowledge and understanding.  There was no unifying theory as to why humans were beset in the world around them by different, competing, often chaotic, and entirely unpredictable forces.  The river would flood, lightening would strike, pestilence would unpredictably take strong people in their prime.  People naturally anthropomorphized these forces (the way we still anthropomorphize things like our cars).  They told sacred stories to encapsulate and transmit collected wisdom concerning these forces, and they created rituals in order to think about and interact with them.  </p>
<p>Later, monotheism arose in response to scientific observation.  Babylonian astronomers/astrologers through centuries of observation realized that the heavens were not a place of chaos.  The unfixed stars (the planets, moon, and sun) were not operating at random.  They traveled in highly predictable cycles.  Phenomena like eclipses could be predicted with incredible accuracy.  As a result, the greatest natural philosophers (proto-scientists) of the ancient world, Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle, concluded that there was a Prime Mover &#8212; the basis for a belief in a single &#8220;God&#8221; to which all the lesser powers and forces were merely &#8220;gods&#8221; that ultimately operated within the divine Law of the one God.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, in the modern era since the Enlightenment, too much of religion has become detached from the collected wisdom and state of human knowledge and understanding (i.e., science).  Progressive or liberal Judeo-Christianity has continued to be informed (among its theologians and core thinkers at least, if not always translating to the pews) by this advance in understanding.  However, a large bulk of religion in general has taken the opposite tack:  it has detached itself from the knowledge of reality, denied reality, created reactionary anti-reality based world-views, and retreated into new and totally discredited truth claim constructs.  This is ultimately a harmful exercise that is totally discrediting to religion in general and which leaves members of reactionary fundamentalist religions with world-views that are not accurate predictors of reality.  </p>
<p>However, in discarding these new, reactionary world-views for what they are, we don&#8217;t have to discard all tradition and our entire spiritual / philosophical heritage that came before us.  For example, there are lots of Western people who find value in the Eastern religious practice of meditation.  We should be similarly open to seeing the value of some of our own traditional spiritual practices, including prayer, private and public, and even contemplative, creative envisioning, of listening within our minds and hearts and being open to inspiration.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by j</title>
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		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 16:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;We are not dealing with glowing spirits walking around the physical world like Obi Wan Kenobi and Yoda from Star Wars. Such things do not exist and never have existed outside of literature&quot; -John Hamer

Oh come on. My little Star Wars and LDS heart just failed me for a moment when you said that. blasphemy. May the ghosts of Darth Mall, Obi Wan, Moroni, and Darth Vader all visit you in your doubt.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;We are not dealing with glowing spirits walking around the physical world like Obi Wan Kenobi and Yoda from Star Wars. Such things do not exist and never have existed outside of literature&#8221; -John Hamer</p>
<p>Oh come on. My little Star Wars and LDS heart just failed me for a moment when you said that. blasphemy. May the ghosts of Darth Mall, Obi Wan, Moroni, and Darth Vader all visit you in your doubt.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 15:17:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[CanuckAussie:  I think the way John phrased some of those questions to me was --- can you make an honest, compelling argument that rehabilitates Joseph Smith in this or that context.  I believe it is very possible to re-remember an early formative experience --- which was entirely visionary in the first place --- in light of your later life.  My discussion here referred to the First Vision experience (not the later angel stories).  In the original experience, the teenaged Joseph Smith would have been stirred up with the contemporary issues of the &quot;Burned Over District&quot; of the Second Great Awakening.  He would have been reflecting on his sinful condition and concerned for his salvation.  Being earnestly wound up in that state, praying in isolation, at a certain moment he felt overwhelmed with comfort, had a vision of light and possibly Jesus in his mind&#039;s eye (i.e., with his physical eyes closed), and heard an answer inside his own thoughts that his sins were forgiven him.  This was a visionary experience that was incredibly common among Joseph&#039;s contemporaries in Second and First Great Awakening era America.  There is no reason to doubt that people have visionary experiences; nor do we have to see these as hallucinations.  

The visions of the angels (or spirits) are a different matter.  In the first place, we should note that in traditional Christian theology, angels are a different order of creation than humans; they are not the spirits of pre-existent humans or the ghosts of humans that have lived previously.  The word for that in normal English is &quot;spirit&quot;.  In part, because neither Nephi nor Moroni were literal historical persons, we can say with confidence that neither&#039;s spirit actually visited Joseph Smith in a physical sense.  We can also say this because no spirits or ghosts have ever visited anyone ever in an actual, physical, literal sense.  Likewise, angels do not have a physical existence in a literal sense; they are literary, theological, philosophical, and spiritual creations.  No one, including Joseph Smith, was ever visited by any such being in an external, literal, physical sense.

We can&#039;t know Joseph&#039;s personal visionary process.  Did he close his eyes and envision Nephi and Moroni in the many years leading up to his announcement that he finally had possession of the plates and intended to begin committing to paper stories he had been orally composing for years and years?  Maybe so --- he was a visionary guy who believed in folk magic.  It&#039;s up to you to decide and you can certainly decide &quot;no.&quot;   What we can have a window into is the visionary process when Joseph experienced visions along with other people.  For example, with the Three Witnesses and in Kirtland Temple.  Joseph and the other participants in the vision would prepare themselves, close their eyes, open their thoughts, and Joseph would envision a man clad in white.  He would ask, &quot;I see a man clad in white&quot; and he would go on to describe the vision and ask, &quot;Do you see him?&quot;  And the participants in the vision could very honestly say that they were envisioning the same thing and describe also what they were seeing, sharing the experience together.  In the case of the Three Witnesses vision, Martin Harris wasn&#039;t initially on board with Joseph, David Whitmer, and Oliver Cowdery&#039;s experience, so Joseph later was able to share the experience 1x1 directly with Martin who in the end believed &quot;it is enough!&quot; and it convinced him.  But, again, as with all visions, these are entirely visionary experiences.  We are not dealing with glowing spirits walking around the physical world like Obi Wan Kenobi and Yoda from Star Wars.  Such things do not exist and never have existed outside of literature.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CanuckAussie:  I think the way John phrased some of those questions to me was &#8212; can you make an honest, compelling argument that rehabilitates Joseph Smith in this or that context.  I believe it is very possible to re-remember an early formative experience &#8212; which was entirely visionary in the first place &#8212; in light of your later life.  My discussion here referred to the First Vision experience (not the later angel stories).  In the original experience, the teenaged Joseph Smith would have been stirred up with the contemporary issues of the &#8220;Burned Over District&#8221; of the Second Great Awakening.  He would have been reflecting on his sinful condition and concerned for his salvation.  Being earnestly wound up in that state, praying in isolation, at a certain moment he felt overwhelmed with comfort, had a vision of light and possibly Jesus in his mind&#8217;s eye (i.e., with his physical eyes closed), and heard an answer inside his own thoughts that his sins were forgiven him.  This was a visionary experience that was incredibly common among Joseph&#8217;s contemporaries in Second and First Great Awakening era America.  There is no reason to doubt that people have visionary experiences; nor do we have to see these as hallucinations.  </p>
<p>The visions of the angels (or spirits) are a different matter.  In the first place, we should note that in traditional Christian theology, angels are a different order of creation than humans; they are not the spirits of pre-existent humans or the ghosts of humans that have lived previously.  The word for that in normal English is &#8220;spirit&#8221;.  In part, because neither Nephi nor Moroni were literal historical persons, we can say with confidence that neither&#8217;s spirit actually visited Joseph Smith in a physical sense.  We can also say this because no spirits or ghosts have ever visited anyone ever in an actual, physical, literal sense.  Likewise, angels do not have a physical existence in a literal sense; they are literary, theological, philosophical, and spiritual creations.  No one, including Joseph Smith, was ever visited by any such being in an external, literal, physical sense.</p>
<p>We can&#8217;t know Joseph&#8217;s personal visionary process.  Did he close his eyes and envision Nephi and Moroni in the many years leading up to his announcement that he finally had possession of the plates and intended to begin committing to paper stories he had been orally composing for years and years?  Maybe so &#8212; he was a visionary guy who believed in folk magic.  It&#8217;s up to you to decide and you can certainly decide &#8220;no.&#8221;   What we can have a window into is the visionary process when Joseph experienced visions along with other people.  For example, with the Three Witnesses and in Kirtland Temple.  Joseph and the other participants in the vision would prepare themselves, close their eyes, open their thoughts, and Joseph would envision a man clad in white.  He would ask, &#8220;I see a man clad in white&#8221; and he would go on to describe the vision and ask, &#8220;Do you see him?&#8221;  And the participants in the vision could very honestly say that they were envisioning the same thing and describe also what they were seeing, sharing the experience together.  In the case of the Three Witnesses vision, Martin Harris wasn&#8217;t initially on board with Joseph, David Whitmer, and Oliver Cowdery&#8217;s experience, so Joseph later was able to share the experience 1&#215;1 directly with Martin who in the end believed &#8220;it is enough!&#8221; and it convinced him.  But, again, as with all visions, these are entirely visionary experiences.  We are not dealing with glowing spirits walking around the physical world like Obi Wan Kenobi and Yoda from Star Wars.  Such things do not exist and never have existed outside of literature.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by CanuckAussie</title>
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		<dc:creator>CanuckAussie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 14:31:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I meant to add, that I am a big fan of John Hamer and also an admirer of the CofC, which to me is what the LDS church could be if you removed almost every problem I have with the church (except Joe Smith) I love the equality, and courage to speak the truth and the apparent humility of the CofC president. I would be very happy there but for my distain of Joseph&#039;s Myth.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I meant to add, that I am a big fan of John Hamer and also an admirer of the CofC, which to me is what the LDS church could be if you removed almost every problem I have with the church (except Joe Smith) I love the equality, and courage to speak the truth and the apparent humility of the CofC president. I would be very happy there but for my distain of Joseph&#8217;s Myth.</p>
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		<dc:creator>CanuckAussie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 14:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This was a really interesting interview and one that answered a lot of questions I had regarding John returning to the CoC. 

The only part that bothered me was when both Johns defended the alternate versions of the first vision, saying that Smith&#039;s memory of the event could have changed.  I think this is ingenuous. There is no possible way that someone could see God Almighty, the creator of the universe, and Jesus Christ, the savior and creator of the world and forget who they saw. No way could Joe have forgotten and remembered it as Nephi, then Moroni, and then just angels etc. Sorry, but that excuse just does not hold water. Think what you may about Smith, but there is no reasonable way to believe his first vision in view of the contrasting versions he told of the first vision.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was a really interesting interview and one that answered a lot of questions I had regarding John returning to the CoC. </p>
<p>The only part that bothered me was when both Johns defended the alternate versions of the first vision, saying that Smith&#8217;s memory of the event could have changed.  I think this is ingenuous. There is no possible way that someone could see God Almighty, the creator of the universe, and Jesus Christ, the savior and creator of the world and forget who they saw. No way could Joe have forgotten and remembered it as Nephi, then Moroni, and then just angels etc. Sorry, but that excuse just does not hold water. Think what you may about Smith, but there is no reasonable way to believe his first vision in view of the contrasting versions he told of the first vision.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 13:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Bruce.  Cool!  Thanks for doing that --- I guess I have to figure out what reddit is now.  Good to meet you here; I absolutely love Susan.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Bruce.  Cool!  Thanks for doing that &#8212; I guess I have to figure out what reddit is now.  Good to meet you here; I absolutely love Susan.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 09:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Paul ---

1. As a brief summary, David Howlett, Barbara Walden and I wrote a book called Community of Christ: An Illustrated History.  Mark Scherer&#039;s 3-volume &quot;Journey of a People&quot; is much more detailed (although you need to wait for the 3rd forthcoming volume to get us to the present-day).  The church&#039;s website (cofchrist.org) has a lot of the most current information available.

2. Yes, I believe the LDS Church could make significant changes without losing more members than it already is losing because it is a very different organization and has a very different culture than the RLDS Church ever had.  And simultaneously, I believe there is no reason to imagine the LDS Church will make any such changes in the foreseeable future, because the LDS Church is a very different organization than Community of Christ is.

3. There&#039;s too many for any one favorite.  I&#039;ll name Steve LeSueur&#039;s &quot;The 1838 Mormon War in Missouri&quot; --- if people haven&#039;t read that, they should, it&#039;s excellent.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Paul &#8212;</p>
<p>1. As a brief summary, David Howlett, Barbara Walden and I wrote a book called Community of Christ: An Illustrated History.  Mark Scherer&#8217;s 3-volume &#8220;Journey of a People&#8221; is much more detailed (although you need to wait for the 3rd forthcoming volume to get us to the present-day).  The church&#8217;s website (cofchrist.org) has a lot of the most current information available.</p>
<p>2. Yes, I believe the LDS Church could make significant changes without losing more members than it already is losing because it is a very different organization and has a very different culture than the RLDS Church ever had.  And simultaneously, I believe there is no reason to imagine the LDS Church will make any such changes in the foreseeable future, because the LDS Church is a very different organization than Community of Christ is.</p>
<p>3. There&#8217;s too many for any one favorite.  I&#8217;ll name Steve LeSueur&#8217;s &#8220;The 1838 Mormon War in Missouri&#8221; &#8212; if people haven&#8217;t read that, they should, it&#8217;s excellent.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by N. Bruce Nelson</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492837</link>
		<dc:creator>N. Bruce Nelson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 04:42:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[John, we have never met, but I heard much about you from Susan Skoor not long after you two met.  I have created a social news site for anyone interested in the Community of Christ at http://www.reddit.com/r/CommunityOfChrist/.  

I just posted a link to this podcast.  

This reddit site will only have been live for one week, tommorrow, but already has some subscribers, and links to much content that I hope will be interesting and useful.  My hope is that it will help foster further community.  I would encourage anyone who reads this comment to take a look, and I hope some of you will feel like subscribing and adding your presence from time to time.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, we have never met, but I heard much about you from Susan Skoor not long after you two met.  I have created a social news site for anyone interested in the Community of Christ at <a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/CommunityOfChrist/" rel="nofollow">http://www.reddit.com/r/CommunityOfChrist/</a>.  </p>
<p>I just posted a link to this podcast.  </p>
<p>This reddit site will only have been live for one week, tommorrow, but already has some subscribers, and links to much content that I hope will be interesting and useful.  My hope is that it will help foster further community.  I would encourage anyone who reads this comment to take a look, and I hope some of you will feel like subscribing and adding your presence from time to time.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Paul</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492835</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 03:45:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey John, thanks for sharing your spiritual journey with us, fascinating stuff!  I went to the Kirkland temple while in Cleveland for work last October.  I have been interested in the CofC ever since.  A couple questions.

1.  Is there a good book or website you would recommend to better understand the CofC?
2.  I applaud the CofC for the mainstream Christian changes they made a few years ago.  Do you think the Utah Mormon church could make those changes.without losing its membership numbers as I believe the CofC did? 
3.  Favorite mormon history book?

Thanks!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey John, thanks for sharing your spiritual journey with us, fascinating stuff!  I went to the Kirkland temple while in Cleveland for work last October.  I have been interested in the CofC ever since.  A couple questions.</p>
<p>1.  Is there a good book or website you would recommend to better understand the CofC?<br />
2.  I applaud the CofC for the mainstream Christian changes they made a few years ago.  Do you think the Utah Mormon church could make those changes.without losing its membership numbers as I believe the CofC did?<br />
3.  Favorite mormon history book?</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by wasichu</title>
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		<dc:creator>wasichu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 02:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom,
   I&#039;m curious, why did the new bishop not allow you to pray in church and to teach, usually that does not happen for no reason.  Unless you explain the story more fully and complete your story is one sided and suspicious.  
 The Lords kingdom is not a place where we individually set our terms of membership, but all must ascribe to the Lord&#039;s standard. I enjoyed your story, but you came off as the victim, and everyone else came off as the big bad wolf.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom,<br />
   I&#8217;m curious, why did the new bishop not allow you to pray in church and to teach, usually that does not happen for no reason.  Unless you explain the story more fully and complete your story is one sided and suspicious.<br />
 The Lords kingdom is not a place where we individually set our terms of membership, but all must ascribe to the Lord&#8217;s standard. I enjoyed your story, but you came off as the victim, and everyone else came off as the big bad wolf.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Hamer</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492827</link>
		<dc:creator>John Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 01:14:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Glen,

That&#039;s a lot of questions!  This is like another whole interview/episode.

1. The Community of Christ still preaches from the Book of Mormon, yes.  The church recently published 3 new books on the Book of Mormon (including Mark Scherer&#039;s first volume of church history), all of which are intended to be used by adult Sunday School classes.  In my congregation, we will begin a Book of Mormon unit in adult Sunday School this fall.

2. The Community of Christ puts great emphasis on the D&amp;C and we add new revelations as new sections every few years.

3. The Pearl of Great Price is a Utah creation.  It did not exist in the early church and is not a part of the Community of Christ canon.  The text that has been labelled &quot;The Book of Moses&quot; and &quot;Joseph Smith--Mathew&quot; are components of the Joseph Smith Bible Revision, which is a manuscript owned by the Community of Christ and canonized as Joseph Smith&#039;s Inspired Version of the Bible.  &quot;Joseph Smith--History&quot; and &quot;The Book of Abraham&quot; were not canonized in the early church and are not canon in Community of Christ.

4. The name &quot;The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints&quot; is (if you will excuse me for saying so) an absolutely terrible name for a church.  But the &quot;Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints&quot; is even worse.  The original name of the church was &quot;Church of Christ.&quot;  Community of Christ changed its name (1) to have a better name in general, (2) to have a name that is an homage to the original name of the church, and (3) to have a name that emphasizes our core foci: Christ and the incredible capacity we have to build community together.

5. There was a physical plates artifact.  People lifted it in a box or felt it under cloth.  No one other than Joseph Smith was ever allowed to look at the artifact directly with physical eyes.  All visions of the plates were visionary.  All physical connections with the plates artifact were tactile, not visual.

6. Yes, there are several conservative RLDS tradition churches.
7. There is no priesthood discrimination on the basis of gender in Community of Christ.  Women fully participate at all levels of leadership:  Presiding bishopric, Council of Apostles, First Presidency.  I think more than half of congregational leaders at this point are women.

8. The Utah Church threw out the original section on marriage and replaced it with D&amp;C 132.  The Utah Church also added several dozen sections of Joseph Smith material to the D&amp;C that was not in the early church&#039;s D&amp;C (and is not in the CofC D&amp;C).  The CofC threw out the section that commands member &quot;build my servant Joseph a house&quot; (which is pretty embarrassing) along with the ones on baptism for the dead.  Every single prophet of the RLDS Church / Community of Christ has added multiple new revelations to the D&amp;C --- these include, in my opinion, some of the most inspired and inspiring writings in the entire standard works.

9. The Powerpoint presentation podcast hasn&#039;t been uploaded by John D. yet.  We&#039;ll all be looking forward to it.

10. My baptism into Community of Christ signified for me my personal and public declaration of commitment to membership in the faith community.  I did it because sacred symbols and forms have meanings just like sacred stories have meanings.  Sacred stories aren&#039;t important because they are (or aren&#039;t) history.  Likewise sacred rituals aren&#039;t important because they have literal cosmic significance (they don&#039;t); they are important symbollically, personally, in community, and in personal relationship with God.

11. Yes, I have a perspective and a bias.  I&#039;m a missionary for empowering a group of people in my extended faith community, the Restoration.  As such, I&#039;m an apologist.  However, the nature of my apologetics is (I believe) wholly consonant with responsible scholarship.

12. Thank you.  Yes, I&#039;m very happy with my decision.  I couldn&#039;t be more happy with my congregation in Toronto and with my denominational community, and with my extended community of cousins within the tradition.  We haven&#039;t recorded the final segment yet, so I don&#039;t know if John D. will ask me to bear my testimony.
Thanks,
John H.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Glen,</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a lot of questions!  This is like another whole interview/episode.</p>
<p>1. The Community of Christ still preaches from the Book of Mormon, yes.  The church recently published 3 new books on the Book of Mormon (including Mark Scherer&#8217;s first volume of church history), all of which are intended to be used by adult Sunday School classes.  In my congregation, we will begin a Book of Mormon unit in adult Sunday School this fall.</p>
<p>2. The Community of Christ puts great emphasis on the D&amp;C and we add new revelations as new sections every few years.</p>
<p>3. The Pearl of Great Price is a Utah creation.  It did not exist in the early church and is not a part of the Community of Christ canon.  The text that has been labelled &#8220;The Book of Moses&#8221; and &#8220;Joseph Smith&#8211;Mathew&#8221; are components of the Joseph Smith Bible Revision, which is a manuscript owned by the Community of Christ and canonized as Joseph Smith&#8217;s Inspired Version of the Bible.  &#8220;Joseph Smith&#8211;History&#8221; and &#8220;The Book of Abraham&#8221; were not canonized in the early church and are not canon in Community of Christ.</p>
<p>4. The name &#8220;The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints&#8221; is (if you will excuse me for saying so) an absolutely terrible name for a church.  But the &#8220;Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints&#8221; is even worse.  The original name of the church was &#8220;Church of Christ.&#8221;  Community of Christ changed its name (1) to have a better name in general, (2) to have a name that is an homage to the original name of the church, and (3) to have a name that emphasizes our core foci: Christ and the incredible capacity we have to build community together.</p>
<p>5. There was a physical plates artifact.  People lifted it in a box or felt it under cloth.  No one other than Joseph Smith was ever allowed to look at the artifact directly with physical eyes.  All visions of the plates were visionary.  All physical connections with the plates artifact were tactile, not visual.</p>
<p>6. Yes, there are several conservative RLDS tradition churches.<br />
7. There is no priesthood discrimination on the basis of gender in Community of Christ.  Women fully participate at all levels of leadership:  Presiding bishopric, Council of Apostles, First Presidency.  I think more than half of congregational leaders at this point are women.</p>
<p>8. The Utah Church threw out the original section on marriage and replaced it with D&amp;C 132.  The Utah Church also added several dozen sections of Joseph Smith material to the D&amp;C that was not in the early church&#8217;s D&amp;C (and is not in the CofC D&amp;C).  The CofC threw out the section that commands member &#8220;build my servant Joseph a house&#8221; (which is pretty embarrassing) along with the ones on baptism for the dead.  Every single prophet of the RLDS Church / Community of Christ has added multiple new revelations to the D&amp;C &#8212; these include, in my opinion, some of the most inspired and inspiring writings in the entire standard works.</p>
<p>9. The Powerpoint presentation podcast hasn&#8217;t been uploaded by John D. yet.  We&#8217;ll all be looking forward to it.</p>
<p>10. My baptism into Community of Christ signified for me my personal and public declaration of commitment to membership in the faith community.  I did it because sacred symbols and forms have meanings just like sacred stories have meanings.  Sacred stories aren&#8217;t important because they are (or aren&#8217;t) history.  Likewise sacred rituals aren&#8217;t important because they have literal cosmic significance (they don&#8217;t); they are important symbollically, personally, in community, and in personal relationship with God.</p>
<p>11. Yes, I have a perspective and a bias.  I&#8217;m a missionary for empowering a group of people in my extended faith community, the Restoration.  As such, I&#8217;m an apologist.  However, the nature of my apologetics is (I believe) wholly consonant with responsible scholarship.</p>
<p>12. Thank you.  Yes, I&#8217;m very happy with my decision.  I couldn&#8217;t be more happy with my congregation in Toronto and with my denominational community, and with my extended community of cousins within the tradition.  We haven&#8217;t recorded the final segment yet, so I don&#8217;t know if John D. will ask me to bear my testimony.<br />
Thanks,<br />
John H.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Dehlin</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Dehlin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 22:57:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Glad you enjoyed it, Glen!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glad you enjoyed it, Glen!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by Glen Fullmer</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/john-hamer-on-leaving-mormonism-and-returning-through-the-community-of-christ/comment-page-1/#comment-492824</link>
		<dc:creator>Glen Fullmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 22:52:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to both Johns!  Enjoyed this podcast. 

I have a fond place in my heart for the CofC because when I came out of Atheism into Christianity, that is one of many that I explored and enjoyed.  

Questions for John H:

Scripture:

Does the Church of Christ still preach from the Book of Mormon?  
Do they still consider the D&amp;C as it has been changed still used by the the CofC?

Pearl of Great Price?

What do you consider as scripture and how is it different from just good advice that one might find in good books?

Community of Christ Church:

Why did they change the name?  They didn&#039;t like the Mormon label?

Joseph Smith never had physical plates?  There were a lot of witnesses (more than the 11) that saw them, at least according to my study. What does the CofC teach in that regard?

I have met a couple of people who broke away from the CofC because they felt that JS and the BofM were not preached enough there anymore.  Is there an official breakaway that is currently active?

Are the members of the CofC more accepting of gays than the Utah Church? (as the old RLDS friends used to say ;-)

A lot of the Utah Church women, and especially the MSPC ones might like the fact that women ministers are equal, as I understand it, with men.  Is that correct?  The Priesthood open to women?  I just noticed women conducting while attending RLDS services in Florida.

Which sections of the Utah Church of the D&amp;C that the CofC throw out? and which new sections of the D&amp;C are added?  Are their any other &quot;scripture&quot; like documents in the Church?

Haven&#039;t looked at the Power Point presentation (3rd podcast segment), so I will have to take a look at it.

Personal:

What did your baptism into the CofC Church signify to you?  Does it mean different things to different people?  Why did you do it?

You seem to be a different type of apologist, but are you still one?  Is this more a culture thing to you, rather than a truth thing?

You seem pretty happy with your decisions in regards to religion?  I haven&#039;t listened to the last segment and am curious if John D. will ask you to bear your testimony.  I will look forward to listening to that.

Thanks again to both of you guys,
Glen]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks to both Johns!  Enjoyed this podcast. </p>
<p>I have a fond place in my heart for the CofC because when I came out of Atheism into Christianity, that is one of many that I explored and enjoyed.  </p>
<p>Questions for John H:</p>
<p>Scripture:</p>
<p>Does the Church of Christ still preach from the Book of Mormon?<br />
Do they still consider the D&amp;C as it has been changed still used by the the CofC?</p>
<p>Pearl of Great Price?</p>
<p>What do you consider as scripture and how is it different from just good advice that one might find in good books?</p>
<p>Community of Christ Church:</p>
<p>Why did they change the name?  They didn&#8217;t like the Mormon label?</p>
<p>Joseph Smith never had physical plates?  There were a lot of witnesses (more than the 11) that saw them, at least according to my study. What does the CofC teach in that regard?</p>
<p>I have met a couple of people who broke away from the CofC because they felt that JS and the BofM were not preached enough there anymore.  Is there an official breakaway that is currently active?</p>
<p>Are the members of the CofC more accepting of gays than the Utah Church? (as the old RLDS friends used to say <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>A lot of the Utah Church women, and especially the MSPC ones might like the fact that women ministers are equal, as I understand it, with men.  Is that correct?  The Priesthood open to women?  I just noticed women conducting while attending RLDS services in Florida.</p>
<p>Which sections of the Utah Church of the D&amp;C that the CofC throw out? and which new sections of the D&amp;C are added?  Are their any other &#8220;scripture&#8221; like documents in the Church?</p>
<p>Haven&#8217;t looked at the Power Point presentation (3rd podcast segment), so I will have to take a look at it.</p>
<p>Personal:</p>
<p>What did your baptism into the CofC Church signify to you?  Does it mean different things to different people?  Why did you do it?</p>
<p>You seem to be a different type of apologist, but are you still one?  Is this more a culture thing to you, rather than a truth thing?</p>
<p>You seem pretty happy with your decisions in regards to religion?  I haven&#8217;t listened to the last segment and am curious if John D. will ask you to bear your testimony.  I will look forward to listening to that.</p>
<p>Thanks again to both of you guys,<br />
Glen</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by liz</title>
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		<dc:creator>liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 20:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This was beautiful.  Thank you.  And Dan, I aspire to someday be in your place where comments and policies no longer wound me.  Any advice on getting to that point?  Women&#039;s issues are especially difficult for me.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was beautiful.  Thank you.  And Dan, I aspire to someday be in your place where comments and policies no longer wound me.  Any advice on getting to that point?  Women&#8217;s issues are especially difficult for me.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by John Dehlin</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Dehlin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 18:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, George!  So glad you enjoyed!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, George!  So glad you enjoyed!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 422-423: John Hamer on Returning to Mormonism Through the Community of Christ by George</title>
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		<dc:creator>George</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 18:11:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I loved this podcast and consider John Hamer a good friend. Our love of LDS history is parallel, indeed many aspects of our lives run parallel as well. Thanks John D. for sharing John H&#039;s story.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this podcast and consider John Hamer a good friend. Our love of LDS history is parallel, indeed many aspects of our lives run parallel as well. Thanks John D. for sharing John H&#8217;s story.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Isaac N</title>
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		<dc:creator>Isaac N</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 16:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Although I would have preferred a comparison of the last sentence of my previous comment to Jonathan Edwards or a Southern Baptist preacher rather than a Jehovah’s Witness, I must admit that Jehovah’s Witnesses have some truth, as all churches do.  The true and living church of Jesus Christ embraces all truth from all sources, especially, as somebody already pointed out on this website, that which is virtuous, lovely, and of good report and praiseworthy. 

By the way, have you noticed that the Jehovah’s Witnesses should not feel obligated to proselytize Mormons?   Jehovah’s Witnesses testify of Jehovah whom they claim is God the Father, not Jesus Christ.  However, both the Father and the Son evidently share the name “Jehovah.”    This assertion is supported by Section 109 of the D&amp;C (the dedicatory prayer for the Kirtland Temple).  Joseph Smith is addressing God the Father as we LDS do in all our prayers: “And now we ask thee, Holy Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, the Son of thy bosom….” (Verse 4).   Thus Joseph Smith is praying to God the Father and not Jesus Christ.  Yet in verses 34 and 42, Joseph Smith calls the person he is praying to “Jehovah.”  

Jesus Christ is called the Jehovah of the Old Testament, and that particular Jehovah (Jesus Christ) is referred to in verse 68.  It is common for a son to be named after his father.  Other names and titles which the Father and the Son share are “Lord” (see several verses in the same section), God, Father, and Adam.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Although I would have preferred a comparison of the last sentence of my previous comment to Jonathan Edwards or a Southern Baptist preacher rather than a Jehovah’s Witness, I must admit that Jehovah’s Witnesses have some truth, as all churches do.  The true and living church of Jesus Christ embraces all truth from all sources, especially, as somebody already pointed out on this website, that which is virtuous, lovely, and of good report and praiseworthy. </p>
<p>By the way, have you noticed that the Jehovah’s Witnesses should not feel obligated to proselytize Mormons?   Jehovah’s Witnesses testify of Jehovah whom they claim is God the Father, not Jesus Christ.  However, both the Father and the Son evidently share the name “Jehovah.”    This assertion is supported by Section 109 of the D&amp;C (the dedicatory prayer for the Kirtland Temple).  Joseph Smith is addressing God the Father as we LDS do in all our prayers: “And now we ask thee, Holy Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, the Son of thy bosom….” (Verse 4).   Thus Joseph Smith is praying to God the Father and not Jesus Christ.  Yet in verses 34 and 42, Joseph Smith calls the person he is praying to “Jehovah.”  </p>
<p>Jesus Christ is called the Jehovah of the Old Testament, and that particular Jehovah (Jesus Christ) is referred to in verse 68.  It is common for a son to be named after his father.  Other names and titles which the Father and the Son share are “Lord” (see several verses in the same section), God, Father, and Adam.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Jay</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492794</link>
		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 02:20:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Spoken just like dedicated Jehovah&#039;s Witness.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Spoken just like dedicated Jehovah&#8217;s Witness.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492783</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 19:03:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, wiki has a list of the authorities, I think I found my guy. I googled him and found no official contact info listed anywhere. I found a law office that might employ him. 

This seems really intimidating.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, wiki has a list of the authorities, I think I found my guy. I googled him and found no official contact info listed anywhere. I found a law office that might employ him. </p>
<p>This seems really intimidating.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by mark</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492782</link>
		<dc:creator>mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 18:49:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Tom

If you think of the church like a business, any issues you have you just escalate up the levels of management, till you get the answer you want. So no joy from Bishop and SP, go to area presidency, no joy there, 1st quorom of 70, etc...

I know the challenge will be getting names and contact details but should be possible. I expect there are plenty of readers / listeners of this podcast who will have contacts in the church hierarchy. 

Keep records of all interactions, and be persistent.

The more people report this sort of bad management, the more the top levels will listen. I do believe the old addage &#039;poop rolls downhill&#039;!

** I encourage all others who have had bad experiences with local leadership to do the same **

Tom, your story made me cry and angry at the same time....]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tom</p>
<p>If you think of the church like a business, any issues you have you just escalate up the levels of management, till you get the answer you want. So no joy from Bishop and SP, go to area presidency, no joy there, 1st quorom of 70, etc&#8230;</p>
<p>I know the challenge will be getting names and contact details but should be possible. I expect there are plenty of readers / listeners of this podcast who will have contacts in the church hierarchy. </p>
<p>Keep records of all interactions, and be persistent.</p>
<p>The more people report this sort of bad management, the more the top levels will listen. I do believe the old addage &#8216;poop rolls downhill&#8217;!</p>
<p>** I encourage all others who have had bad experiences with local leadership to do the same **</p>
<p>Tom, your story made me cry and angry at the same time&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492778</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 16:41:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How would one go about doing that? I feel like I&#039;m a fairly sophisticated person and I have no idea about how to go about doing such a thing. The Bishop&#039;s councilor and I sent it to the Stake level with absolutely no results. Like I said in the podcast. The institution is broken, there is no real accessible system for redress.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How would one go about doing that? I feel like I&#8217;m a fairly sophisticated person and I have no idea about how to go about doing such a thing. The Bishop&#8217;s councilor and I sent it to the Stake level with absolutely no results. Like I said in the podcast. The institution is broken, there is no real accessible system for redress.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 08:19:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This whole issue of inadequate local leadership and making room for nontraditional beleivers needs to be fixed soon, I think it needs as much airtime as the soon to come discussion of the historical issues.

It also seems to be contrary to Jeff holands comments about us being a big tent church and also his comments on the BBC documentary about not shunning.

Tom did you ever consider taking the example of your treatment by the new bishop higher up the line e.g.to GA level? The GAs should come down like a ton of bricks onto this sort of bad behaviour]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This whole issue of inadequate local leadership and making room for nontraditional beleivers needs to be fixed soon, I think it needs as much airtime as the soon to come discussion of the historical issues.</p>
<p>It also seems to be contrary to Jeff holands comments about us being a big tent church and also his comments on the BBC documentary about not shunning.</p>
<p>Tom did you ever consider taking the example of your treatment by the new bishop higher up the line e.g.to GA level? The GAs should come down like a ton of bricks onto this sort of bad behaviour</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Zack T.</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492693</link>
		<dc:creator>Zack T.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 23:21:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Square Peg.....it is because we are unique, if you believe our spirits come from God as our father and we each have our own ways of reacting and behaving, and using our agency. If you do not believe than it is nature, DNA, environment and conditioning, you chose.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Square Peg&#8230;..it is because we are unique, if you believe our spirits come from God as our father and we each have our own ways of reacting and behaving, and using our agency. If you do not believe than it is nature, DNA, environment and conditioning, you chose.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492689</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 22:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks Jay. Good luck on your journey.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Jay. Good luck on your journey.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by square peg</title>
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		<dc:creator>square peg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 22:04:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[JT,
Thanks for your insights and wisdom. I hope to gain that over the years. Right now I&#039;m still struggling not to react defensively all the time. I need to practice the &quot;silent smile&quot; you suggest. I have much to learn still on how to navigate through the varying reactions and behaviors of others. I too have wondered why there is such a large range to the types of responses and attitudes reflected in people who all claim to believe the same things.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JT,<br />
Thanks for your insights and wisdom. I hope to gain that over the years. Right now I&#8217;m still struggling not to react defensively all the time. I need to practice the &#8220;silent smile&#8221; you suggest. I have much to learn still on how to navigate through the varying reactions and behaviors of others. I too have wondered why there is such a large range to the types of responses and attitudes reflected in people who all claim to believe the same things.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by JT</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492685</link>
		<dc:creator>JT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 21:08:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s been 26 years since I gently, but noticeably, began moving away from Mormonism and 5 years since I formally resigned. I&#039;ve managed to remain in the good graces of my faithful wife of 29 years and our three faithful grown children. While this carries its own issues, it serves here as minimum context for the following pair of encounters at my son&#039;s recent marriage in the Washington DC temple. Perhaps these add to Tom&#039;s experiences.

Encounter 1.

As the marriage attendees drifted into the lobby from behind the security desk, a diminutive elderly gentleman walked up to me, took my right hand and, with saccharine effusiveness, congratulated me for doing such a fine job raising such a fine son. I held my silent smile through his protracted grip and words and just said, &quot;thank you&quot; when he was through. He turned out to be a former counselor in our hometown stake presidency and now, as a temple worker, had just performed my son&#039;s sealing ordinance.

Encounter 2.

Minutes later, standing near the big gold side door next to my frail 90-year old father, waiting for our turn to pose for cameras, a current counselor in our hometown stake presidency headed our way. But this one&#039;s eyes, and then hands and sweet words, were locked onto my father. There the three of us stood, at least five yards from anyone else, and this stake holder never acknowledged my existence. Again, I held a silent smile until he turned and walked away.

Tom&#039;s suggestion that the church has a negative affect on some of its leaders reminded me of these encounters and the extremes they can encompass. What is it about religion that can as easily turn some people into a blissfully sweet simpletons as obnoxious tribal pricks?

But perhaps the better question is: What is it about some people that they can leverage religion to support such divergent personal dispositions?

I no longer have any excuse for being a prick or simple-minded - which means I either have to look for some or grow out of both. Standing there with a silent smile - even if somewhat forced - seemed the wisest course of action at the time. But such moments also add up - 29 years and running - which, as I said above, carries its own issues.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been 26 years since I gently, but noticeably, began moving away from Mormonism and 5 years since I formally resigned. I&#8217;ve managed to remain in the good graces of my faithful wife of 29 years and our three faithful grown children. While this carries its own issues, it serves here as minimum context for the following pair of encounters at my son&#8217;s recent marriage in the Washington DC temple. Perhaps these add to Tom&#8217;s experiences.</p>
<p>Encounter 1.</p>
<p>As the marriage attendees drifted into the lobby from behind the security desk, a diminutive elderly gentleman walked up to me, took my right hand and, with saccharine effusiveness, congratulated me for doing such a fine job raising such a fine son. I held my silent smile through his protracted grip and words and just said, &#8220;thank you&#8221; when he was through. He turned out to be a former counselor in our hometown stake presidency and now, as a temple worker, had just performed my son&#8217;s sealing ordinance.</p>
<p>Encounter 2.</p>
<p>Minutes later, standing near the big gold side door next to my frail 90-year old father, waiting for our turn to pose for cameras, a current counselor in our hometown stake presidency headed our way. But this one&#8217;s eyes, and then hands and sweet words, were locked onto my father. There the three of us stood, at least five yards from anyone else, and this stake holder never acknowledged my existence. Again, I held a silent smile until he turned and walked away.</p>
<p>Tom&#8217;s suggestion that the church has a negative affect on some of its leaders reminded me of these encounters and the extremes they can encompass. What is it about religion that can as easily turn some people into a blissfully sweet simpletons as obnoxious tribal pricks?</p>
<p>But perhaps the better question is: What is it about some people that they can leverage religion to support such divergent personal dispositions?</p>
<p>I no longer have any excuse for being a prick or simple-minded &#8211; which means I either have to look for some or grow out of both. Standing there with a silent smile &#8211; even if somewhat forced &#8211; seemed the wisest course of action at the time. But such moments also add up &#8211; 29 years and running &#8211; which, as I said above, carries its own issues.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Isaac N</title>
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		<dc:creator>Isaac N</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jun 2013 09:23:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jay, if you can live with the duplicity of claiming to know the truth while rejecting the truths of the true gospel of Jesus Christ, then I am sorry for you.  What do you (those outside of the church) have to offer outside of Mormonism?  What about negative spins and interpretations of the Bible, the Book of Mormon, Church history, and Joseph Smith?  I could not in good conscience tell anyone that those negative spins and interpretations might be true, regardless of how friendly the dissidents and other critics who subscribe to them might be.  I guess I’m just a stickler for truth.  To each his own--to choose whom they will serve—the negative, faith destroying interpretations of Bible scriptures, church history, and Joseph Smith or the positive, faith promoting interpretations.
 
I did not say that the various versions of the first vision all agree.  I said that the various versions report certain aspects of the first vision that other versions do not.   If you can’t live with that possibility, then I am also sorry for you for that.  To ignore positive possibilities of that type is to check one’s brain at the door.  It is because some disciples became offended (e.g. becoming critical and making negative assumptions and interpretations) that caused some of those disciples of Christ to leave his church even while he lived on the earth.  If some left his church while he walked and talked with them, we have to expect that some of Christ’s disciples will leave his church today when Christ is not physically present to perform miracles and try to talk the offended dissidents out of their errors (e.g. helping them understand that all prophets are not all perfect but he still expects us to pay positive attention to their teachings, that God might bind in heaven what they have bound on earth and might seal in heaven what they have sealed on earth, etc.)    If it is your intention to destroy people’s faith and lead them carefully away from Christ and his chosen apostles and prophets, please consider repenting before you have their “blood on your hands” per the prophet Ezekiel.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jay, if you can live with the duplicity of claiming to know the truth while rejecting the truths of the true gospel of Jesus Christ, then I am sorry for you.  What do you (those outside of the church) have to offer outside of Mormonism?  What about negative spins and interpretations of the Bible, the Book of Mormon, Church history, and Joseph Smith?  I could not in good conscience tell anyone that those negative spins and interpretations might be true, regardless of how friendly the dissidents and other critics who subscribe to them might be.  I guess I’m just a stickler for truth.  To each his own&#8211;to choose whom they will serve—the negative, faith destroying interpretations of Bible scriptures, church history, and Joseph Smith or the positive, faith promoting interpretations.</p>
<p>I did not say that the various versions of the first vision all agree.  I said that the various versions report certain aspects of the first vision that other versions do not.   If you can’t live with that possibility, then I am also sorry for you for that.  To ignore positive possibilities of that type is to check one’s brain at the door.  It is because some disciples became offended (e.g. becoming critical and making negative assumptions and interpretations) that caused some of those disciples of Christ to leave his church even while he lived on the earth.  If some left his church while he walked and talked with them, we have to expect that some of Christ’s disciples will leave his church today when Christ is not physically present to perform miracles and try to talk the offended dissidents out of their errors (e.g. helping them understand that all prophets are not all perfect but he still expects us to pay positive attention to their teachings, that God might bind in heaven what they have bound on earth and might seal in heaven what they have sealed on earth, etc.)    If it is your intention to destroy people’s faith and lead them carefully away from Christ and his chosen apostles and prophets, please consider repenting before you have their “blood on your hands” per the prophet Ezekiel.</p>
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		<dc:creator>jpv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jun 2013 06:40:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did this ever get posted?]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Educated criminals work within the law</title>
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		<dc:creator>Educated criminals work within the law</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jun 2013 03:13:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dan, thank you for your story. This was a great piece. I loved the different perspectives.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dan, thank you for your story. This was a great piece. I loved the different perspectives.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jun 2013 23:59:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@ RayG
You seem like a really good person (I mean that with all sincerity), and if you can live with the duplicity I am happy for you. What do we (those of us outside the church) have to offer outside of Mormonism? What about truth? Nephites, Laminites, Jaredites - seriously?  I could not in good conscious tell my kids such things were true, regardless of how friendly the people might be. I guess I&#039;m just a stickler for truth though. To each his own.

@ Issac N. 
To say the various versions of the first vision all agree is to resort to the type of Daniel C. Peterson apologetics that no one believes without checking your brain at the door. It&#039;s that type of apologetic response (spin) that has caused allot of people to leave. If that is your intention please keep up the good work.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ RayG<br />
You seem like a really good person (I mean that with all sincerity), and if you can live with the duplicity I am happy for you. What do we (those of us outside the church) have to offer outside of Mormonism? What about truth? Nephites, Laminites, Jaredites &#8211; seriously?  I could not in good conscious tell my kids such things were true, regardless of how friendly the people might be. I guess I&#8217;m just a stickler for truth though. To each his own.</p>
<p>@ Issac N.<br />
To say the various versions of the first vision all agree is to resort to the type of Daniel C. Peterson apologetics that no one believes without checking your brain at the door. It&#8217;s that type of apologetic response (spin) that has caused allot of people to leave. If that is your intention please keep up the good work.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by AZ Mormon</title>
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		<dc:creator>AZ Mormon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jun 2013 01:10:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Right there with you Scott.  Life is a crazy ride/journey.  Way to be honest!  I applaud you.  Letting church leadership into our marriages/lives is tough stuff.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right there with you Scott.  Life is a crazy ride/journey.  Way to be honest!  I applaud you.  Letting church leadership into our marriages/lives is tough stuff.</p>
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		<dc:creator>AZ Mormon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jun 2013 20:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just beginning to listen to the pod cast, I&#039;m in the middle of a mess with my bishop-felt like I was doing the responsible thing as a steward in my calling - let my faith struggles out of the bag and naively allowed myself to be badgered and interrogated about my testimony in a one on one interview that lasted at least an hour and half.  That won&#039;t be happening again.

What a great tool you have here!  Thank you!

I&#039;ve since heard about other crazy stories like a bishop who started using lie detectors in temple recommend interviews and was promptly handled by the higher-ups...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just beginning to listen to the pod cast, I&#8217;m in the middle of a mess with my bishop-felt like I was doing the responsible thing as a steward in my calling &#8211; let my faith struggles out of the bag and naively allowed myself to be badgered and interrogated about my testimony in a one on one interview that lasted at least an hour and half.  That won&#8217;t be happening again.</p>
<p>What a great tool you have here!  Thank you!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve since heard about other crazy stories like a bishop who started using lie detectors in temple recommend interviews and was promptly handled by the higher-ups&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Pacumeni</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492504</link>
		<dc:creator>Pacumeni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jun 2013 14:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As any competent sociologist would, Stark controls for the proportion of young males when making claims about religion and crime rates.  (As I note above, the secular societies of Europe are in a demographic death spiral.) The median male age in the United States is lower--generally much lower--than that of all the European countries listed except for heavily Catholic Ireland, which is slightly younger than the US.  Since the proportion of young males is powerfully correlated with crime rates, the US should have higher--generally far higher--crime rates than all the European countries except Ireland based on proportion of young males--but it doesn’t.  The assault rate in Scotland is 5.7, in Sweden 3.5, in England 2.8, in Belgium 2.7, in Germany 2.4, in Finland 2.3, in Luxembourg 1.8, in Ireland and the Netherlands 1.3, and in Portugal and France 1.2 times the rate in the US.  Burglary rates are higher than in the US by factors of 2.7 in Denmark, 1.8 in Austria, 1.4 in Sweden and England, and 1.2 Belgium and Switzerland. Sovenia and Northern Ireland are also higher than the US. The rape rate in Sweden is more than twice as high as that of the US, and the rates of England and Belgium are very similar in spite of the far lower proportion of young males. Vehicle thefts are substantially higher in Sweden, Italy, Denmark, France, and Ireland though it is harder to hide a stolen car in those smaller, more centrally regulated counties than in the US. For robbery, Portugal’s and France’s  rate is 1.4, Spain’s 8.9, and Belgium’s 13 times greater than in the US. England is also higher than the US. Clearly, many European countries have far higher crime rates than the US despite the fact that all but Ireland should have lower rates given the powerful effects of young male demographics on crime. Stark’s claims are not laughably absurd nor are Cragun’s claims patently obvious.  What is obvious to me is that Cragun’s use of numbers is rhetorical, not dispassionately and scientifically objective. Readers should understand that he sees the data through the prism of his anti-religious and especially anti-Mormon animus and selects data that support his preordained anti-religious thesis.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As any competent sociologist would, Stark controls for the proportion of young males when making claims about religion and crime rates.  (As I note above, the secular societies of Europe are in a demographic death spiral.) The median male age in the United States is lower&#8211;generally much lower&#8211;than that of all the European countries listed except for heavily Catholic Ireland, which is slightly younger than the US.  Since the proportion of young males is powerfully correlated with crime rates, the US should have higher&#8211;generally far higher&#8211;crime rates than all the European countries except Ireland based on proportion of young males&#8211;but it doesn’t.  The assault rate in Scotland is 5.7, in Sweden 3.5, in England 2.8, in Belgium 2.7, in Germany 2.4, in Finland 2.3, in Luxembourg 1.8, in Ireland and the Netherlands 1.3, and in Portugal and France 1.2 times the rate in the US.  Burglary rates are higher than in the US by factors of 2.7 in Denmark, 1.8 in Austria, 1.4 in Sweden and England, and 1.2 Belgium and Switzerland. Sovenia and Northern Ireland are also higher than the US. The rape rate in Sweden is more than twice as high as that of the US, and the rates of England and Belgium are very similar in spite of the far lower proportion of young males. Vehicle thefts are substantially higher in Sweden, Italy, Denmark, France, and Ireland though it is harder to hide a stolen car in those smaller, more centrally regulated counties than in the US. For robbery, Portugal’s and France’s  rate is 1.4, Spain’s 8.9, and Belgium’s 13 times greater than in the US. England is also higher than the US. Clearly, many European countries have far higher crime rates than the US despite the fact that all but Ireland should have lower rates given the powerful effects of young male demographics on crime. Stark’s claims are not laughably absurd nor are Cragun’s claims patently obvious.  What is obvious to me is that Cragun’s use of numbers is rhetorical, not dispassionately and scientifically objective. Readers should understand that he sees the data through the prism of his anti-religious and especially anti-Mormon animus and selects data that support his preordained anti-religious thesis.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jun 2013 03:54:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[David, I guess I&#039;m not being clear, but I don&#039;t want to write longer posts than I already do.  Did not mean to infer the LDS church is superior, just that our system of choosing leadership would have a lower likelihood of having predators, because people don&#039;t choose a career path of Bishop.  It is something they are asked to do, at great sacrifice to themselves.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David, I guess I&#8217;m not being clear, but I don&#8217;t want to write longer posts than I already do.  Did not mean to infer the LDS church is superior, just that our system of choosing leadership would have a lower likelihood of having predators, because people don&#8217;t choose a career path of Bishop.  It is something they are asked to do, at great sacrifice to themselves.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jun 2013 03:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, probably best.  I think we&#039;re both struggling to be understood within the constraints of this forum.  There was no intent to give offense, hopefully you can forgive my inabilities.

I appreciate your willingness to put your story out there, gave me lots of things to think about.  Good luck to you as well.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, probably best.  I think we&#8217;re both struggling to be understood within the constraints of this forum.  There was no intent to give offense, hopefully you can forgive my inabilities.</p>
<p>I appreciate your willingness to put your story out there, gave me lots of things to think about.  Good luck to you as well.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mormon Libertarianism by Adam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jun 2013 03:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sorry, but Ezra Taft Benson was WRONG.  He was formally contradicted by the First Presidency (under David O. McKay) and effectively performed a John Birch Society coop d&#039;etat of the church.  I honestly believe that his leadership lead the church away from its true mission and that he should be regarded as a false prophet.  He stood more for fascist stratification than the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

If he had been excommunicated in the 1960&#039;s, as he should have been, this would undoubtedly be a much more Christlike church than it presently is.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry, but Ezra Taft Benson was WRONG.  He was formally contradicted by the First Presidency (under David O. McKay) and effectively performed a John Birch Society coop d&#8217;etat of the church.  I honestly believe that his leadership lead the church away from its true mission and that he should be regarded as a false prophet.  He stood more for fascist stratification than the Gospel of Jesus Christ.</p>
<p>If he had been excommunicated in the 1960&#8242;s, as he should have been, this would undoubtedly be a much more Christlike church than it presently is.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mormon Libertarianism by Jim Graham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jim Graham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jun 2013 00:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For Mormons and non-Mormons alike, the basic premises found in The Proper Role of Government speech by Ezra Taft Benson will help clarify the limits of government power as it pertains to maintaining the God-ordained freedom that we all fought to defend before we came to this earth. (http://www.danmccay.com/resources/The-Proper-Role-of-Government.pdf)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For Mormons and non-Mormons alike, the basic premises found in The Proper Role of Government speech by Ezra Taft Benson will help clarify the limits of government power as it pertains to maintaining the God-ordained freedom that we all fought to defend before we came to this earth. (<a href="http://www.danmccay.com/resources/The-Proper-Role-of-Government.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.danmccay.com/resources/The-Proper-Role-of-Government.pdf</a>)</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Scott T</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jun 2013 22:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[David E Richardson,
  This is a perfect example of literal vs non-literal belief. I would just caution you to be careful if you have only experience on one side that coin.  I &quot;castigated&quot; someone in a very similar situation, just like you are trying to do to me. I never imagined in a million years I would agree with him two years later, and I sent him a long apology. 

In answer to your questions/diatribes, whenever you put man between you and God, it can get very messy.  So why not go direct?  Where is true Priesthood found?  &#039;The Kingdom of God is within you.&#039;  You may want to look up what the Fullness of the Priesthood means.  What is true Power in the Priesthood? Does it come from man with an ordination, or is the ordination just a mere invitation to go directly to God and get it yourself? What does the endowment point to? Where is Power in the Priesthood mentioned in the endowment? Why is it mentioned there?  Maybe it&#039;s best to use some scriptural examples for illustration. To me the scriptures are beneficial when they point to the real thing. Look at these specific examples where there is no intermediary when Power in the Priesthood is conferred. Now, the temptation would be to take all of these scriptures and stories literally, and that is ok.  I choose instead to look at what they are pointing to.  To not obsess myself with the symbol but what is represented by the symbol.

&quot;The apparent discrepancy between the Franklin D. Richards and Martha Coray reports on this point may be reconciled in light of the Prophet&#039;s distinction between a man&#039;s ordination to the priesthood and his possessing power in the priesthood. Priesthood ordination does not, by itself, assure a man that God will ratify all his acts as a priesthood bearer. Perhaps Abraham received the &quot;anointing and sealing&quot; (the priesthood ordination of king and priest) under the hands of Melchizedek (Genesis 14:17-24 and JST Genesis 14:25-40), but the &quot;election sure&quot;—the absolute assurance of power in the priesthood—came directly from God only after Abraham indicated his willingness to sacrifice Isaac (Genesis 22:1-14). (Words of Joseph Smith footnote)&quot;

D&amp;C 76:20- “And we beheld the glory of the Son, on the right hand of the Father, and received of his fulness.”  (Joseph and Sidney- 16 February 1832).

JST Genesis 14:
26 Now Melchizedek was a man of faith, who wrought righteousness; and when a child he feared God, and stopped the mouths of lions, and quenched the violence of fire.
27 And thus, having been approved of God, he was ordained an high priest after the order of the covenant which God made with Enoch,
28 It being after the order of the Son of God; which order came, not by man, nor the will of man; neither by father nor mother; neither by beginning of days nor end of years; but of God;
29 And it was delivered unto men by the calling of his own voice, according to his own will, unto as many as believed on his name.
30 For God having sworn unto Enoch and unto his seed with an oath by himself; that every one being ordained after this order and calling should have power, by faith, to break mountains, to divide the seas, to dry up waters, to turn them out of their course;

**Note the phrasing- &quot;..which order came, not by man, nor the will of man; neither by father nor mother; neither by beginning of days nor end of years; but of God;
And it was delivered unto men by the calling of his own voice&quot;

Helaman 10:
6 Behold, thou art Nephi, and I am God. Behold, I declare it unto thee in the presence of mine angels, that ye shall have power over this people, and shall smite the earth with famine, and with pestilence, and destruction, according to the wickedness of this people.

 7 Behold, I give unto you power, that whatsoever ye shall seal on earth shall be sealed in heaven; and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven; and thus shall ye have power among this people.

**How did this power come? Was there any intermediary there?

D&amp;C 93:16-18
16 And I, John, bear record that he received a fulness of the glory of the Father;
17 And he received all bpower, both in heaven and on earth, and the glory of the Father was with him, for he dwelt in him.
18 And it shall come to pass, that if you are faithful you shall receive the afulness of the record of John.

I am not a huge Denver Snuffer fan but he got it right with these quotes:

“Priesthood power is clearly something different than an ordination. But it is clear the only thing an ordination accomplishes is to invite the one ordained to then connect to heaven. It is from heaven alone that priesthood power is obtained.”

“Power comes from heaven alone. Therefore, no person who has priesthood conferred upon them has any power prior to having it ratified by heaven. The conferral is only an invitation for a man to go obtain power from heaven, not actual power itself. It confers an office within the church, but an office in the church is not synonymous with the power of heaven.”

“Most of the ordinances of the church are not the real thing. They are types, symbols of the real thing. They are official invitations, authorized by Christ… Any person who has priesthood conferred upon him will need to go into God’s presence, and receive it through the veil for power in their priesthood.”

“Gentiles always crave authority to preside over one another. Gentile authority in the church is not equal to power in the priesthood. … The power of heaven cannot be controlled by men. It comes from heaven or it does not come at all. There has never been an institution entrusted with the power of heaven. … The power of the priesthood comes only one way … men do not have any right to either confer it, or prevent it from being conferred.” (also see Pres Packers talk on power vs authority of the Priesthood).  

“Joseph Smith taught that all Old Testament prophets who obtained higher priesthood during the dispensation of Moses, did so by receiving it directly from God. In the Book of Mormon we learn there is a ‘holy order’ which is ‘without beginning of days’ which some obtained ‘from the foundation of the world’ and brought here. The higher priesthood does not come from man or men, is without father or mother, and is only given one way: by the voice of God to the individual.” 

Just some food for thought FWIW.  Just stay open to all possibilities, that would be my advice...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David E Richardson,<br />
  This is a perfect example of literal vs non-literal belief. I would just caution you to be careful if you have only experience on one side that coin.  I &#8220;castigated&#8221; someone in a very similar situation, just like you are trying to do to me. I never imagined in a million years I would agree with him two years later, and I sent him a long apology. </p>
<p>In answer to your questions/diatribes, whenever you put man between you and God, it can get very messy.  So why not go direct?  Where is true Priesthood found?  &#8216;The Kingdom of God is within you.&#8217;  You may want to look up what the Fullness of the Priesthood means.  What is true Power in the Priesthood? Does it come from man with an ordination, or is the ordination just a mere invitation to go directly to God and get it yourself? What does the endowment point to? Where is Power in the Priesthood mentioned in the endowment? Why is it mentioned there?  Maybe it&#8217;s best to use some scriptural examples for illustration. To me the scriptures are beneficial when they point to the real thing. Look at these specific examples where there is no intermediary when Power in the Priesthood is conferred. Now, the temptation would be to take all of these scriptures and stories literally, and that is ok.  I choose instead to look at what they are pointing to.  To not obsess myself with the symbol but what is represented by the symbol.</p>
<p>&#8220;The apparent discrepancy between the Franklin D. Richards and Martha Coray reports on this point may be reconciled in light of the Prophet&#8217;s distinction between a man&#8217;s ordination to the priesthood and his possessing power in the priesthood. Priesthood ordination does not, by itself, assure a man that God will ratify all his acts as a priesthood bearer. Perhaps Abraham received the &#8220;anointing and sealing&#8221; (the priesthood ordination of king and priest) under the hands of Melchizedek (Genesis 14:17-24 and JST Genesis 14:25-40), but the &#8220;election sure&#8221;—the absolute assurance of power in the priesthood—came directly from God only after Abraham indicated his willingness to sacrifice Isaac (Genesis 22:1-14). (Words of Joseph Smith footnote)&#8221;</p>
<p>D&amp;C 76:20- “And we beheld the glory of the Son, on the right hand of the Father, and received of his fulness.”  (Joseph and Sidney- 16 February 1832).</p>
<p>JST Genesis 14:<br />
26 Now Melchizedek was a man of faith, who wrought righteousness; and when a child he feared God, and stopped the mouths of lions, and quenched the violence of fire.<br />
27 And thus, having been approved of God, he was ordained an high priest after the order of the covenant which God made with Enoch,<br />
28 It being after the order of the Son of God; which order came, not by man, nor the will of man; neither by father nor mother; neither by beginning of days nor end of years; but of God;<br />
29 And it was delivered unto men by the calling of his own voice, according to his own will, unto as many as believed on his name.<br />
30 For God having sworn unto Enoch and unto his seed with an oath by himself; that every one being ordained after this order and calling should have power, by faith, to break mountains, to divide the seas, to dry up waters, to turn them out of their course;</p>
<p>**Note the phrasing- &#8220;..which order came, not by man, nor the will of man; neither by father nor mother; neither by beginning of days nor end of years; but of God;<br />
And it was delivered unto men by the calling of his own voice&#8221;</p>
<p>Helaman 10:<br />
6 Behold, thou art Nephi, and I am God. Behold, I declare it unto thee in the presence of mine angels, that ye shall have power over this people, and shall smite the earth with famine, and with pestilence, and destruction, according to the wickedness of this people.</p>
<p> 7 Behold, I give unto you power, that whatsoever ye shall seal on earth shall be sealed in heaven; and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven; and thus shall ye have power among this people.</p>
<p>**How did this power come? Was there any intermediary there?</p>
<p>D&amp;C 93:16-18<br />
16 And I, John, bear record that he received a fulness of the glory of the Father;<br />
17 And he received all bpower, both in heaven and on earth, and the glory of the Father was with him, for he dwelt in him.<br />
18 And it shall come to pass, that if you are faithful you shall receive the afulness of the record of John.</p>
<p>I am not a huge Denver Snuffer fan but he got it right with these quotes:</p>
<p>“Priesthood power is clearly something different than an ordination. But it is clear the only thing an ordination accomplishes is to invite the one ordained to then connect to heaven. It is from heaven alone that priesthood power is obtained.”</p>
<p>“Power comes from heaven alone. Therefore, no person who has priesthood conferred upon them has any power prior to having it ratified by heaven. The conferral is only an invitation for a man to go obtain power from heaven, not actual power itself. It confers an office within the church, but an office in the church is not synonymous with the power of heaven.”</p>
<p>“Most of the ordinances of the church are not the real thing. They are types, symbols of the real thing. They are official invitations, authorized by Christ… Any person who has priesthood conferred upon him will need to go into God’s presence, and receive it through the veil for power in their priesthood.”</p>
<p>“Gentiles always crave authority to preside over one another. Gentile authority in the church is not equal to power in the priesthood. … The power of heaven cannot be controlled by men. It comes from heaven or it does not come at all. There has never been an institution entrusted with the power of heaven. … The power of the priesthood comes only one way … men do not have any right to either confer it, or prevent it from being conferred.” (also see Pres Packers talk on power vs authority of the Priesthood).  </p>
<p>“Joseph Smith taught that all Old Testament prophets who obtained higher priesthood during the dispensation of Moses, did so by receiving it directly from God. In the Book of Mormon we learn there is a ‘holy order’ which is ‘without beginning of days’ which some obtained ‘from the foundation of the world’ and brought here. The higher priesthood does not come from man or men, is without father or mother, and is only given one way: by the voice of God to the individual.” </p>
<p>Just some food for thought FWIW.  Just stay open to all possibilities, that would be my advice&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by David E. Richardson</title>
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		<dc:creator>David E. Richardson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jun 2013 09:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Scott T, you said:  “I don’t know what will happen. But I just know it will be ok. There is a little bit of that leader roulette talked about in the podcast. But I can guarantee you, if I’m not allowed in these circles, I will have a little sermon prepared for those who are there and will hopefully I will present it in a loving, and respectful manner.”

I hope you will include in your little sermon scriptures from the Bible stressing the importance of priesthood authority from God through the laying on of hands by those who are in authority, e.g. “No man taken this honor unto himself except he that is called of God as was Aaron.”  Moses laid his hands on Aaron to confer the priesthood upon him.  Also people were re baptized according to the Bible when it became obvious they had been baptized by persons who did not have God’s true priesthood authority to baptize.  (Those who were re-baptized had not even heard that there was such a thing as the Holy Ghost.)

I also hope you will include in your sermon the fact that there are persuasive counterarguments to all objections, questions, issues, and problems that critics of the Church raise just as there are persuasive counterarguments to all objections, questions, issues, and problems that critics raise about Jesus and the Bible.
Please tell your children that some of the disciples of Jesus who walked and talked with him eventually left him and went their own way, so we have to expect there will be some people today who also will stop following the Church that Jesus established while he lived on earth.  Some members of his Church today will eventually stop attending his Church.

Some would eventually stop following Jesus himself today if they walked and talked with him in person every day like some people walked and talked with Jesus before they became offended and left his Church in the days when Jesus lived on the earth.  Some will stop following Christ’s living apostles and prophets today like so many stopped following the original apostles whom Jesus called and set apart to lead his Church on earth after he ascended to Heaven.  People stop following prophets when they disagree strongly with the words and/or actions of those prophets even though Jesus allowed them to make some mistakes once in a while.

Then how about finishing with:  “Choose ye this day whom ye will serve, but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord even if his chosen servants to whom he has given his priesthood authority make mistakes or say or do something we don’t approve of==or if his chosen servants don’t say or don’t do what we think they should say or do as soon as we think they should.”]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scott T, you said:  “I don’t know what will happen. But I just know it will be ok. There is a little bit of that leader roulette talked about in the podcast. But I can guarantee you, if I’m not allowed in these circles, I will have a little sermon prepared for those who are there and will hopefully I will present it in a loving, and respectful manner.”</p>
<p>I hope you will include in your little sermon scriptures from the Bible stressing the importance of priesthood authority from God through the laying on of hands by those who are in authority, e.g. “No man taken this honor unto himself except he that is called of God as was Aaron.”  Moses laid his hands on Aaron to confer the priesthood upon him.  Also people were re baptized according to the Bible when it became obvious they had been baptized by persons who did not have God’s true priesthood authority to baptize.  (Those who were re-baptized had not even heard that there was such a thing as the Holy Ghost.)</p>
<p>I also hope you will include in your sermon the fact that there are persuasive counterarguments to all objections, questions, issues, and problems that critics of the Church raise just as there are persuasive counterarguments to all objections, questions, issues, and problems that critics raise about Jesus and the Bible.<br />
Please tell your children that some of the disciples of Jesus who walked and talked with him eventually left him and went their own way, so we have to expect there will be some people today who also will stop following the Church that Jesus established while he lived on earth.  Some members of his Church today will eventually stop attending his Church.</p>
<p>Some would eventually stop following Jesus himself today if they walked and talked with him in person every day like some people walked and talked with Jesus before they became offended and left his Church in the days when Jesus lived on the earth.  Some will stop following Christ’s living apostles and prophets today like so many stopped following the original apostles whom Jesus called and set apart to lead his Church on earth after he ascended to Heaven.  People stop following prophets when they disagree strongly with the words and/or actions of those prophets even though Jesus allowed them to make some mistakes once in a while.</p>
<p>Then how about finishing with:  “Choose ye this day whom ye will serve, but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord even if his chosen servants to whom he has given his priesthood authority make mistakes or say or do something we don’t approve of==or if his chosen servants don’t say or don’t do what we think they should say or do as soon as we think they should.”</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jun 2013 06:12:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ray,

I&#039;ve been puzzling over your posts for a few days now. I have to admit that you really got under my skin. Not because of what you wrote, but because I thought you might actually hear what I wrote if I said it one more time in a more clear way. 

It reminded me of when My daughter was having a serious conflict this last year with a girl in her circle of friends. My daughter was explaining to her why the boys in the group were not inviting the girls to play video games one night. Thinking she was being witty, my daughter simply stated &quot;sometimes it is just &#039;bros before hos.&#039;&quot;  

She thought that using vulger slang as humor and that it would also explain that sometimes the boys just need to be with the boys. She expected this young girl to get what she was saying. The young girl&#039;s father came to my house to tell me that my daughter had called his daughter a slut. He ws very upset. He wanted to tell me this man-to-man and for me to punish my daughter. It took me quite a while to make sense of what was going on.  My daughter was very embarrassed and intimidated by the father who followed up by tracking down my 5 foot 4 daughter at school and yelling at her. He is probably 6 foot 4.  

I had to ask him to not talk to my daughter anymore and to just let the girls sort it out themselves.  

The whole thing eventually blew over and in time the young girl continued to come to our home when the gang of kids came over.  

I learned from talking to her that she doesn&#039;t get jokes. She is a literalist. If I were to say. &quot;I had to eat crow.&quot; She would think I actually ate a bird. When my daughter used the street slang.  She really did think my daughter was calling her a whore.  

Knowing this. It was easy to forgive her and her dad.  

I don&#039;t get what is going on with you on this thread? You really think bad stuff of me. I like to think I&#039;m a fairly decent guy. Not perfect. I am head strong. But I also like to think I&#039;m tolerant and flexible. I fail at this a lot, but I want to believe that people have good intentions, until I know they don&#039;t. At that point, I&#039;m a pit bull (this is a metaphor, I&#039;m not really a dog). 

I don&#039;t know what your issue are or why you behave the way you do on this thread or why you can&#039;t hear what I&#039;m putting out there? Why you say you are not an abuser and then in the same breath abuse? But if nobody else is telling you? It is weird behavior you exhibit on these threads.  If you can&#039;t understand what  I&#039;m expressing, or you are unable to self reflect on this. Maybe you should go someplace else till you can 

You should probably not come someplace like this untill you have the skills to view others as flawed people who have good intentions, and that if you don&#039;t understand something, it is probably because you don&#039;t have all the facts.  In my case,  though ive triied to explain, myself, I&#039;m just not gong to share all the facts of my issue with you, so the simple truth is that anything you continue to say including your last post, will continue to be insulting rather than meaningful. I stopped listening to you and don&#039;t think anything you have to say is thoughtful or of value because you don&#039;t seem to be able to hear what others are saying or understand why your posts are insulting. 

Good luck in your journey.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray,</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been puzzling over your posts for a few days now. I have to admit that you really got under my skin. Not because of what you wrote, but because I thought you might actually hear what I wrote if I said it one more time in a more clear way. </p>
<p>It reminded me of when My daughter was having a serious conflict this last year with a girl in her circle of friends. My daughter was explaining to her why the boys in the group were not inviting the girls to play video games one night. Thinking she was being witty, my daughter simply stated &#8220;sometimes it is just &#8216;bros before hos.&#8217;&#8221;  </p>
<p>She thought that using vulger slang as humor and that it would also explain that sometimes the boys just need to be with the boys. She expected this young girl to get what she was saying. The young girl&#8217;s father came to my house to tell me that my daughter had called his daughter a slut. He ws very upset. He wanted to tell me this man-to-man and for me to punish my daughter. It took me quite a while to make sense of what was going on.  My daughter was very embarrassed and intimidated by the father who followed up by tracking down my 5 foot 4 daughter at school and yelling at her. He is probably 6 foot 4.  </p>
<p>I had to ask him to not talk to my daughter anymore and to just let the girls sort it out themselves.  </p>
<p>The whole thing eventually blew over and in time the young girl continued to come to our home when the gang of kids came over.  </p>
<p>I learned from talking to her that she doesn&#8217;t get jokes. She is a literalist. If I were to say. &#8220;I had to eat crow.&#8221; She would think I actually ate a bird. When my daughter used the street slang.  She really did think my daughter was calling her a whore.  </p>
<p>Knowing this. It was easy to forgive her and her dad.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t get what is going on with you on this thread? You really think bad stuff of me. I like to think I&#8217;m a fairly decent guy. Not perfect. I am head strong. But I also like to think I&#8217;m tolerant and flexible. I fail at this a lot, but I want to believe that people have good intentions, until I know they don&#8217;t. At that point, I&#8217;m a pit bull (this is a metaphor, I&#8217;m not really a dog). </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what your issue are or why you behave the way you do on this thread or why you can&#8217;t hear what I&#8217;m putting out there? Why you say you are not an abuser and then in the same breath abuse? But if nobody else is telling you? It is weird behavior you exhibit on these threads.  If you can&#8217;t understand what  I&#8217;m expressing, or you are unable to self reflect on this. Maybe you should go someplace else till you can </p>
<p>You should probably not come someplace like this untill you have the skills to view others as flawed people who have good intentions, and that if you don&#8217;t understand something, it is probably because you don&#8217;t have all the facts.  In my case,  though ive triied to explain, myself, I&#8217;m just not gong to share all the facts of my issue with you, so the simple truth is that anything you continue to say including your last post, will continue to be insulting rather than meaningful. I stopped listening to you and don&#8217;t think anything you have to say is thoughtful or of value because you don&#8217;t seem to be able to hear what others are saying or understand why your posts are insulting. </p>
<p>Good luck in your journey.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Clinton</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492450</link>
		<dc:creator>Clinton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jun 2013 01:26:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mary, I don&#039;t think that I was trying to outline a recipe for upward mobility, I was merely asking whether high-SES couples who are also highly religious raise more children than high-SES secular couples do.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mary, I don&#8217;t think that I was trying to outline a recipe for upward mobility, I was merely asking whether high-SES couples who are also highly religious raise more children than high-SES secular couples do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jun 2013 00:56:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jay, I don&#039;t know any people or organizations who lead with their worst foot.  Assuming you&#039;re married, I&#039;m guessing your first date didn&#039;t start with a list of all the girls you dated or things you did wrong as a youth.  Does that mean you lack integrity?  Not at all.  The goal of the church is to present things in as palatable manner as possible, so they can teach the doctrine that has eternal significance, like a woman that wears make-up.  

I don&#039;t think everything the church has done is fine, but just because people mess up, doesn&#039;t mean I throw everything out.  Joseph&#039;s polygamy is one of the things in church history that I really struggle with, but I know that the great majority of people who were actually there still sustained him.  Are there ways to interpret things that make it look horrible?  Yes.  Are there ways to interpret things that make it something I can stomach and accept?  Yes.  All history gets interpreted, I guess all of us chose the version we like the best.

In response to your question if I would/could walk away?  I would say yes.  I really, deeply assessed my faith a few years back and almost lost it.  Took a while to restore it, and it has changed from what it was during high school and mission and such, but I think it is more robust and sturdy now.  If the church told me to murder, or rejected Christ, or became Muslim, or brought out the first ten drafts of the Book of Mormon written by someone else, yes, those would be things that would likely destroy my faith.

The question I have for people trying to pull me from Mormonism is, what are you offering in its place?  I already believe in God, Jesus, the Bible, I try and live a christian life, I give service, donate to charity, try really hard to be a good father and husband, I enjoy the people I worship with, I&#039;ve been blessed with great leaders, and on and on.  I know of no church or faith that could add to those things, though I firmly believe that there are lots of other great churches that do good things.  The problem I have with other christian faiths are items like the trinity, and their concept of hell, no work for the dead, and doctrine that is too democratic (small &quot;d&quot; democratic).  If we can vote on what God is/says, then to me that is just a social club.  Theology is important to me, and I like LDS theology for the most part.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jay, I don&#8217;t know any people or organizations who lead with their worst foot.  Assuming you&#8217;re married, I&#8217;m guessing your first date didn&#8217;t start with a list of all the girls you dated or things you did wrong as a youth.  Does that mean you lack integrity?  Not at all.  The goal of the church is to present things in as palatable manner as possible, so they can teach the doctrine that has eternal significance, like a woman that wears make-up.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think everything the church has done is fine, but just because people mess up, doesn&#8217;t mean I throw everything out.  Joseph&#8217;s polygamy is one of the things in church history that I really struggle with, but I know that the great majority of people who were actually there still sustained him.  Are there ways to interpret things that make it look horrible?  Yes.  Are there ways to interpret things that make it something I can stomach and accept?  Yes.  All history gets interpreted, I guess all of us chose the version we like the best.</p>
<p>In response to your question if I would/could walk away?  I would say yes.  I really, deeply assessed my faith a few years back and almost lost it.  Took a while to restore it, and it has changed from what it was during high school and mission and such, but I think it is more robust and sturdy now.  If the church told me to murder, or rejected Christ, or became Muslim, or brought out the first ten drafts of the Book of Mormon written by someone else, yes, those would be things that would likely destroy my faith.</p>
<p>The question I have for people trying to pull me from Mormonism is, what are you offering in its place?  I already believe in God, Jesus, the Bible, I try and live a christian life, I give service, donate to charity, try really hard to be a good father and husband, I enjoy the people I worship with, I&#8217;ve been blessed with great leaders, and on and on.  I know of no church or faith that could add to those things, though I firmly believe that there are lots of other great churches that do good things.  The problem I have with other christian faiths are items like the trinity, and their concept of hell, no work for the dead, and doctrine that is too democratic (small &#8220;d&#8221; democratic).  If we can vote on what God is/says, then to me that is just a social club.  Theology is important to me, and I like LDS theology for the most part.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Jen White</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492448</link>
		<dc:creator>Jen White</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 23:58:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really enjoyed this. Thanks for a great podcast. I want to be part of  this dream ward with all 3 of you. :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really enjoyed this. Thanks for a great podcast. I want to be part of  this dream ward with all 3 of you. <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by David</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492437</link>
		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 17:54:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have known several bishops that have been removed from their positions for misconduct but the church would have you believe that your church is far superior by hiding whats going on like they always have.  Also to say the LDS church is good because look at what happened in the Catholic Church is ludicrous. RELIGION is not the solution it is the problem so to compare your religion to another is just silly.  I&#039;m not saying people should give up on church but realize that religion is the problem and the people need to hold church leaders accountable more often then the leaders need to correct the members. Hold onto your faith in God and values not your church!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have known several bishops that have been removed from their positions for misconduct but the church would have you believe that your church is far superior by hiding whats going on like they always have.  Also to say the LDS church is good because look at what happened in the Catholic Church is ludicrous. RELIGION is not the solution it is the problem so to compare your religion to another is just silly.  I&#8217;m not saying people should give up on church but realize that religion is the problem and the people need to hold church leaders accountable more often then the leaders need to correct the members. Hold onto your faith in God and values not your church!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by David</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492428</link>
		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 17:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[-Tom.  You are an excellent communicator and I appreciate your comments!  Thank you so much for sharing your story.  Its nice to know I wasn&#039;t the only victim of abuse. God bless you brother and keep sharing your story.  I believe your inspiration may help others back away from suicide and depression knowing there is life after Mormonism. Thanks again!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>-Tom.  You are an excellent communicator and I appreciate your comments!  Thank you so much for sharing your story.  Its nice to know I wasn&#8217;t the only victim of abuse. God bless you brother and keep sharing your story.  I believe your inspiration may help others back away from suicide and depression knowing there is life after Mormonism. Thanks again!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Mary</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492424</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 14:56:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Neil, I understand what you&#039;re getting it, and I agree with you about pornography. But some of your claims are just plain uninformed. For example, in the case of Kermit Gosenell, the abortion doctor in Philadelphia. You make it sound like progressives and pro-choice advocates approve of what he did. They don&#039;t. Nobody does. It wasn&#039;t even legal. Except for cases where the mother&#039;s life or health is in danger, late-term abortions are banned in the U.S. with bipartisan support(to say nothing of delivering full-term babies and then killing them with scissors). 

Also, your statement that progressives &quot;have control over the vote of 90% blacks&quot; is just plain offensive. You&#039;re implying that black people don&#039;t have control over their own votes (i.e. opinions and ideas).

Also, since when do progressives control public school education? I wish. Then in places like Texas maybe abstinence-only sex ed would be done away with, along with religion being taught as science and the re-writing of textbooks to eliminate mention of the founding fathers owning slaves and to downplay other social ills in our history that don&#039;t fit a sanitized conservative narrative.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Neil, I understand what you&#8217;re getting it, and I agree with you about pornography. But some of your claims are just plain uninformed. For example, in the case of Kermit Gosenell, the abortion doctor in Philadelphia. You make it sound like progressives and pro-choice advocates approve of what he did. They don&#8217;t. Nobody does. It wasn&#8217;t even legal. Except for cases where the mother&#8217;s life or health is in danger, late-term abortions are banned in the U.S. with bipartisan support(to say nothing of delivering full-term babies and then killing them with scissors). </p>
<p>Also, your statement that progressives &#8220;have control over the vote of 90% blacks&#8221; is just plain offensive. You&#8217;re implying that black people don&#8217;t have control over their own votes (i.e. opinions and ideas).</p>
<p>Also, since when do progressives control public school education? I wish. Then in places like Texas maybe abstinence-only sex ed would be done away with, along with religion being taught as science and the re-writing of textbooks to eliminate mention of the founding fathers owning slaves and to downplay other social ills in our history that don&#8217;t fit a sanitized conservative narrative.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Mary</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492422</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 14:22:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Clinton, if more Americans are slipping into the &quot;receving side&quot; of government support and lack the adequate resources to invest in their children, I think we need to take an honest look at why this is happening. Your &quot;recipe for upwarding mobility&quot; doesn&#039;t tell the whole story. What about factors like today&#039;s astronomical college admission costs and predatory interest rates for student loans, out-of-control healthcare costs and the difficulty in obtaining insurance, corporations outsourcing jobs to overseas sweatshops, and a stagnant minimum wage that&#039;s almost impossible for workers to live on let alone support a family.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Clinton, if more Americans are slipping into the &#8220;receving side&#8221; of government support and lack the adequate resources to invest in their children, I think we need to take an honest look at why this is happening. Your &#8220;recipe for upwarding mobility&#8221; doesn&#8217;t tell the whole story. What about factors like today&#8217;s astronomical college admission costs and predatory interest rates for student loans, out-of-control healthcare costs and the difficulty in obtaining insurance, corporations outsourcing jobs to overseas sweatshops, and a stagnant minimum wage that&#8217;s almost impossible for workers to live on let alone support a family.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Ryan Cragun</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492421</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan Cragun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 13:21:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ray,

I didn&#039;t say that conservatives are less intelligent.  What I said, and what Chris Mooney says (and what the science says) is that conservatives are more prone to &quot;motivated reasoning,&quot; or looking for information to confirm their pre-existing beliefs.  And if you&#039;re going to just go ahead and dismiss entire domains of scientific inquiry by claiming &quot;it&#039;s not the most rigid science in the world,&quot; well, then I&#039;m not sure what more I can say.  You could try to read it, but if you don&#039;t value science as an epistemology, then there this discussion is kind of done. I won&#039;t accept any other epistemology.

And since you keep pushing, I guess I can engage in your taunts about progressives wanting big government and trying to run everyone else&#039;s lives.  That&#039;s simply not true.  Conservatives are the ones trying to restrict what people can do sexually, who people can marry (progressives didn&#039;t push through all the constitutional amendments at the state level banning same-sex marriage), and whether or not women can control their fertility.  Yes, progressives want large corporations to have more regulation to prevent them from polluting, but they generally don&#039;t care if one, two, ten, or 1,000 people get together to have an orgy, so long as they are all consenting adults.  Progressives want greater rights for minorities, not fewer.  And that doesn&#039;t mean fewer rights for whites or heterosexuals or men, just equal rights for everyone else. So, please stop with the ridiculous comments about how I want to run your life.  I&#039;m not interested in running your life.  Just stay out of mine.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray,</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t say that conservatives are less intelligent.  What I said, and what Chris Mooney says (and what the science says) is that conservatives are more prone to &#8220;motivated reasoning,&#8221; or looking for information to confirm their pre-existing beliefs.  And if you&#8217;re going to just go ahead and dismiss entire domains of scientific inquiry by claiming &#8220;it&#8217;s not the most rigid science in the world,&#8221; well, then I&#8217;m not sure what more I can say.  You could try to read it, but if you don&#8217;t value science as an epistemology, then there this discussion is kind of done. I won&#8217;t accept any other epistemology.</p>
<p>And since you keep pushing, I guess I can engage in your taunts about progressives wanting big government and trying to run everyone else&#8217;s lives.  That&#8217;s simply not true.  Conservatives are the ones trying to restrict what people can do sexually, who people can marry (progressives didn&#8217;t push through all the constitutional amendments at the state level banning same-sex marriage), and whether or not women can control their fertility.  Yes, progressives want large corporations to have more regulation to prevent them from polluting, but they generally don&#8217;t care if one, two, ten, or 1,000 people get together to have an orgy, so long as they are all consenting adults.  Progressives want greater rights for minorities, not fewer.  And that doesn&#8217;t mean fewer rights for whites or heterosexuals or men, just equal rights for everyone else. So, please stop with the ridiculous comments about how I want to run your life.  I&#8217;m not interested in running your life.  Just stay out of mine.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by John Dehlin</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492420</link>
		<dc:creator>John Dehlin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 13:09:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[RayG - Just a warning that you are about to be banned from commenting here.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>RayG &#8211; Just a warning that you are about to be banned from commenting here.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by RayG</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492419</link>
		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 12:44:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, not sure what you&#039;re implying with the question at the end, but no, I not familiar with any abusers who blame the victims, and I&#039;d even be willing to let you talk to my family members one on one, to interrogate them to see if I&#039;m an abuser.

A person could ask you if you know anyone who won&#039;t let their family members have a private conversation with a counselor because they&#039;re afraid of what might be divulged, but I have no reason to think or believe that is your case.  I just think you&#039;re an highly paranoid individual.

I glanced at the studies you linked, and while interesting, I don&#039;t think it&#039;s as big an issue in the LDS church, where leaders are chosen based essentially on past, faithful performance, not self selected.  I think the Catholics had such bad luck, because men who were abusers could self select a career that put them in proximity with potential victims.  Also, in most other faiths the leaders will be there for decades, able to cover their tracks, so to speak.  In the LDS church the system is much more difficult to perpetuate crimes like that.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, not sure what you&#8217;re implying with the question at the end, but no, I not familiar with any abusers who blame the victims, and I&#8217;d even be willing to let you talk to my family members one on one, to interrogate them to see if I&#8217;m an abuser.</p>
<p>A person could ask you if you know anyone who won&#8217;t let their family members have a private conversation with a counselor because they&#8217;re afraid of what might be divulged, but I have no reason to think or believe that is your case.  I just think you&#8217;re an highly paranoid individual.</p>
<p>I glanced at the studies you linked, and while interesting, I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s as big an issue in the LDS church, where leaders are chosen based essentially on past, faithful performance, not self selected.  I think the Catholics had such bad luck, because men who were abusers could self select a career that put them in proximity with potential victims.  Also, in most other faiths the leaders will be there for decades, able to cover their tracks, so to speak.  In the LDS church the system is much more difficult to perpetuate crimes like that.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Mary</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492413</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 08:50:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ryan, thank you for calling Pacumeni out on the racist subtext in his or her statements. Immigration in western Europe and the United States from impoverished overpopulated countries is a win-win situation. Now if we could just do something about the xenophobia...

Also, Pacumeni, as Ryan pointed out non-religious people do have children, just at lower rates than religious people. It only takes 2 children per woman to keep a population at replacement levels. The birthrate of a number of western European countries (France, for example), has in fact increased over the last couple of decades and is now at or close to replacement rate. So I would agree that all the doom and gloom prognosticating is a bit premature.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ryan, thank you for calling Pacumeni out on the racist subtext in his or her statements. Immigration in western Europe and the United States from impoverished overpopulated countries is a win-win situation. Now if we could just do something about the xenophobia&#8230;</p>
<p>Also, Pacumeni, as Ryan pointed out non-religious people do have children, just at lower rates than religious people. It only takes 2 children per woman to keep a population at replacement levels. The birthrate of a number of western European countries (France, for example), has in fact increased over the last couple of decades and is now at or close to replacement rate. So I would agree that all the doom and gloom prognosticating is a bit premature.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Isaac N.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Isaac N.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 08:45:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All accounts of Joseph Smith’s first vision are correct.  Each provides further details of that vision just as the Four Gospels provide further details of Christ’s ministry on earth.  In the Bible there are two different versions of Paul’s first vision.  The official version of Joseph Smith’s first vision appears in the Pearl of Great Price and covers the highlights of all versions of Joseph Smith’s first vision.  Nothing is wrong with that approach or the Bible’s multi-faceted approach to Christ’s ministry and Paul’s first vision.  
So here is how David’s comments can be paraphrased to explain why so many of us stay true and faithful to the church despite the objections of critics and others whose hearts have grown cold:  I understand why most believe the church’s version of events and that is why they have no problem staying. To those of us who truly believe the church’s version, we feel extremely blessed and favored of the Lord.  We must look like such faithful followers of Jesus Christ to our LDS and non-LDS friends in High School and on our missions. We feel totally fortunate and envied, realizing that so many others also have believed it for years. It just feels like absolute truth and that we are standard bearers of the true gospel of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We are labeled servants of God for presenting the true gospel of Jesus Christ to so many who haven’t known it in its fullness.  From the first we thought others would want to know the truth as we discovered it. Turns out many knew all along in their heart of hearts that it was true.  Being a righteous Mormon Christian involves continuing the commission by Jesus Christ himself to take his gospel to the whole world, bringing people the joy and happiness of becoming closer to Christ. It sometimes takes years to combat the counter attacks by the adversary and his gullible, taken advantage of assistants in order to help others grasp the eternal joys of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All accounts of Joseph Smith’s first vision are correct.  Each provides further details of that vision just as the Four Gospels provide further details of Christ’s ministry on earth.  In the Bible there are two different versions of Paul’s first vision.  The official version of Joseph Smith’s first vision appears in the Pearl of Great Price and covers the highlights of all versions of Joseph Smith’s first vision.  Nothing is wrong with that approach or the Bible’s multi-faceted approach to Christ’s ministry and Paul’s first vision.<br />
So here is how David’s comments can be paraphrased to explain why so many of us stay true and faithful to the church despite the objections of critics and others whose hearts have grown cold:  I understand why most believe the church’s version of events and that is why they have no problem staying. To those of us who truly believe the church’s version, we feel extremely blessed and favored of the Lord.  We must look like such faithful followers of Jesus Christ to our LDS and non-LDS friends in High School and on our missions. We feel totally fortunate and envied, realizing that so many others also have believed it for years. It just feels like absolute truth and that we are standard bearers of the true gospel of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We are labeled servants of God for presenting the true gospel of Jesus Christ to so many who haven’t known it in its fullness.  From the first we thought others would want to know the truth as we discovered it. Turns out many knew all along in their heart of hearts that it was true.  Being a righteous Mormon Christian involves continuing the commission by Jesus Christ himself to take his gospel to the whole world, bringing people the joy and happiness of becoming closer to Christ. It sometimes takes years to combat the counter attacks by the adversary and his gullible, taken advantage of assistants in order to help others grasp the eternal joys of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492408</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 07:35:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interesting reaction you are having to me. Any chance you have seen theae studies?

http://www.baylor.edu/clergysexualmisconduct/

And

http://www.baylor.edu/content/services/document.php/96036.pdf

One in 33 women in America who attend church have had sexual advances by their clergy. You say Mormon bishops are the least likely place to find a preditor. That would seem to defy the statistics. I will grant you that out of the 150 women in our ward. That statistically, we could be among the five who were abused is really bad luck. 

Can i ask you a personal question? The study did talk about the abusors blaiming the victims. Any chance you know someone who does that?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting reaction you are having to me. Any chance you have seen theae studies?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.baylor.edu/clergysexualmisconduct/" rel="nofollow">http://www.baylor.edu/clergysexualmisconduct/</a></p>
<p>And</p>
<p><a href="http://www.baylor.edu/content/services/document.php/96036.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.baylor.edu/content/services/document.php/96036.pdf</a></p>
<p>One in 33 women in America who attend church have had sexual advances by their clergy. You say Mormon bishops are the least likely place to find a preditor. That would seem to defy the statistics. I will grant you that out of the 150 women in our ward. That statistically, we could be among the five who were abused is really bad luck. </p>
<p>Can i ask you a personal question? The study did talk about the abusors blaiming the victims. Any chance you know someone who does that?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 04:18:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I finally understood after so many years struggling in the church and finally walking away that many never believed the churches version of events and that is why they have no problem staying. To those of us who actually believed the churches version we feel extremely stupid, gullible and taken advantage of.  I must have looked like such a goof to my LDS friends in High School and on my mission. I feel totally cheated and laughed at realizing so many never really believed it in the first place.  It just feels like an evil lie and now I&#039;m the one labeled evil for exposing the truth so many already knew. At first I thought others would want to know the truth as I discovered.  Turns out they knew all along and I was the dummy.  Being a righteous Mormon involves continuing the cover up. Took me years to grasp the shallow rotten concept of deception.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I finally understood after so many years struggling in the church and finally walking away that many never believed the churches version of events and that is why they have no problem staying. To those of us who actually believed the churches version we feel extremely stupid, gullible and taken advantage of.  I must have looked like such a goof to my LDS friends in High School and on my mission. I feel totally cheated and laughed at realizing so many never really believed it in the first place.  It just feels like an evil lie and now I&#8217;m the one labeled evil for exposing the truth so many already knew. At first I thought others would want to know the truth as I discovered.  Turns out they knew all along and I was the dummy.  Being a righteous Mormon involves continuing the cover up. Took me years to grasp the shallow rotten concept of deception.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Jay</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492403</link>
		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 03:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I forgot one thing. Nothing shows their lack of integrity anymore than sending out missionaries who tell the churches version of the &quot;first vision&quot; even though they know this vision is distinclty different than Joseph&#039;s account and has morphed over time. There is no way around this it is a blatant lie. To tell investigators this as truth while knowing it is a lie is wrong. Regardless of how you spin it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I forgot one thing. Nothing shows their lack of integrity anymore than sending out missionaries who tell the churches version of the &#8220;first vision&#8221; even though they know this vision is distinclty different than Joseph&#8217;s account and has morphed over time. There is no way around this it is a blatant lie. To tell investigators this as truth while knowing it is a lie is wrong. Regardless of how you spin it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Jay</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492402</link>
		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 02:58:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If the church was honest about such things in the first place you would not have to look them up. Were it not for the internet these things would still be hidden by leadership. You know that as well as I do and you are only deceiving yourself to claim otherwise. You also know as well as I do that the church still encourages people not to look up these things. The difference in Moses, Abraham, Aaron and the like is that you did not have church leaders make a conscious effort to conceal such things. They always have been out in the open. The problem with Mormonism is they are still being dishonest. Apart from still publishing art that shows Joseph translating the golden plates instead of using a peep stone in a hat, you have people like Dalen Oaks standing up in conference and saying bear your testimony whether you have one or not. That is encouraging people to lie!! I cannot for the life of me understand how a loving Father could let his children hear such things and not be outraged. How can you stand to teach your children such things? I’m certainly happy to dialogue with you more, but I get the feeling it will do us little good to go back and forth. I can tell from your post you feel that whatever the church does or has done is fine by you. I somehow get the feeling that if solid evidence was found that Joseph Smith molested children you would still somehow see him as a prophet of God.  True blue Jehovah’s Witnesses have the same mentality toward their leadership as TBM’s. Whatever the organization does is okay. Let me ask you these final questions and I would like for you to be honest. Is there anything this church could do that would make you walk away? Lastly, if you could know beyond a “shadow of a doubt” that it wasn’t true would you want to know it?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If the church was honest about such things in the first place you would not have to look them up. Were it not for the internet these things would still be hidden by leadership. You know that as well as I do and you are only deceiving yourself to claim otherwise. You also know as well as I do that the church still encourages people not to look up these things. The difference in Moses, Abraham, Aaron and the like is that you did not have church leaders make a conscious effort to conceal such things. They always have been out in the open. The problem with Mormonism is they are still being dishonest. Apart from still publishing art that shows Joseph translating the golden plates instead of using a peep stone in a hat, you have people like Dalen Oaks standing up in conference and saying bear your testimony whether you have one or not. That is encouraging people to lie!! I cannot for the life of me understand how a loving Father could let his children hear such things and not be outraged. How can you stand to teach your children such things? I’m certainly happy to dialogue with you more, but I get the feeling it will do us little good to go back and forth. I can tell from your post you feel that whatever the church does or has done is fine by you. I somehow get the feeling that if solid evidence was found that Joseph Smith molested children you would still somehow see him as a prophet of God.  True blue Jehovah’s Witnesses have the same mentality toward their leadership as TBM’s. Whatever the organization does is okay. Let me ask you these final questions and I would like for you to be honest. Is there anything this church could do that would make you walk away? Lastly, if you could know beyond a “shadow of a doubt” that it wasn’t true would you want to know it?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Carla Rae</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492401</link>
		<dc:creator>Carla Rae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 02:24:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom &amp; Dan--I appreciate your bravery and compassion in sharing your personal stories, in all their beauty and sorrow. Listening strengthened my resolve to &quot;stay engaged in the struggle&quot; toward wisdom and understanding and light, and toward true friendship to all those I meet along the path, whether in or out of the church. Wishing the best to both of you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom &amp; Dan&#8211;I appreciate your bravery and compassion in sharing your personal stories, in all their beauty and sorrow. Listening strengthened my resolve to &#8220;stay engaged in the struggle&#8221; toward wisdom and understanding and light, and toward true friendship to all those I meet along the path, whether in or out of the church. Wishing the best to both of you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 01:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Millions of Christians would agree with you Bob.  All the details about the nature of God are non-essential and un-knowable.  The focus of any good Christian should be to understand Christ and implement His teachings. Period. Everything else is fun to talk about and research but otherwise non-essential doctrine of salvation.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Millions of Christians would agree with you Bob.  All the details about the nature of God are non-essential and un-knowable.  The focus of any good Christian should be to understand Christ and implement His teachings. Period. Everything else is fun to talk about and research but otherwise non-essential doctrine of salvation.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 01:52:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t think its fun to bash the LDS church.  As an ex-Mormon and current Christian I don&#039;t want to bash it or even joke about it.  I usually don&#039;t want to admit I was ever a member.  I don&#039;t think there is anything funny about Mormonism.  It stole my soul and confidence from a young age with its ways and took me years to heal from the scars.  I don&#039;t think there is anything funny about it but  I pray for its members and want no harm to come on them.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think its fun to bash the LDS church.  As an ex-Mormon and current Christian I don&#8217;t want to bash it or even joke about it.  I usually don&#8217;t want to admit I was ever a member.  I don&#8217;t think there is anything funny about Mormonism.  It stole my soul and confidence from a young age with its ways and took me years to heal from the scars.  I don&#8217;t think there is anything funny about it but  I pray for its members and want no harm to come on them.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mormon Libertarianism by Adam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 01:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;But note that all of your examples are examples of the Central Government enforcing the bad behavior of the Corporations. The Corporation is opportunistic, and gets away with anything that Central Government allows it to. This is why the incestuous relationship between our present Central Government and the Federal Reserve allows the Corporations and the Member Banks to get away with murder. At the bottom of this human food chain are the hapless taxpaying victims of this scheme. The individual victim at the bottom of this has absolutely no moral duty whatsoever to support his own merciless exploitation. I have a moral duty to love God and my fellow man (as in individual). I have no moral duty to support any monopoly organization that exists through merciless coerced power; that is the essence of the adversary’s plan. Central government worldwide is the greatest coercive tool ever invented to destroy the rights of an individual man. The Libertarians have this correct.&quot;
--
You say &quot;The Corporation is opportunistic...&quot;  This is the crime.  And the corporate status of separating profit from risk is the point where government has made things worse.  Pretty much everywhere else government has made things better.  Even when regulation goes wrong, it comes to light because of government&#039;s role, and those profiting from misdeeds are much more easily found, than if corporations were in direct control (ala. the Zaibatsu system of Imperial Japan).
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&quot;No, you have this concept wrong. The Central Bank is the only entity that creates money out of thin air. The member banks are vassals, who keep the reserve requirement on deposit with their account at the Central Bank. When member banks create loans (and accompanying debt) they are increasing money supply, but they cannot do this unilaterally. When loans are repaid, that created money dissapears (along with the accompanying debt). The member banks of course love fractional reserve principles because it is to their economic advantage to inflate the money supply. Inflationary? Only if the loans created are not really funding productive enterprise. Currently most banks are borrowing Fed money at close to zero and reloaning at 4% on longterm government bonds. It’s this incestuous relationship between the Fed and Central Government again which is the root of all economic evil.&quot;
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Inflation also comes from interest money that does NOT go away when paid to the bank and leads to more loans being made. Since the system is no longer working, much of the loans can never be repaid, and thus the inflation will never go away. You act as though these things would not happen unless government existed, but that is a very provincial notion.  Banks abusing customers is as old as banking.  Handling money has always meant harnessing money to enrich one&#039;s self, and to be blunt, the best banking has EVER been was during the era of BIG Government, when a banker could not take a dump without clearing it with a regulator.  

The entire Libertarian attitude is wrong.  &quot;Unless government is perfect, it should not exist&quot;.  Generally this comes from people who are &#039;would-be&#039; exploiters themselves, who are just bummed that the system tanked before they could make a killing off the market.  

Call me unrealistic, but nobody has a right to make a KILLING until everyone can make a LIVING who wants one.  

Libertarianism would put everyone at the mercy of &#039;Caveat Emptor&#039;.  It is impossible to be an real Christian when you are constantly having to fight to survive.

&quot;We stand for a living wage... enough to secure the elements of a normal standard of living – a standard high enough to make morality possible&quot;
- Theodore Roosevelt]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;But note that all of your examples are examples of the Central Government enforcing the bad behavior of the Corporations. The Corporation is opportunistic, and gets away with anything that Central Government allows it to. This is why the incestuous relationship between our present Central Government and the Federal Reserve allows the Corporations and the Member Banks to get away with murder. At the bottom of this human food chain are the hapless taxpaying victims of this scheme. The individual victim at the bottom of this has absolutely no moral duty whatsoever to support his own merciless exploitation. I have a moral duty to love God and my fellow man (as in individual). I have no moral duty to support any monopoly organization that exists through merciless coerced power; that is the essence of the adversary’s plan. Central government worldwide is the greatest coercive tool ever invented to destroy the rights of an individual man. The Libertarians have this correct.&#8221;<br />
&#8211;<br />
You say &#8220;The Corporation is opportunistic&#8230;&#8221;  This is the crime.  And the corporate status of separating profit from risk is the point where government has made things worse.  Pretty much everywhere else government has made things better.  Even when regulation goes wrong, it comes to light because of government&#8217;s role, and those profiting from misdeeds are much more easily found, than if corporations were in direct control (ala. the Zaibatsu system of Imperial Japan).<br />
&#8211;<br />
&#8211;<br />
&#8220;No, you have this concept wrong. The Central Bank is the only entity that creates money out of thin air. The member banks are vassals, who keep the reserve requirement on deposit with their account at the Central Bank. When member banks create loans (and accompanying debt) they are increasing money supply, but they cannot do this unilaterally. When loans are repaid, that created money dissapears (along with the accompanying debt). The member banks of course love fractional reserve principles because it is to their economic advantage to inflate the money supply. Inflationary? Only if the loans created are not really funding productive enterprise. Currently most banks are borrowing Fed money at close to zero and reloaning at 4% on longterm government bonds. It’s this incestuous relationship between the Fed and Central Government again which is the root of all economic evil.&#8221;<br />
&#8211;<br />
Inflation also comes from interest money that does NOT go away when paid to the bank and leads to more loans being made. Since the system is no longer working, much of the loans can never be repaid, and thus the inflation will never go away. You act as though these things would not happen unless government existed, but that is a very provincial notion.  Banks abusing customers is as old as banking.  Handling money has always meant harnessing money to enrich one&#8217;s self, and to be blunt, the best banking has EVER been was during the era of BIG Government, when a banker could not take a dump without clearing it with a regulator.  </p>
<p>The entire Libertarian attitude is wrong.  &#8220;Unless government is perfect, it should not exist&#8221;.  Generally this comes from people who are &#8216;would-be&#8217; exploiters themselves, who are just bummed that the system tanked before they could make a killing off the market.  </p>
<p>Call me unrealistic, but nobody has a right to make a KILLING until everyone can make a LIVING who wants one.  </p>
<p>Libertarianism would put everyone at the mercy of &#8216;Caveat Emptor&#8217;.  It is impossible to be an real Christian when you are constantly having to fight to survive.</p>
<p>&#8220;We stand for a living wage&#8230; enough to secure the elements of a normal standard of living – a standard high enough to make morality possible&#8221;<br />
- Theodore Roosevelt</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 01:46:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It gets better with time.  I have not believed for 10 years and at first it was very difficult with my wife but over the years it has gotten better. Just remember patience and love even if she doesn&#039;t seem to show it back at times.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It gets better with time.  I have not believed for 10 years and at first it was very difficult with my wife but over the years it has gotten better. Just remember patience and love even if she doesn&#8217;t seem to show it back at times.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 00:58:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jay, the issues you bring up, while legitimate, have absolutely nothing to do with the core principles of the gospel, so why would they teach them, and how is not teaching them a misrepresentation?  I think the church recognizes that those are challenging areas, and bringing it up will distract from what it is trying to do.  Besides, it has a hard enough time finding decent teachers who can teach the basics, let alone tasking them with introducing the subjects you mentioned.  

I&#039;m gospel doctrine teacher in my ward, and used to teach young men, and I try hard to touch on those subjects to the extent they can be appropriately addressed.  The information is out there, but people are generally too lazy to take the time to research, then get mad when someone shows it to them.  

My guess is if we knew the history of the founders of most faiths, few of us would be willing to attend church.  Aaron very publicly built a false idol, Moses killed a man, Abraham was a polygamist, Lot got his daughters pregnant while he was drunk, Jacob ripped off Esau, yet not one throws out the bible after the book of Genesis or gives up on God.  The standard the LDS church is held to is not one most churches would survive.

My initial comment was to the statement that the LDS church demands perfection like satan did.  I think most reasonable people would find that statement to be offensive and without merit.  As to depression and suicide, that happens in all churches and all cultures.  Whenever an ideal or standard is identified, there is the risk people will become frustrated when they fail to achieve it, but I think it is better to have a standard for people to strive for than to not have one.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jay, the issues you bring up, while legitimate, have absolutely nothing to do with the core principles of the gospel, so why would they teach them, and how is not teaching them a misrepresentation?  I think the church recognizes that those are challenging areas, and bringing it up will distract from what it is trying to do.  Besides, it has a hard enough time finding decent teachers who can teach the basics, let alone tasking them with introducing the subjects you mentioned.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m gospel doctrine teacher in my ward, and used to teach young men, and I try hard to touch on those subjects to the extent they can be appropriately addressed.  The information is out there, but people are generally too lazy to take the time to research, then get mad when someone shows it to them.  </p>
<p>My guess is if we knew the history of the founders of most faiths, few of us would be willing to attend church.  Aaron very publicly built a false idol, Moses killed a man, Abraham was a polygamist, Lot got his daughters pregnant while he was drunk, Jacob ripped off Esau, yet not one throws out the bible after the book of Genesis or gives up on God.  The standard the LDS church is held to is not one most churches would survive.</p>
<p>My initial comment was to the statement that the LDS church demands perfection like satan did.  I think most reasonable people would find that statement to be offensive and without merit.  As to depression and suicide, that happens in all churches and all cultures.  Whenever an ideal or standard is identified, there is the risk people will become frustrated when they fail to achieve it, but I think it is better to have a standard for people to strive for than to not have one.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 00:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, the &quot;flexible&quot; assumption came from your saying that the Bishop allowed you to fully participate in the ward, teaching, praying, baptizing, etc., even though to you it is all just make believe.  I would expect many Bishops would not to allow that.  

As far as Bishop&#039;s tendencies (I assume you meant to type predator), I think Bishoprics is one of the least likely places a person would find a predator.  Imperfection, plenty, abusive predator, low odds.  I don&#039;t know I&#039;ll have the intuition to know, but I don&#039;t want to live my life suspecting everyone.

If that has been your experience I&#039;m very sorry for that.  Hopefully you can avoid those situations in the future, though I don&#039;t think Mormon Bishops are going to be the only place you find those threats.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, the &#8220;flexible&#8221; assumption came from your saying that the Bishop allowed you to fully participate in the ward, teaching, praying, baptizing, etc., even though to you it is all just make believe.  I would expect many Bishops would not to allow that.  </p>
<p>As far as Bishop&#8217;s tendencies (I assume you meant to type predator), I think Bishoprics is one of the least likely places a person would find a predator.  Imperfection, plenty, abusive predator, low odds.  I don&#8217;t know I&#8217;ll have the intuition to know, but I don&#8217;t want to live my life suspecting everyone.</p>
<p>If that has been your experience I&#8217;m very sorry for that.  Hopefully you can avoid those situations in the future, though I don&#8217;t think Mormon Bishops are going to be the only place you find those threats.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Bob Dixon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Dixon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 00:19:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[His name is Elliott Grudem, and his father is Wayne Grudem, who published a mammoth book on systematic theology.  Wayne was also the general editor of the Crossway ESV Study Bible, which I believe to be a very respected work.  The two of them published a book on theology together.  What brought the subject up is that Tim Keller said this in &quot;The Reason for God&quot; (that if you don&#039;t agree with the doctrinal councils of the first 400 years of the Christian church that you are not a Christian) and I was looking for his opinion on this.  He agreed with Keller.  In case I misunderstood I brought it up again and he agreed with his earlier statement.  If I don&#039;t believe the Trinity can be proved by the Bible, these councils clarify what the bible says, so if I don&#039;t believe the councils, I don&#039;t believe the Bible, which means I don&#039;t believe God&#039;s word, therefore I am not a Christian.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>His name is Elliott Grudem, and his father is Wayne Grudem, who published a mammoth book on systematic theology.  Wayne was also the general editor of the Crossway ESV Study Bible, which I believe to be a very respected work.  The two of them published a book on theology together.  What brought the subject up is that Tim Keller said this in &#8220;The Reason for God&#8221; (that if you don&#8217;t agree with the doctrinal councils of the first 400 years of the Christian church that you are not a Christian) and I was looking for his opinion on this.  He agreed with Keller.  In case I misunderstood I brought it up again and he agreed with his earlier statement.  If I don&#8217;t believe the Trinity can be proved by the Bible, these councils clarify what the bible says, so if I don&#8217;t believe the councils, I don&#8217;t believe the Bible, which means I don&#8217;t believe God&#8217;s word, therefore I am not a Christian.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Scott T</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 00:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Paul,
 Hang in there and know you are not alone. I thought I was at first, until Mormon Stories and others venues helped me realize there are MANY of us out there. I just connected with Tom and Dan on Facebook. I looked at one exchange on Dan&#039;s wall about the meaning of the Atonement. There were a few comments from a true, literal believer,but then from 3 or 4 other non literal believers, including Dan. I was that literal believer once, so I could identify there, but the comments by these others individuals, including Dan were SO REFRESHING!! Finally others who think and believe as I do! I felt that sense of community I had been missing lately. I was reading it in the middle of Fast and Testimony meeting.  The contrast was quite stark, yet in a way comical to be honest.  Literal, believing, testimonies on the one hand about the Atonement and then the real stuff. What is the Atonement pointing us to? Is it something outside of ourselves? Not in my opinion. AT-ONE-MENT with ourselves and others, that&#039;s how I look at it. Glad to see I&#039;m not alone in that opinion.

My younger kids still don&#039;t know, so like you Paul, I am navigating this one step at a time. My 18 year old who is preparing for a mission knows I have some general issues but not too much detail. I think he would have a hard time if he knew I didn&#039;t believe the BOM/JS stories are literal. But he is old enough that he can ask me those questions when he is ready. He has asked me some questions but not that one. When I sat down with him (my wife was present also), I asked him &quot;Did you have any doubts before you found out I had some?&quot;  He said no, so then I told him &quot;Don&#039;t worry what I believe or don&#039;t believe, if you feel in your heart that a mission is right for you, then do it.  I had a great experience on my mission and I don&#039;t regret it for a minute. But if you don&#039;t think you can teach what they want to teach then don&#039;t go.&quot;  From that point on, it has been more of a status quo thing. We just don&#039;t talk about it much.  It may be different in the future with my other three younger kids but I will just take it a day at a time.  I know it sounds a bit &quot;New agey&quot; but I am trying to just live in the moment and not worry too much about what has happened or will happen. It can eat me alive to do so.  

For instance,there are future milestones/events that are coming my way that used to eat at me if I thought about them too much. Will they let me ordain my son a Priest this fall? Will they let me ordain my other son a Deacon in the Spring of next year? What will others think when I am not allowed to ordain my sons or be in the circle?  Will I be allowed to stand in when my next missionary gets set apart? If my kids get married in the temple, will they be ok with Dad sitting outside in the waiting room? 

I don&#039;t know what will happen. But I just know it will be ok. There is a little bit of that leader roulette talked about in the podcast. But I can guarantee you, if I&#039;m not allowed in these circles, I will have a little sermon prepared for those who are there and will hopefully I will present it in a loving, and respectful manner  And it may go something like this  &quot;Do you know why I am not allowed in this circle today Son?  It is not because I personally am not worthy, it is because others have deemed it so. True Priesthood power and authority comes not from Father, Mother, Bishop, or any other ecclesiastical leader, it comes from God himself, within each and every one of us.  We are all born with it. Male, female, black, white, bond, free.  It is our birthright, and sometimes we sell it for a mess of pottage. What you have been given today is the authority to participate in and carry out certain ordinances in the church, nothing else.  No one outside of you can give or take away what is not theirs to give or take away. They may not allow me to be in the circle today but that in no way diminishes the power and authority I have within myself. Please remember this if you ever face a similar situation in your life. No one stands in the way of your direct access to God. Do not rejoice or be boastful in something you are given by men. Never fear or feel sad for something taken away from you by men either. And regardless of what other men do or don&#039;t do, regardless of what they deem you are worthy to have or not have, love them as I have loved you. If I had one message I could give to you today as your Father, it would be the same message God has given to me directly. &#039;You cannot fail me.&#039;&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paul,<br />
 Hang in there and know you are not alone. I thought I was at first, until Mormon Stories and others venues helped me realize there are MANY of us out there. I just connected with Tom and Dan on Facebook. I looked at one exchange on Dan&#8217;s wall about the meaning of the Atonement. There were a few comments from a true, literal believer,but then from 3 or 4 other non literal believers, including Dan. I was that literal believer once, so I could identify there, but the comments by these others individuals, including Dan were SO REFRESHING!! Finally others who think and believe as I do! I felt that sense of community I had been missing lately. I was reading it in the middle of Fast and Testimony meeting.  The contrast was quite stark, yet in a way comical to be honest.  Literal, believing, testimonies on the one hand about the Atonement and then the real stuff. What is the Atonement pointing us to? Is it something outside of ourselves? Not in my opinion. AT-ONE-MENT with ourselves and others, that&#8217;s how I look at it. Glad to see I&#8217;m not alone in that opinion.</p>
<p>My younger kids still don&#8217;t know, so like you Paul, I am navigating this one step at a time. My 18 year old who is preparing for a mission knows I have some general issues but not too much detail. I think he would have a hard time if he knew I didn&#8217;t believe the BOM/JS stories are literal. But he is old enough that he can ask me those questions when he is ready. He has asked me some questions but not that one. When I sat down with him (my wife was present also), I asked him &#8220;Did you have any doubts before you found out I had some?&#8221;  He said no, so then I told him &#8220;Don&#8217;t worry what I believe or don&#8217;t believe, if you feel in your heart that a mission is right for you, then do it.  I had a great experience on my mission and I don&#8217;t regret it for a minute. But if you don&#8217;t think you can teach what they want to teach then don&#8217;t go.&#8221;  From that point on, it has been more of a status quo thing. We just don&#8217;t talk about it much.  It may be different in the future with my other three younger kids but I will just take it a day at a time.  I know it sounds a bit &#8220;New agey&#8221; but I am trying to just live in the moment and not worry too much about what has happened or will happen. It can eat me alive to do so.  </p>
<p>For instance,there are future milestones/events that are coming my way that used to eat at me if I thought about them too much. Will they let me ordain my son a Priest this fall? Will they let me ordain my other son a Deacon in the Spring of next year? What will others think when I am not allowed to ordain my sons or be in the circle?  Will I be allowed to stand in when my next missionary gets set apart? If my kids get married in the temple, will they be ok with Dad sitting outside in the waiting room? </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what will happen. But I just know it will be ok. There is a little bit of that leader roulette talked about in the podcast. But I can guarantee you, if I&#8217;m not allowed in these circles, I will have a little sermon prepared for those who are there and will hopefully I will present it in a loving, and respectful manner  And it may go something like this  &#8220;Do you know why I am not allowed in this circle today Son?  It is not because I personally am not worthy, it is because others have deemed it so. True Priesthood power and authority comes not from Father, Mother, Bishop, or any other ecclesiastical leader, it comes from God himself, within each and every one of us.  We are all born with it. Male, female, black, white, bond, free.  It is our birthright, and sometimes we sell it for a mess of pottage. What you have been given today is the authority to participate in and carry out certain ordinances in the church, nothing else.  No one outside of you can give or take away what is not theirs to give or take away. They may not allow me to be in the circle today but that in no way diminishes the power and authority I have within myself. Please remember this if you ever face a similar situation in your life. No one stands in the way of your direct access to God. Do not rejoice or be boastful in something you are given by men. Never fear or feel sad for something taken away from you by men either. And regardless of what other men do or don&#8217;t do, regardless of what they deem you are worthy to have or not have, love them as I have loved you. If I had one message I could give to you today as your Father, it would be the same message God has given to me directly. &#8216;You cannot fail me.&#8217;&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Zack T.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zack T.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 15:01:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks A.P.....best comment in this thread.]]></description>
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		<dc:creator>AlternatePossibilities</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 08:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is tempting to suggest that people who suggest support groups for dissident and disaffected LDS are like people who could suggest support groups for those who get hung up on the thorns of the rose bush, the moles of the face, and the baby’s bathwater rather than focusing on the beauties of the rose, the beauties of the face, and the beauties of the baby.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is tempting to suggest that people who suggest support groups for dissident and disaffected LDS are like people who could suggest support groups for those who get hung up on the thorns of the rose bush, the moles of the face, and the baby’s bathwater rather than focusing on the beauties of the rose, the beauties of the face, and the beauties of the baby.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Paul M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 06:19:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Scott, thanks for sharing a piece of your journey!  I am in a similar position.  I am active to keep the peace with my wife.  I don&#039;t mind going, I just see things very differently now.  I like what you said regarding your church leaders.  You know where they stand and understand their positions, but they have no clue what you are going through.  I have a 16 year old daughter and struggle with what to tell her.  Right now she knows I have changed, but doesn&#039;t know why.  She will study the BOM next year in seminary, and there are some basic things I want to discuss with her (such as how the book was &quot;translated&quot;) but am not sure how far to go.  I know it will cause stress and tension in my marriage.  Best wishes to you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scott, thanks for sharing a piece of your journey!  I am in a similar position.  I am active to keep the peace with my wife.  I don&#8217;t mind going, I just see things very differently now.  I like what you said regarding your church leaders.  You know where they stand and understand their positions, but they have no clue what you are going through.  I have a 16 year old daughter and struggle with what to tell her.  Right now she knows I have changed, but doesn&#8217;t know why.  She will study the BOM next year in seminary, and there are some basic things I want to discuss with her (such as how the book was &#8220;translated&#8221;) but am not sure how far to go.  I know it will cause stress and tension in my marriage.  Best wishes to you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Jay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 03:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, I loved hearing your story. You sound as though your were someone who was being true to self over the demands of a very flawed organization. It was inspiring to hear your story, and you make me want to be a more vocal about my doubts after having listend to it. All the best to you and your family.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, I loved hearing your story. You sound as though your were someone who was being true to self over the demands of a very flawed organization. It was inspiring to hear your story, and you make me want to be a more vocal about my doubts after having listend to it. All the best to you and your family.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 03:50:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ray G does your church teach the truth about Joseph such as he drank alcohol, married other mens wives, used a pep stone, and claimed to find Zelph the white laminite in missouri. I am not trying to bring these things up to be confrontational. The point I am trying to make is how can you accept the teachings of anyone about anything (love, forgiveness, redemption etc) a sincere if these things are encased in misrepresentations. David is able to find the things you speak of outside of Mormonism it seems, and he does not have to weed through the fallacies to get there.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray G does your church teach the truth about Joseph such as he drank alcohol, married other mens wives, used a pep stone, and claimed to find Zelph the white laminite in missouri. I am not trying to bring these things up to be confrontational. The point I am trying to make is how can you accept the teachings of anyone about anything (love, forgiveness, redemption etc) a sincere if these things are encased in misrepresentations. David is able to find the things you speak of outside of Mormonism it seems, and he does not have to weed through the fallacies to get there.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 03:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Possible yes. Probable no!]]></description>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 03:19:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bob, 

Coming from someone who grew up in an evangelical Christian church I can say any pastor that would tell you that does not know much about early church history. The hypostatic union was not something that was emphasised (or understood) at all in the early years of Christianity, and it is certainly not something that was a litmus test for being a disciple of Christ. The church I attened would have taught something similar (dogmatic Southern Baptist church), but I have gained quite a bit of insight through podcast like Dan&#039;s, John&#039;s, Mormon Expression, Mormon Expositor etc. and through a great deal of research on my own. I don&#039;t believe much of the fundamentalism that I use to believe, but still find a peace that comes from the life of Christ. If we all try to walk (and treat others) as he did, our theological knowledge of the nature of God is (I think) unimportant.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bob, </p>
<p>Coming from someone who grew up in an evangelical Christian church I can say any pastor that would tell you that does not know much about early church history. The hypostatic union was not something that was emphasised (or understood) at all in the early years of Christianity, and it is certainly not something that was a litmus test for being a disciple of Christ. The church I attened would have taught something similar (dogmatic Southern Baptist church), but I have gained quite a bit of insight through podcast like Dan&#8217;s, John&#8217;s, Mormon Expression, Mormon Expositor etc. and through a great deal of research on my own. I don&#8217;t believe much of the fundamentalism that I use to believe, but still find a peace that comes from the life of Christ. If we all try to walk (and treat others) as he did, our theological knowledge of the nature of God is (I think) unimportant.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Paul M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2013 01:49:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alison &amp; Square Peg:

I admire you both for taking a stand for what you believe in and not just being dishonest with yourselves and others to get inside the temple.  Not an easy road you are traveling...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alison &amp; Square Peg:</p>
<p>I admire you both for taking a stand for what you believe in and not just being dishonest with yourselves and others to get inside the temple.  Not an easy road you are traveling&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by square peg</title>
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		<dc:creator>square peg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 20:31:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alison,
How is your family responding to your decision? Are they being respectful? I am feeling so much pressure and extreme emotional turmoil because of my decision. I still feel it is what I need to do and I will not change what I&#039;ve decided-I can&#039;t in good conscience. However, I find it incredibly hard to cope with family members acting like you are some kind of idiot who hasn&#039;t thought through this at all and telling you you will regret this the rest of your life.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alison,<br />
How is your family responding to your decision? Are they being respectful? I am feeling so much pressure and extreme emotional turmoil because of my decision. I still feel it is what I need to do and I will not change what I&#8217;ve decided-I can&#8217;t in good conscience. However, I find it incredibly hard to cope with family members acting like you are some kind of idiot who hasn&#8217;t thought through this at all and telling you you will regret this the rest of your life.</p>
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		<dc:creator>square peg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 20:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay. Sorry, once I posted another comment they all reappeared.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay. Sorry, once I posted another comment they all reappeared.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by square peg</title>
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		<dc:creator>square peg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 20:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why aren&#039;t the comments showing up on this page that everyone has been making?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why aren&#8217;t the comments showing up on this page that everyone has been making?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 19:41:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I didn&#039;t go to my bishop for advice he confronted me for not giving enough to the ward.  When I told him I had some concerns about the history of the church that I was working through he expressed his concern that I was then headed to a life of sin. He believed I would become a womanizer (I&#039;m happily married for 13 yrs) drunk, cussing miserable soul. Again I didn&#039;t go to him he confronted me. It felt like an attack and I felt he didn&#039;t want me in the ward so I granted his wishes and I serve faithfully in my Christian church along with my wife and my kids love it there and yes we teach obedience unlike the common myth continually preached in Mormon churches that Christians are not taught obedience.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t go to my bishop for advice he confronted me for not giving enough to the ward.  When I told him I had some concerns about the history of the church that I was working through he expressed his concern that I was then headed to a life of sin. He believed I would become a womanizer (I&#8217;m happily married for 13 yrs) drunk, cussing miserable soul. Again I didn&#8217;t go to him he confronted me. It felt like an attack and I felt he didn&#8217;t want me in the ward so I granted his wishes and I serve faithfully in my Christian church along with my wife and my kids love it there and yes we teach obedience unlike the common myth continually preached in Mormon churches that Christians are not taught obedience.</p>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 19:23:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amen Brother Tom...Amen!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen Brother Tom&#8230;Amen!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 16:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shot me a note on Facebook. I have a few ideas but I&#039;m on the road for a few days and only have access to my smartphone. There is a Mormons in transition support group on south salt lake tune by Bill Dobbs. You will have to google it. A rainbow of people attend that group and it is a good place to vent.  Or you and I could start an A F transitioning Mormons support group? :)

Isn&#039;t AF is a terrific place to raise kids? We love the people, the schools, and who doesn&#039;t  love the sticky shoe cinemas!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shot me a note on Facebook. I have a few ideas but I&#8217;m on the road for a few days and only have access to my smartphone. There is a Mormons in transition support group on south salt lake tune by Bill Dobbs. You will have to google it. A rainbow of people attend that group and it is a good place to vent.  Or you and I could start an A F transitioning Mormons support group? <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t AF is a terrific place to raise kids? We love the people, the schools, and who doesn&#8217;t  love the sticky shoe cinemas!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 15:31:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would like to think so. I use to volunteer at the freeman institute as a kid. My sister was Cleon Skousens secratary.  Dr. Skousen introduced me to Eldrege Cleaver who would stay at my sisters home when he came to town. As a former federal police officer I was introduced to the NRA and was a member until I returned to America after my second overseas tour.  I read G. Gordon Liddy&#039;s autobiography. It was the best book I read while deployed to the Middle East with the U N inspection teams going to Iraq.  I met Liddy afterwards and got him to sign my book at the Virginia radio station WAVA.  You wer born by then, right?  I changed my politics after George W. came into office. I had not ever really considered the underlying problems associated with the emerging conservatism until we got the unvarnished Bush version.  Obama is the first liberal I&#039;ve voted for.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would like to think so. I use to volunteer at the freeman institute as a kid. My sister was Cleon Skousens secratary.  Dr. Skousen introduced me to Eldrege Cleaver who would stay at my sisters home when he came to town. As a former federal police officer I was introduced to the NRA and was a member until I returned to America after my second overseas tour.  I read G. Gordon Liddy&#8217;s autobiography. It was the best book I read while deployed to the Middle East with the U N inspection teams going to Iraq.  I met Liddy afterwards and got him to sign my book at the Virginia radio station WAVA.  You wer born by then, right?  I changed my politics after George W. came into office. I had not ever really considered the underlying problems associated with the emerging conservatism until we got the unvarnished Bush version.  Obama is the first liberal I&#8217;ve voted for.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 15:11:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Teaching is one thing, actions are everything.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Teaching is one thing, actions are everything.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 15:09:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I guess I&#039;m not a good communicator. How did you infer from my post that my bishop I was flexible. He was about as flexible as an ice cube. 

You are very lucky not to ever had a predictor for a bishop. God help your family when you do. Do you think you will have the intuition to know? Or the courage to say &quot;no?&quot; Thoughts? What will you say to your daughters when thay express as adults that you were absent when they were being abused?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess I&#8217;m not a good communicator. How did you infer from my post that my bishop I was flexible. He was about as flexible as an ice cube. </p>
<p>You are very lucky not to ever had a predictor for a bishop. God help your family when you do. Do you think you will have the intuition to know? Or the courage to say &#8220;no?&#8221; Thoughts? What will you say to your daughters when thay express as adults that you were absent when they were being abused?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 14:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ryan, Chris Mooney is and english major who works for The Center for American Progress, probably the most left wing organization in America.  My guess is he wasn&#039;t particularly unbiased in the data he selected.  And social psychology might not be the most rigid science in the world.  Lots of nuance and interpretation and experiments based on questionable methods there.

There may well be differences in the way we think, but I maintain the conservatives are no more or less likely to be idiots and fools than progressives.   Conservatives may be prone to resisting change, but progressives are prone to wanting to run everyone else&#039;s lives.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ryan, Chris Mooney is and english major who works for The Center for American Progress, probably the most left wing organization in America.  My guess is he wasn&#8217;t particularly unbiased in the data he selected.  And social psychology might not be the most rigid science in the world.  Lots of nuance and interpretation and experiments based on questionable methods there.</p>
<p>There may well be differences in the way we think, but I maintain the conservatives are no more or less likely to be idiots and fools than progressives.   Conservatives may be prone to resisting change, but progressives are prone to wanting to run everyone else&#8217;s lives.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Ryan Cragun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan Cragun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 11:49:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ray, you may be able to find some people willing to write such a book.  But would it be based on hundreds of studies in social psychology that find differences in the thinking and in the actual brains of conservatives and liberals?

Seriously, read that book.  Or, at least read some research on this topic: 
http://www.psych.nyu.edu/jost/Jost-Amodio-2012.pdf
http://www.psych.nyu.edu/jost/Political%20Ideology__Its%20structure,%20functions,%20and%20elective%20a.pdf
http://www.nature.com/neuro/journal/v10/n10/pdf/nn1979.pdf]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray, you may be able to find some people willing to write such a book.  But would it be based on hundreds of studies in social psychology that find differences in the thinking and in the actual brains of conservatives and liberals?</p>
<p>Seriously, read that book.  Or, at least read some research on this topic:<br />
<a href="http://www.psych.nyu.edu/jost/Jost-Amodio-2012.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.psych.nyu.edu/jost/Jost-Amodio-2012.pdf</a><br />
<a href="http://www.psych.nyu.edu/jost/Political%20Ideology__Its%20structure,%20functions,%20and%20elective%20a.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.psych.nyu.edu/jost/Political%20Ideology__Its%20structure,%20functions,%20and%20elective%20a.pdf</a><br />
<a href="http://www.nature.com/neuro/journal/v10/n10/pdf/nn1979.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.nature.com/neuro/journal/v10/n10/pdf/nn1979.pdf</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 07:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, just curious.  Have you ever listened to more than media selected highlights of the conservatives you disdain?  I&#039;m a big fan of Limbaugh and Beck, and I sincerely think they are pretty decent individuals, and much more tolerant than ultra liberals like Ed Schultz, Al Franken, or Chris Matthews.  

Do they bloviate at times?  Yes, as do all radio hosts.  But I think if you listened to their shows (for more than a day or two) and thought about what they said, you wouldn&#039;t find them as offensive as you expect.   And unlike Obama, they don&#039;t use the IRS to illegally harangue people they disagree with.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, just curious.  Have you ever listened to more than media selected highlights of the conservatives you disdain?  I&#8217;m a big fan of Limbaugh and Beck, and I sincerely think they are pretty decent individuals, and much more tolerant than ultra liberals like Ed Schultz, Al Franken, or Chris Matthews.  </p>
<p>Do they bloviate at times?  Yes, as do all radio hosts.  But I think if you listened to their shows (for more than a day or two) and thought about what they said, you wouldn&#8217;t find them as offensive as you expect.   And unlike Obama, they don&#8217;t use the IRS to illegally harangue people they disagree with.</p>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 07:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dvid.  I&#039;m glad I&#039;m not a church leader.  Most people at Mormon Stories bash the church for being inflexible and unwilling to change.  Now it is guilty of rapid and constant evolution.  Seems like it is  in a no-win situation with a certain portion of the population.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dvid.  I&#8217;m glad I&#8217;m not a church leader.  Most people at Mormon Stories bash the church for being inflexible and unwilling to change.  Now it is guilty of rapid and constant evolution.  Seems like it is  in a no-win situation with a certain portion of the population.</p>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 07:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jay, I know it&#039;s good fun to bash the church at every opportunity, but I can&#039;t find any confirmation that Kylie Bissutti is LDS and faking people out with a crucifix.  I think she is a Christian.  I had read the article and never got the impression she was LDS, but can&#039;t find a denomination for her anywhere.  

Maybe the DesNews is just reporting an inspiring story, without any &quot;subtle PR to make the church look good.&quot;  It&#039;s possible.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jay, I know it&#8217;s good fun to bash the church at every opportunity, but I can&#8217;t find any confirmation that Kylie Bissutti is LDS and faking people out with a crucifix.  I think she is a Christian.  I had read the article and never got the impression she was LDS, but can&#8217;t find a denomination for her anywhere.  </p>
<p>Maybe the DesNews is just reporting an inspiring story, without any &#8220;subtle PR to make the church look good.&#8221;  It&#8217;s possible.</p>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 06:44:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[David, the LDS church you attended is way different than mine.  In mine it teaches things like love, forgiveness, redemption, the atonement, charity, the fall, weakness, sin, striving, and so on.  Thankfully I&#039;ve never been in a congregation that demanded perfection.  That ward must not have had many members.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David, the LDS church you attended is way different than mine.  In mine it teaches things like love, forgiveness, redemption, the atonement, charity, the fall, weakness, sin, striving, and so on.  Thankfully I&#8217;ve never been in a congregation that demanded perfection.  That ward must not have had many members.</p>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 06:37:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dvid, the vast majority of Bishops in the church are decent, humble, kind, honest, loving and good men, though many times the church has to pick the best of a weak bunch.  As far as careers go, one of the best Bishops I ever had was a dentist (later a stake president and area authority), and I&#039;m a construction contractor (I&#039;m not a Bishop, but I think I give helpful counsel to my family).  

Sorry for your bad luck with church leaders.  I think maybe sometimes we expect too much from them.  I don&#039;t know that I&#039;ve ever gone to them for &quot;life counsel,&quot; that&#039;s something I&#039;ve tried to work out myself.  Bishops aren&#039;t counselors or psychiatrists or social workers, though I&#039;m sure some try because they so much want to help.

As far as bad advice being free, sometimes yes, sometimes no.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dvid, the vast majority of Bishops in the church are decent, humble, kind, honest, loving and good men, though many times the church has to pick the best of a weak bunch.  As far as careers go, one of the best Bishops I ever had was a dentist (later a stake president and area authority), and I&#8217;m a construction contractor (I&#8217;m not a Bishop, but I think I give helpful counsel to my family).  </p>
<p>Sorry for your bad luck with church leaders.  I think maybe sometimes we expect too much from them.  I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;ve ever gone to them for &#8220;life counsel,&#8221; that&#8217;s something I&#8217;ve tried to work out myself.  Bishops aren&#8217;t counselors or psychiatrists or social workers, though I&#8217;m sure some try because they so much want to help.</p>
<p>As far as bad advice being free, sometimes yes, sometimes no.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 06:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, seems the Bishop was pretty flexible and anxious to work with you.  I guess I&#039;ve been real lucky in my church life, but I&#039;ve never had a Church leader who I would refuse to let sit down and interview with a family member in private.  Some different personalities for sure, but no one who I didn&#039;t think was sincerely trying to do their best. 

While there are definitely some church leaders who aren&#039;t ideal, I think, for the vast majority of cases, church leadership is tremendous.  If we judge any organization or group by the bottom ten or twenty percent, we&#039;ll never find anything worthy of our time and resources, including our own families.

As far as being intolerant, I think all of us should be to a certain extent.  Part of life is gaining the wisdom to know what things we should accept, and what things we should discriminate against.  Can&#039;t blanket statement say we should accept and tolerate everything, though we should be free and open with forgiveness.  

Just my thoughts.  Thanks for your reply, and good luck finding continued happiness in the future.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, seems the Bishop was pretty flexible and anxious to work with you.  I guess I&#8217;ve been real lucky in my church life, but I&#8217;ve never had a Church leader who I would refuse to let sit down and interview with a family member in private.  Some different personalities for sure, but no one who I didn&#8217;t think was sincerely trying to do their best. </p>
<p>While there are definitely some church leaders who aren&#8217;t ideal, I think, for the vast majority of cases, church leadership is tremendous.  If we judge any organization or group by the bottom ten or twenty percent, we&#8217;ll never find anything worthy of our time and resources, including our own families.</p>
<p>As far as being intolerant, I think all of us should be to a certain extent.  Part of life is gaining the wisdom to know what things we should accept, and what things we should discriminate against.  Can&#8217;t blanket statement say we should accept and tolerate everything, though we should be free and open with forgiveness.  </p>
<p>Just my thoughts.  Thanks for your reply, and good luck finding continued happiness in the future.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by RayG</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492302</link>
		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 06:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ryan, my guess is that I could find a few educated people willing and able to refute a book that is written by a liberal criticizing conservatives.   I agree that we think different, though I don&#039;t think it&#039;s brain structure or DNA.  

In the past hundred years progressives have praised communists and Nazi&#039;s, honored fools like Paul Ehrlich, Rachel Carson, Margaret Sanger, and Al Gore, feared global cooling and heterosexual aids, predicted catastrophic depopulation, banned DDT, blamed global warming on human CO2 emissions (yet not a single climate model has accurately predicted temperature increases or lack thereof for the past dozen years), and many other things.  The common thread to all these crises and movements is the need and drive for more powerful governments, something progressives seem hellbent on achieving.  

Are liberals correct sometimes?  Yes.  Are conservatives?  Yes, but each side cherry puts blinders on and refuses to see what the other side is saying.  I may have blinders on, but at least I admit it, something I rarely hear from the other side.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ryan, my guess is that I could find a few educated people willing and able to refute a book that is written by a liberal criticizing conservatives.   I agree that we think different, though I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s brain structure or DNA.  </p>
<p>In the past hundred years progressives have praised communists and Nazi&#8217;s, honored fools like Paul Ehrlich, Rachel Carson, Margaret Sanger, and Al Gore, feared global cooling and heterosexual aids, predicted catastrophic depopulation, banned DDT, blamed global warming on human CO2 emissions (yet not a single climate model has accurately predicted temperature increases or lack thereof for the past dozen years), and many other things.  The common thread to all these crises and movements is the need and drive for more powerful governments, something progressives seem hellbent on achieving.  </p>
<p>Are liberals correct sometimes?  Yes.  Are conservatives?  Yes, but each side cherry puts blinders on and refuses to see what the other side is saying.  I may have blinders on, but at least I admit it, something I rarely hear from the other side.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Scott T</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 05:32:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, if you or anyone else could recommend a good local support group/community (I live in Northern Utah County- in fact my kids go to AF High Tom...), it would be much appreciated.  I&#039;m not looking for another church or anything but it can be a lonely road sometimes and it would be nice to associate every now and then with someone who has &quot;been there, done that.&quot;  

I wanted to make one other comment about when I was preached against in Stake Conference.  I was angered initially and I could see my wife looking at me out of the corner of her eye as I was shaking my head. The amazing thing is the anger dissipated quicker than normal and a great peace settled over me.  It was almost a &quot;Forgive them Father for they know not what they do&quot; type moment. It was a sign to me that I could bear this trial, and any future trials, and be there to support my wife.  She didn&#039;t ask for this.  I &quot;changed the game&quot; on her so to speak. The least I can do for her is to give a little on my end.

I mean I get it. The leaders are trying to protect the flock. However, if they could only see that I have been where they are at, but they have not been where I am at.

I can just imagine now, my son will return home from a mission and report to the High Council, all of whom know about me, and my son has no clue.  What will be going through their heads?  How will my son react when I tell him?

One thing that pained me was sitting down with my second son, who is preparing for a mission, and feeling the sense of loss that he had. I was his spiritual rock, someone he could rely on, and he no longer feels that.  That was a tough one for me.  Maybe someday he will feel differently when he knows all the details.  Maybe he will find the truth out for himself. I&#039;m in no hurry to pull the rug out from under him. Maybe one day he will say &quot;Thank you Dad for standing by your convictions,it must have been a lonely road.&quot;  But maybe that will never happen.  It will still be ok.

Anyways, there is a LOT more to the story but I just appreciated the contrasting views expressed in this podcast because I could identify with them both.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, if you or anyone else could recommend a good local support group/community (I live in Northern Utah County- in fact my kids go to AF High Tom&#8230;), it would be much appreciated.  I&#8217;m not looking for another church or anything but it can be a lonely road sometimes and it would be nice to associate every now and then with someone who has &#8220;been there, done that.&#8221;  </p>
<p>I wanted to make one other comment about when I was preached against in Stake Conference.  I was angered initially and I could see my wife looking at me out of the corner of her eye as I was shaking my head. The amazing thing is the anger dissipated quicker than normal and a great peace settled over me.  It was almost a &#8220;Forgive them Father for they know not what they do&#8221; type moment. It was a sign to me that I could bear this trial, and any future trials, and be there to support my wife.  She didn&#8217;t ask for this.  I &#8220;changed the game&#8221; on her so to speak. The least I can do for her is to give a little on my end.</p>
<p>I mean I get it. The leaders are trying to protect the flock. However, if they could only see that I have been where they are at, but they have not been where I am at.</p>
<p>I can just imagine now, my son will return home from a mission and report to the High Council, all of whom know about me, and my son has no clue.  What will be going through their heads?  How will my son react when I tell him?</p>
<p>One thing that pained me was sitting down with my second son, who is preparing for a mission, and feeling the sense of loss that he had. I was his spiritual rock, someone he could rely on, and he no longer feels that.  That was a tough one for me.  Maybe someday he will feel differently when he knows all the details.  Maybe he will find the truth out for himself. I&#8217;m in no hurry to pull the rug out from under him. Maybe one day he will say &#8220;Thank you Dad for standing by your convictions,it must have been a lonely road.&#8221;  But maybe that will never happen.  It will still be ok.</p>
<p>Anyways, there is a LOT more to the story but I just appreciated the contrasting views expressed in this podcast because I could identify with them both.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Alison</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492298</link>
		<dc:creator>Alison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 04:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree that if you are at the point that you don&#039;t believe the fundamental truth claims of the church that are in the temple recommend questions but just want to keep the peace.... you are setting yourself for a lot of emotional distress.  Living like that takes it toll on your mental and physical health and will still impact your relationships in a negative way.  As a parent I feel sharing my insights, thoughts, perspectives are important with my kids and if I hide them I&#039;m doing them a disservice in the long run.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that if you are at the point that you don&#8217;t believe the fundamental truth claims of the church that are in the temple recommend questions but just want to keep the peace&#8230;. you are setting yourself for a lot of emotional distress.  Living like that takes it toll on your mental and physical health and will still impact your relationships in a negative way.  As a parent I feel sharing my insights, thoughts, perspectives are important with my kids and if I hide them I&#8217;m doing them a disservice in the long run.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Alison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 04:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is what I&#039;m facing now too.  My son is getting married in August and I will be outside the temple waiting.  I decided being honest with myself and others about what I&#039;m thinking and believe is more important in the long run than pretending so I can be in the sealing.  I don&#039;t want to live in a way that requires me to pretend or fake things.... I&#039;m trying to live my life with integrity and make the best choices I know how just like others and I have to hope that they will respect that.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is what I&#8217;m facing now too.  My son is getting married in August and I will be outside the temple waiting.  I decided being honest with myself and others about what I&#8217;m thinking and believe is more important in the long run than pretending so I can be in the sealing.  I don&#8217;t want to live in a way that requires me to pretend or fake things&#8230;. I&#8217;m trying to live my life with integrity and make the best choices I know how just like others and I have to hope that they will respect that.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Ryan Cragun</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492295</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan Cragun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 03:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[First, thanks for re-summarizing everything I previously posted but trying to spin it the other way.

Second, are you sure you want to defend Rodney Stark on this?  If so, go ahead and explain away these papers that find the US has higher crime rates:
https://www.ncjrs.gov/App/abstractdb/AbstractDBDetails.aspx?id=110776
https://www.ncjrs.gov/app/abstractdb/AbstractDBDetails.aspx?id=139741
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0013935107000503

And, interestingly, this book (http://books.google.com/books?hl=en&amp;lr=&amp;id=DsN5glgW0v4C&amp;oi=fnd&amp;pg=PR3&amp;dq=international+crime+rates&amp;ots=VnxM9JrABg&amp;sig=er_Yr-Cp4iUjm3TIgRlp9oApidw#v=onepage&amp;q=international%20crime%20rates&amp;f=false), which specifically focuses on crime, indicates the percentage of young males is a weaker predictor of crime rates than all of the following: 
-educational attainment
-individual past experience in criminal activities
-past incidence of crime in society
-level and growth of economic activity
-income inequality
-existence of profitable criminal activities
-strength of the police and the judicial system

So, if Stark is claiming the US should have much higher crime rates because there are more young men, and the US does have higher crime rates (though Stark claims it does not), just not higher than every country in Europe in every year, what exactly have you shown?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First, thanks for re-summarizing everything I previously posted but trying to spin it the other way.</p>
<p>Second, are you sure you want to defend Rodney Stark on this?  If so, go ahead and explain away these papers that find the US has higher crime rates:<br />
<a href="https://www.ncjrs.gov/App/abstractdb/AbstractDBDetails.aspx?id=110776" rel="nofollow">https://www.ncjrs.gov/App/abstractdb/AbstractDBDetails.aspx?id=110776</a><br />
<a href="https://www.ncjrs.gov/app/abstractdb/AbstractDBDetails.aspx?id=139741" rel="nofollow">https://www.ncjrs.gov/app/abstractdb/AbstractDBDetails.aspx?id=139741</a><br />
<a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0013935107000503" rel="nofollow">http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0013935107000503</a></p>
<p>And, interestingly, this book (<a href="http://books.google.com/books?hl=en&#038;lr=&#038;id=DsN5glgW0v4C&#038;oi=fnd&#038;pg=PR3&#038;dq=international+crime+rates&#038;ots=VnxM9JrABg&#038;sig=er_Yr-Cp4iUjm3TIgRlp9oApidw#v=onepage&#038;q=international%20crime%20rates&#038;f=false" rel="nofollow">http://books.google.com/books?hl=en&#038;lr=&#038;id=DsN5glgW0v4C&#038;oi=fnd&#038;pg=PR3&#038;dq=international+crime+rates&#038;ots=VnxM9JrABg&#038;sig=er_Yr-Cp4iUjm3TIgRlp9oApidw#v=onepage&#038;q=international%20crime%20rates&#038;f=false</a>), which specifically focuses on crime, indicates the percentage of young males is a weaker predictor of crime rates than all of the following:<br />
-educational attainment<br />
-individual past experience in criminal activities<br />
-past incidence of crime in society<br />
-level and growth of economic activity<br />
-income inequality<br />
-existence of profitable criminal activities<br />
-strength of the police and the judicial system</p>
<p>So, if Stark is claiming the US should have much higher crime rates because there are more young men, and the US does have higher crime rates (though Stark claims it does not), just not higher than every country in Europe in every year, what exactly have you shown?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Pacumeni</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492293</link>
		<dc:creator>Pacumeni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 01:28:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As any competent sociologist would, Stark controls for the proportion of young males when making claims about religion and crime rates.  (As I note above, the secular societies of Europe are in a demographic death spiral.) The median male age in the United States is lower--generally much lower--than that of all the European countries listed except for heavily Catholic Ireland, which is slightly younger than the US.  Since the proportion of young males is powerfully correlated with crime rates, the US should have higher--generally far higher--crime rates than all the European countries except Ireland based on proportion of young males--but it doesn’t.  The assault rate in Scotland is 5.7, in Sweden 3.5, in England 2.8, in Belgium 2.7, in Germany 2.4, in Finland 2.3, in Luxembourg 1.8, in Ireland and the Netherlands 1.3, and in Portugal  and France 1.2 times the rate in the US.  Burglary rates are higher than in the US by factors of 2.7 in Denmark, 1.8 in Austria, 1.4 in Sweden and England, and 1.2 Belgium and Switzerland. Sovenia and Northern Ireland are also higher than the US. The rape rate in Sweden is more than twice as high as that of the US, and the rates of England and Belgium are very similar in spite of the far lower proportion of young males. Vehicle thefts are substantially higher in Sweden, Italy, Denmark, France, and Ireland though it is harder to hide a stolen car in those smaller, more centrally regulated counties than in the US. For robbery, Portugal’s and France’s  rate is 1.4, Spain’s 8.9, and Belgium’s 13 times greater than in the US. England is also higher than the US. Clearly, many European countries have far higher crime rates than the US despite the fact that all but Ireland should have lower rates given the powerful effects of young male demographics on crime. Stark’s claims are not laughably absurd nor are Cragun’s claims patently obvious.  What is obvious to me is that Cragun’s use of numbers is rhetorical, not dispassionately and scientifically objective. Readers should understand that he sees the data through the prism of his anti-religious and especially anti-Mormon animus and selects data that support his preordained anti-religious thesis.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As any competent sociologist would, Stark controls for the proportion of young males when making claims about religion and crime rates.  (As I note above, the secular societies of Europe are in a demographic death spiral.) The median male age in the United States is lower&#8211;generally much lower&#8211;than that of all the European countries listed except for heavily Catholic Ireland, which is slightly younger than the US.  Since the proportion of young males is powerfully correlated with crime rates, the US should have higher&#8211;generally far higher&#8211;crime rates than all the European countries except Ireland based on proportion of young males&#8211;but it doesn’t.  The assault rate in Scotland is 5.7, in Sweden 3.5, in England 2.8, in Belgium 2.7, in Germany 2.4, in Finland 2.3, in Luxembourg 1.8, in Ireland and the Netherlands 1.3, and in Portugal  and France 1.2 times the rate in the US.  Burglary rates are higher than in the US by factors of 2.7 in Denmark, 1.8 in Austria, 1.4 in Sweden and England, and 1.2 Belgium and Switzerland. Sovenia and Northern Ireland are also higher than the US. The rape rate in Sweden is more than twice as high as that of the US, and the rates of England and Belgium are very similar in spite of the far lower proportion of young males. Vehicle thefts are substantially higher in Sweden, Italy, Denmark, France, and Ireland though it is harder to hide a stolen car in those smaller, more centrally regulated counties than in the US. For robbery, Portugal’s and France’s  rate is 1.4, Spain’s 8.9, and Belgium’s 13 times greater than in the US. England is also higher than the US. Clearly, many European countries have far higher crime rates than the US despite the fact that all but Ireland should have lower rates given the powerful effects of young male demographics on crime. Stark’s claims are not laughably absurd nor are Cragun’s claims patently obvious.  What is obvious to me is that Cragun’s use of numbers is rhetorical, not dispassionately and scientifically objective. Readers should understand that he sees the data through the prism of his anti-religious and especially anti-Mormon animus and selects data that support his preordained anti-religious thesis.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by david</title>
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		<dc:creator>david</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2013 00:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t believe the women would be any better.  I have been berated by women as well as men in the church.  They are just as bad if not worse in some situations.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t believe the women would be any better.  I have been berated by women as well as men in the church.  They are just as bad if not worse in some situations.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Heather</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492286</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 22:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Very much enjoyed this podcast! I left the Mormon church almost 2 years ago and now consider myself to be agnostic/atheist. It has not been an easy transition for a lot of reasons. I try not to have hard feelings towards the church but that&#039;s not easy.  I&#039;m mad that I was raised in the Mormon church (at times). I can see how that has negatively influenced my life. I wasn&#039;t encouraged to pursue an education. I was lead to believe that women should never work outside the home. I was taught not to question or think for myself; anything that wasn&#039;t making sense to me was my fault and was probably due to a lack of obedience in some way. While I know now that that&#039;s not true, it&#039;s already deeply part of who I am and it&#039;s hard to overcome. I feel lied to and betrayed in a lot of ways. It&#039;s really hard to come to terms with all that! Not to mentioned maintaining healthy relationships with my still-Mormon family members. 

I can&#039;t remember the exact wording you used, Ryan, but when you mentioned that non-religious people are accepting of everyone but fundamentalists (in general), I was really able relate. It&#039;s something I constantly struggle with. I want to be accepting of everyone! But, for example, when I speak with my gay uncle and hear of the things he went through when he left the church nearly 15 years ago, I feel so enraged that I can&#039;t help but blurt out how much I hate Mormons. But of course that&#039;s not true! Some of my best friends are true and literally believing Mormons. It&#039;s a difficult balance.

Anyway--really enjoyed this! Thanks to John and Ryan for putting it together.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very much enjoyed this podcast! I left the Mormon church almost 2 years ago and now consider myself to be agnostic/atheist. It has not been an easy transition for a lot of reasons. I try not to have hard feelings towards the church but that&#8217;s not easy.  I&#8217;m mad that I was raised in the Mormon church (at times). I can see how that has negatively influenced my life. I wasn&#8217;t encouraged to pursue an education. I was lead to believe that women should never work outside the home. I was taught not to question or think for myself; anything that wasn&#8217;t making sense to me was my fault and was probably due to a lack of obedience in some way. While I know now that that&#8217;s not true, it&#8217;s already deeply part of who I am and it&#8217;s hard to overcome. I feel lied to and betrayed in a lot of ways. It&#8217;s really hard to come to terms with all that! Not to mentioned maintaining healthy relationships with my still-Mormon family members. </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t remember the exact wording you used, Ryan, but when you mentioned that non-religious people are accepting of everyone but fundamentalists (in general), I was really able relate. It&#8217;s something I constantly struggle with. I want to be accepting of everyone! But, for example, when I speak with my gay uncle and hear of the things he went through when he left the church nearly 15 years ago, I feel so enraged that I can&#8217;t help but blurt out how much I hate Mormons. But of course that&#8217;s not true! Some of my best friends are true and literally believing Mormons. It&#8217;s a difficult balance.</p>
<p>Anyway&#8211;really enjoyed this! Thanks to John and Ryan for putting it together.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 21:47:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree, I was really moved by Scott&#039;s post so I read it to my spouse as we were driving around yesterday. Someone should collect these narratives.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree, I was really moved by Scott&#8217;s post so I read it to my spouse as we were driving around yesterday. Someone should collect these narratives.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Educated criminals work within the law</title>
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		<dc:creator>Educated criminals work within the law</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 20:47:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good luck to you Scott T. Thanks for sharing. Sounds like some heavy stuff. These stories are ones that should be shared.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck to you Scott T. Thanks for sharing. Sounds like some heavy stuff. These stories are ones that should be shared.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Educated criminals work within the law</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 20:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[With all due respect, the LDS faith emphasizes obedience issues far more than protestant christianity, but to say that teachings of GA&#039;s at general conference are totally worthless and negative is not honest. There may be some that fit that bill but not all country music sucks and not all LDS sermons are bad compared to evangelical christian sermons. Furthermore, not all LDS have a religious viewpoint of the Church comes before Christ. When people find Christ after the leave Mormonism, good on them, but some people find him in the LDS world just fine. Having said that, it sounds like your journey is one you are happy with.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With all due respect, the LDS faith emphasizes obedience issues far more than protestant christianity, but to say that teachings of GA&#8217;s at general conference are totally worthless and negative is not honest. There may be some that fit that bill but not all country music sucks and not all LDS sermons are bad compared to evangelical christian sermons. Furthermore, not all LDS have a religious viewpoint of the Church comes before Christ. When people find Christ after the leave Mormonism, good on them, but some people find him in the LDS world just fine. Having said that, it sounds like your journey is one you are happy with.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Blorg Jorgensson</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492281</link>
		<dc:creator>Blorg Jorgensson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 20:20:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow, that&#039;s not what I got out of it at all. I felt like Ryan was pretty clear in saying that his harsh criticism is of fundamentalist religion, and he even expressed his hesitance to lump the LDS Church in that camp (even though it officially is). 

And I agree that your last point is an ad hominem argument: He can&#039;t be objective because he doesn&#039;t agree with me. By that logic, why should we trust anything a believer says about religion?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, that&#8217;s not what I got out of it at all. I felt like Ryan was pretty clear in saying that his harsh criticism is of fundamentalist religion, and he even expressed his hesitance to lump the LDS Church in that camp (even though it officially is). </p>
<p>And I agree that your last point is an ad hominem argument: He can&#8217;t be objective because he doesn&#8217;t agree with me. By that logic, why should we trust anything a believer says about religion?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492264</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 10:54:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yeah well, there is that.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah well, there is that.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by J</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492259</link>
		<dc:creator>J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 04:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, you gotta move out of Utah.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, you gotta move out of Utah.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Paul M.</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492258</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 02:47:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My favorite spiritual journey theme song is &quot;HELP ME FIND IT, by the Sidewalk Prophets (no they are not Mormon!).  The chorus says:

&quot;If there&#039;s a road I should walk
Help me find it
If I need to be still
Give me peace for the moment
Whatever Your will
Whatever Your will
Can you help me find it
Can you help me find it.&quot;

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CsjZ94K7UQs]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favorite spiritual journey theme song is &#8220;HELP ME FIND IT, by the Sidewalk Prophets (no they are not Mormon!).  The chorus says:</p>
<p>&#8220;If there&#8217;s a road I should walk<br />
Help me find it<br />
If I need to be still<br />
Give me peace for the moment<br />
Whatever Your will<br />
Whatever Your will<br />
Can you help me find it<br />
Can you help me find it.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CsjZ94K7UQs" rel="nofollow">http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CsjZ94K7UQs</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by maddy</title>
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		<dc:creator>maddy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 00:04:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom,
Your story struck a cord with me.  There are so many layers within the church hierarchy one would think there would be a remedy to errant/damaging leaders.  But it seems, more common than not in secular and religious organizations, leadership either a) turns a blind eye or b) protects its own.  (I wonder if this happens more in organizations with male-dominated leadership). There is little a member can do if the two local layers of leadership lack judgement. The church (maybe most organized religion?)is infused with authoritarians and authoritarian followers which perpetuates rigidity, ignorance, and stone-walling.  I know of a bishop (years ago) who actually accompanied the wife to divorce proceedings and then called the bishop of the ex-husband to tell him not to give the ex a temple recommend (even though he was temple worthy). Many other examples.  I&#039;m glad you&#039;ve had good friends that stuck with you.  One thing I find curious--you continue to pray yet refer to yourself as atheist?  Thanks for sharing your story.  

I appreciate the thoughts and experiences shared by both Dan and Tom.  I find it very helpful to learn more as I&#039;ve spent the last few years navigating through uncertainty.  My husband and I are most definitely the only square pegs in round holes in our local area.  It is tough.  

Wouldn&#039;t it be interesting if LDS members could attend any ward they wanted to--like other denominations?  

Thanks John, for the valuable work you do.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom,<br />
Your story struck a cord with me.  There are so many layers within the church hierarchy one would think there would be a remedy to errant/damaging leaders.  But it seems, more common than not in secular and religious organizations, leadership either a) turns a blind eye or b) protects its own.  (I wonder if this happens more in organizations with male-dominated leadership). There is little a member can do if the two local layers of leadership lack judgement. The church (maybe most organized religion?)is infused with authoritarians and authoritarian followers which perpetuates rigidity, ignorance, and stone-walling.  I know of a bishop (years ago) who actually accompanied the wife to divorce proceedings and then called the bishop of the ex-husband to tell him not to give the ex a temple recommend (even though he was temple worthy). Many other examples.  I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;ve had good friends that stuck with you.  One thing I find curious&#8211;you continue to pray yet refer to yourself as atheist?  Thanks for sharing your story.  </p>
<p>I appreciate the thoughts and experiences shared by both Dan and Tom.  I find it very helpful to learn more as I&#8217;ve spent the last few years navigating through uncertainty.  My husband and I are most definitely the only square pegs in round holes in our local area.  It is tough.  </p>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t it be interesting if LDS members could attend any ward they wanted to&#8211;like other denominations?  </p>
<p>Thanks John, for the valuable work you do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Scott T</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492250</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 23:23:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This podcast resonated with me on so many levels.  I just recently &quot;came out&quot; to a limited degree in January.  I was executive secretary and my wife was and currently is still Relief Society President.  I was as far in as anyone could be. I am a direct descendant of Parley P Pratt. I came out to my wife first and it was really rough at first and we still have our patches.  Our oldest son is on mission (and has NO idea) and my next son is preparing to go on a mission. My second son read a note to my wife he wasn&#039;t supposed to and found out.  It rocked his world for a bit but I haven&#039;t shared everything with him so I think he will still go on a mission.  My Bishop is a good friend of mine and I home teach him.  I was his right hand man and acted as a third counselor to him.  This all came to a head when I called to be on the High Council and refused the calling.  I declined to elaborate on the reason because my wife and I were still working through things but obviously, the Bishop knew.  When my wife and I finally met with the Bishop to tell him, he cried, and I cried (because my friend was sad). The mistake I made is telling him I didn&#039;t believe in an embodied God and did not believe in the Atonement in the traditional sense.  He then had a conversation with the Stake President and they decided I needed to be released.  I was ok with that much.  BUT...the Stake President announced to the entire high council that I was being released and the reason why.  He then stated gruffly they would be talking about it further in Stake PEC.  That is what really chapped my ass.  My own son on a mission doesn&#039;t even know and know 15 strangers (and presumably their spouses know).  I have been preached against in Stake Conference (indirectly) in both the adult session and general session.  One of the Stake Pres counselors related a story of an &quot;unbelieving&quot; spouse and could only ask himself &quot;What were they doing or NOT doing to lose the Spirit?&quot;  I almost stood up and yelled &quot;How about reading the scriptures 2 hours a day, praying for extended periods of time, fasting 2-3 times a month, and attending the Temple weekly!&quot;  See, in the church we are encouraged to seek further light and knowledge...as long as it doesn&#039;t contradict the traditional literal narrative.  They can&#039;t even fathom that there is MORE out there.  Despite some of the negative experiences I have had, I choose to stay for now and the only reason is because for the most part I love the people I associate with, including my good friend, the Bishop.  I can see if that were not the case, like Tom, I probably wouldn&#039;t or do the bare minimum to support my family who are all true believers.  My parents and siblings don&#039;t know yet but I am writing a long letter to inform them and give them some context.  Each revelation to someone new seems to bring a speedbump for me an my wife but we always seem to get through it.  In an odd way, it has brought us closer than it ever has.  We have our moments (discussing Tithing paying, and when/if I will remove my garments, etc) but I think we will be ok for the long haul.  Thanks Tom and Dan for sharing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This podcast resonated with me on so many levels.  I just recently &#8220;came out&#8221; to a limited degree in January.  I was executive secretary and my wife was and currently is still Relief Society President.  I was as far in as anyone could be. I am a direct descendant of Parley P Pratt. I came out to my wife first and it was really rough at first and we still have our patches.  Our oldest son is on mission (and has NO idea) and my next son is preparing to go on a mission. My second son read a note to my wife he wasn&#8217;t supposed to and found out.  It rocked his world for a bit but I haven&#8217;t shared everything with him so I think he will still go on a mission.  My Bishop is a good friend of mine and I home teach him.  I was his right hand man and acted as a third counselor to him.  This all came to a head when I called to be on the High Council and refused the calling.  I declined to elaborate on the reason because my wife and I were still working through things but obviously, the Bishop knew.  When my wife and I finally met with the Bishop to tell him, he cried, and I cried (because my friend was sad). The mistake I made is telling him I didn&#8217;t believe in an embodied God and did not believe in the Atonement in the traditional sense.  He then had a conversation with the Stake President and they decided I needed to be released.  I was ok with that much.  BUT&#8230;the Stake President announced to the entire high council that I was being released and the reason why.  He then stated gruffly they would be talking about it further in Stake PEC.  That is what really chapped my ass.  My own son on a mission doesn&#8217;t even know and know 15 strangers (and presumably their spouses know).  I have been preached against in Stake Conference (indirectly) in both the adult session and general session.  One of the Stake Pres counselors related a story of an &#8220;unbelieving&#8221; spouse and could only ask himself &#8220;What were they doing or NOT doing to lose the Spirit?&#8221;  I almost stood up and yelled &#8220;How about reading the scriptures 2 hours a day, praying for extended periods of time, fasting 2-3 times a month, and attending the Temple weekly!&#8221;  See, in the church we are encouraged to seek further light and knowledge&#8230;as long as it doesn&#8217;t contradict the traditional literal narrative.  They can&#8217;t even fathom that there is MORE out there.  Despite some of the negative experiences I have had, I choose to stay for now and the only reason is because for the most part I love the people I associate with, including my good friend, the Bishop.  I can see if that were not the case, like Tom, I probably wouldn&#8217;t or do the bare minimum to support my family who are all true believers.  My parents and siblings don&#8217;t know yet but I am writing a long letter to inform them and give them some context.  Each revelation to someone new seems to bring a speedbump for me an my wife but we always seem to get through it.  In an odd way, it has brought us closer than it ever has.  We have our moments (discussing Tithing paying, and when/if I will remove my garments, etc) but I think we will be ok for the long haul.  Thanks Tom and Dan for sharing.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 412-414: Josh and Lolly Weed on Their Love Story, Mixed-Orientation Marriages, and LDS/LGBT Issues by Randal</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/josh-and-lolly-weed-on-their-love-story-mixed-orientation-marriages-and-ldslgbt-issues/comment-page-1/#comment-492238</link>
		<dc:creator>Randal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 17:26:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brenda,
I believe that Josh and Lolly are very clear in this podcast that they believe their relationship is not a model for every gay person to follow.  Rather, because of extremely unusual circumstances and their ability to communicate they have created a marriage that they choose to nurture.  To say something along the lines of &quot;it shows the blessings and power to overcome that happen when people devote themselves to Christ and his gospel&quot; is very short sighted in my opinion and denigrates the thousands of well meaning LDS faithful who tried this and it ended up being a very painful experience.  This is not typical of mixed orientation marriages even when both are committed to making it work.  I am one example.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brenda,<br />
I believe that Josh and Lolly are very clear in this podcast that they believe their relationship is not a model for every gay person to follow.  Rather, because of extremely unusual circumstances and their ability to communicate they have created a marriage that they choose to nurture.  To say something along the lines of &#8220;it shows the blessings and power to overcome that happen when people devote themselves to Christ and his gospel&#8221; is very short sighted in my opinion and denigrates the thousands of well meaning LDS faithful who tried this and it ended up being a very painful experience.  This is not typical of mixed orientation marriages even when both are committed to making it work.  I am one example.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 16:05:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are an amazing son. Something like that would have meant everything to me. I&#039;m sure I would not have had that sort of maturity at 19. 

I mentioned this elsewhere, but the head of one of the college Mormon Studies programs wrote letters to my stake president and bishop. I felt that they were really sticking their neck out on behalf of my family.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are an amazing son. Something like that would have meant everything to me. I&#8217;m sure I would not have had that sort of maturity at 19. </p>
<p>I mentioned this elsewhere, but the head of one of the college Mormon Studies programs wrote letters to my stake president and bishop. I felt that they were really sticking their neck out on behalf of my family.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Tom Kimball</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/tom-kimball-and-dan-wotherspoon-7-years-after-stages-of-faith/comment-page-1/#comment-492236</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 15:56:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yeah, I&#039;m sure it depends on what we are raised with. I spent my youth picking through the LDS hymns and learning all the harmonies. A few of the traditional Mormon hymns such as &quot;We thank thee oh God for a Prophet&quot; and High on a Mountain Top&quot; are actually written by my grandfathers. The UU hymns at first were just so alien to me, but now after three years, I do have four of five new favorites.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I&#8217;m sure it depends on what we are raised with. I spent my youth picking through the LDS hymns and learning all the harmonies. A few of the traditional Mormon hymns such as &#8220;We thank thee oh God for a Prophet&#8221; and High on a Mountain Top&#8221; are actually written by my grandfathers. The UU hymns at first were just so alien to me, but now after three years, I do have four of five new favorites.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Stormin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stormin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 15:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great podcast!  I really resonate with what Tom said about the emptiness of LDS church meetings  ------ there is little or nothing to come back to!  I have been a Born Again Christian for a few months now and have gone back to a few meetings where my kids/grandkids were on program or a general authority was speaking.  I enjoyed my kids/grandkids parts (musical) because they are my kids/grandkids, but the talks were worthless and so negative and I felt a terrible spirit during the GAs talk (again very negative)  ----- like I need to get out of this place now!  I use to read/listen to conference talks but they are totally worthless and very negative compared to the Word of God taught by the preachers/teachers I listen to DAILY (not just weekly)!  The messages of the Bible are so much more positive than the negative in LDS meetings   ----- we need to do this and that better, we are not living this principle or doing that action.  The message of the Bible is ----- we are imperfect and cannot live the &quot;rules/laws of the old Testament&quot; that is why Jesus came and fulfilled the Law and gave us the Laws of Believe in God and LOVE.  We must be saved by Grace because we all sin ---- no matter how hard we try or rationalize our actions!  After being &quot;saved by Grace and accepting Jesus Christ&quot; we then do good works ------ not to justify our salvation but to sanctify ourselves by truly serve others without the &quot;need to serve others&quot; but out of LOVE!
  I pray more LDS and Tom really find a personnel &#039;relationship&#039; with Jesus Christ and not look to a religion or social group to make him feel spiritual!  He said &quot;Come unto ME&quot; not to a prophet, bishop, religion, etc.!
  Your ideas about group things for exmos like dating websites, maybe monthly social/eating activities to get together with &quot;like minded people&quot; is not a bad idea but the thing we agree on is only the LDS church is false or has problems not necessarily spiritual beliefs!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great podcast!  I really resonate with what Tom said about the emptiness of LDS church meetings  &#8212;&#8212; there is little or nothing to come back to!  I have been a Born Again Christian for a few months now and have gone back to a few meetings where my kids/grandkids were on program or a general authority was speaking.  I enjoyed my kids/grandkids parts (musical) because they are my kids/grandkids, but the talks were worthless and so negative and I felt a terrible spirit during the GAs talk (again very negative)  &#8212;&#8211; like I need to get out of this place now!  I use to read/listen to conference talks but they are totally worthless and very negative compared to the Word of God taught by the preachers/teachers I listen to DAILY (not just weekly)!  The messages of the Bible are so much more positive than the negative in LDS meetings   &#8212;&#8211; we need to do this and that better, we are not living this principle or doing that action.  The message of the Bible is &#8212;&#8211; we are imperfect and cannot live the &#8220;rules/laws of the old Testament&#8221; that is why Jesus came and fulfilled the Law and gave us the Laws of Believe in God and LOVE.  We must be saved by Grace because we all sin &#8212;- no matter how hard we try or rationalize our actions!  After being &#8220;saved by Grace and accepting Jesus Christ&#8221; we then do good works &#8212;&#8212; not to justify our salvation but to sanctify ourselves by truly serve others without the &#8220;need to serve others&#8221; but out of LOVE!<br />
  I pray more LDS and Tom really find a personnel &#8216;relationship&#8217; with Jesus Christ and not look to a religion or social group to make him feel spiritual!  He said &#8220;Come unto ME&#8221; not to a prophet, bishop, religion, etc.!<br />
  Your ideas about group things for exmos like dating websites, maybe monthly social/eating activities to get together with &#8220;like minded people&#8221; is not a bad idea but the thing we agree on is only the LDS church is false or has problems not necessarily spiritual beliefs!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 412-414: Josh and Lolly Weed on Their Love Story, Mixed-Orientation Marriages, and LDS/LGBT Issues by Randal</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/josh-and-lolly-weed-on-their-love-story-mixed-orientation-marriages-and-ldslgbt-issues/comment-page-1/#comment-492233</link>
		<dc:creator>Randal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 15:05:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some feedback about my experience of your sharing of your intimacy with Lolly:  I feel a huge amount of dissonance between what you say and your body language.  I get that much of that may be my own superimposed dissonance.  Nonetheless, saying that you are fulfilled sexually doesn&#039;t resonate with me.  What resonates with me is that at some point in your life you determined that you were willing to do anything to have a wife and children in a way that was consistent with your beliefs in the LDS faith and God.  I believe you have done that. I know that part of it. I honestly don&#039;t believe you when you say that you are fulfilled.  I can&#039;t see how that is possible even having created a beautiful intimacy with Lolly, which I do understand.  I felt love and intimacy with my wife.  Clearly, I was not vulnerable nor honest with her through most of my marriage, so I can&#039;t say things would have not been different.  I wish you the best.  I think your messages intended and unintended have not been fully addressed for a lot of your readers who are clinging onto any hope they can find to make sense out of the feelings they have.  Please consider doing this.  Otherwise, your message likely will have consequences that I am sure you wouldn&#039;t like and haven&#039;t intended.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some feedback about my experience of your sharing of your intimacy with Lolly:  I feel a huge amount of dissonance between what you say and your body language.  I get that much of that may be my own superimposed dissonance.  Nonetheless, saying that you are fulfilled sexually doesn&#8217;t resonate with me.  What resonates with me is that at some point in your life you determined that you were willing to do anything to have a wife and children in a way that was consistent with your beliefs in the LDS faith and God.  I believe you have done that. I know that part of it. I honestly don&#8217;t believe you when you say that you are fulfilled.  I can&#8217;t see how that is possible even having created a beautiful intimacy with Lolly, which I do understand.  I felt love and intimacy with my wife.  Clearly, I was not vulnerable nor honest with her through most of my marriage, so I can&#8217;t say things would have not been different.  I wish you the best.  I think your messages intended and unintended have not been fully addressed for a lot of your readers who are clinging onto any hope they can find to make sense out of the feelings they have.  Please consider doing this.  Otherwise, your message likely will have consequences that I am sure you wouldn&#8217;t like and haven&#8217;t intended.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by Educated criminals work within the law</title>
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		<dc:creator>Educated criminals work within the law</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 14:40:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Another interesting timing bit...

It was shortly after this (not saying my experience was the catalyst) that the Church did away with the big mission farewells. Good choice.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another interesting timing bit&#8230;</p>
<p>It was shortly after this (not saying my experience was the catalyst) that the Church did away with the big mission farewells. Good choice.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Educated criminals work within the law</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 14:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom, 
Thank you for your story. What you went through is heartbreaking. Thank you for your candor and courage.

My parents divorced in my mid teens and my father and mother lived in different states. I submitted papers for the mission through my mother&#039;s ward when I turned 19 after living with my father during my late teens. 

A counselor in the bishopric sat down with my mother and me to &quot;plan the farewell.&quot; He said casually during this meeting that &quot;of course your father won&#039;t be allowed to speak.&quot; I asked &quot;why is that?&quot; He didn&#039;t elaborate but said that is what he was told. I told him that if my father was not allowed to speak, I would be more comfortable if I spoke alone with no family members on the stand or speaking. I suggested to have high councilor give a talk after me. 

My father I knew had struggled in the past to pay child support but as of that time he was up to date. To my knowledge (and we have a very open family) there was no other infractions that my have triggered the gospel police to exclude him. 

I worked nights as a janitor. I received a phone call one night at about 10:30 pm. It was the stk president. He said he heard that I didn&#039;t want to have a farewell if my father was excluded. He was livid and started yelling at me. When I, as I recall, calmly but firmly stood my ground he said &quot;don&#039;t you raise your voice with me!&quot; He said he wanted to talk with me that night. I told him I was at work. &quot;what time do you get off?&quot; I told him &quot;1:30 am.&quot; He invited me either to his home or his stk office....my choice. &quot;I&#039;ll meet you at your office.&quot;  I told him.

I met with him that night...which it hindsight is totally outrageous. 

I sat down with him and asked the stk pres if he spoke with my father or my father&#039;s stake president within the last year. He didn&#039;t. He told me &quot;as long as I am stake president, your father will never speak in this stake.&quot; Awesome stuff. I stood my ground. I told him that I accepted his viewpoint but that I would then just rather not have a &quot;farewell&quot; (like they used to be decades ago) because of  the emotional pain of having my family on the stand with the exclusion of my father in the audience. The stk president told me he didn&#039;t think I was ready to go on a mission because of my insubordination. I asked &quot;why because I don&#039;t want to go through an emotionally traumatic event surrounding a mission farewell?&quot; I respectfully didn&#039;t budge.

I ended up speaking with a high councilman and went on the mission. They local leaders were jerks (actually abusive and I think/hope they realize it) and I haven&#039;t completely let that all go but I have had times when I felt I did.

I think it meant a lot to my dad that I stood up for him. I am very glad I did and don&#039;t regret it one bit. I hope your son has an epiphany and extends himself to you. 

BTW, my father is now deceased and the stk president is a general authority. Best wishes to him. 

And best wishes to you and your family Tom.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom,<br />
Thank you for your story. What you went through is heartbreaking. Thank you for your candor and courage.</p>
<p>My parents divorced in my mid teens and my father and mother lived in different states. I submitted papers for the mission through my mother&#8217;s ward when I turned 19 after living with my father during my late teens. </p>
<p>A counselor in the bishopric sat down with my mother and me to &#8220;plan the farewell.&#8221; He said casually during this meeting that &#8220;of course your father won&#8217;t be allowed to speak.&#8221; I asked &#8220;why is that?&#8221; He didn&#8217;t elaborate but said that is what he was told. I told him that if my father was not allowed to speak, I would be more comfortable if I spoke alone with no family members on the stand or speaking. I suggested to have high councilor give a talk after me. </p>
<p>My father I knew had struggled in the past to pay child support but as of that time he was up to date. To my knowledge (and we have a very open family) there was no other infractions that my have triggered the gospel police to exclude him. </p>
<p>I worked nights as a janitor. I received a phone call one night at about 10:30 pm. It was the stk president. He said he heard that I didn&#8217;t want to have a farewell if my father was excluded. He was livid and started yelling at me. When I, as I recall, calmly but firmly stood my ground he said &#8220;don&#8217;t you raise your voice with me!&#8221; He said he wanted to talk with me that night. I told him I was at work. &#8220;what time do you get off?&#8221; I told him &#8220;1:30 am.&#8221; He invited me either to his home or his stk office&#8230;.my choice. &#8220;I&#8217;ll meet you at your office.&#8221;  I told him.</p>
<p>I met with him that night&#8230;which it hindsight is totally outrageous. </p>
<p>I sat down with him and asked the stk pres if he spoke with my father or my father&#8217;s stake president within the last year. He didn&#8217;t. He told me &#8220;as long as I am stake president, your father will never speak in this stake.&#8221; Awesome stuff. I stood my ground. I told him that I accepted his viewpoint but that I would then just rather not have a &#8220;farewell&#8221; (like they used to be decades ago) because of  the emotional pain of having my family on the stand with the exclusion of my father in the audience. The stk president told me he didn&#8217;t think I was ready to go on a mission because of my insubordination. I asked &#8220;why because I don&#8217;t want to go through an emotionally traumatic event surrounding a mission farewell?&#8221; I respectfully didn&#8217;t budge.</p>
<p>I ended up speaking with a high councilman and went on the mission. They local leaders were jerks (actually abusive and I think/hope they realize it) and I haven&#8217;t completely let that all go but I have had times when I felt I did.</p>
<p>I think it meant a lot to my dad that I stood up for him. I am very glad I did and don&#8217;t regret it one bit. I hope your son has an epiphany and extends himself to you. </p>
<p>BTW, my father is now deceased and the stk president is a general authority. Best wishes to him. </p>
<p>And best wishes to you and your family Tom.</p>
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		<dc:creator>david</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 04:51:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To quantify the Mormon to Christian experience I feel it is an upgrade once I really understood the central mission of Christianity and for me it also feels like I am doing the right thing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To quantify the Mormon to Christian experience I feel it is an upgrade once I really understood the central mission of Christianity and for me it also feels like I am doing the right thing.</p>
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		<dc:creator>david</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 04:43:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You totally nailed it Tom. The LDS church demands perfection the way the adversary did in the pre-existence. I also see it as problematic and a cause of suicide and depression.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You totally nailed it Tom. The LDS church demands perfection the way the adversary did in the pre-existence. I also see it as problematic and a cause of suicide and depression.</p>
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		<dc:creator>david</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 04:38:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Also the Christian hymns are more appealing then the LDS hymns to me now although not at first.  Now the LDS hymns seem lacking...just my two cents.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also the Christian hymns are more appealing then the LDS hymns to me now although not at first.  Now the LDS hymns seem lacking&#8230;just my two cents.</p>
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		<dc:creator>david</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 04:22:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I understand your hurt Tom. I am from a multi-generational family. Served a mission and married in the temple.  I agree with you that the church is not a safe place for my family and we have left as well. The priesthood leadership in my experiences acted in a very abusive fashion on several occasions. I like you saw my faith as trust and that trust is definitely long gone. I agree that the church is a machine.  More corporate/business nature than a church.  I also felt not only chased out but kicked out for having a few small doubts.  I don&#039;t want my kids to know the hurt that I have or have to go through what we have gone through. Best wishes to you!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand your hurt Tom. I am from a multi-generational family. Served a mission and married in the temple.  I agree with you that the church is not a safe place for my family and we have left as well. The priesthood leadership in my experiences acted in a very abusive fashion on several occasions. I like you saw my faith as trust and that trust is definitely long gone. I agree that the church is a machine.  More corporate/business nature than a church.  I also felt not only chased out but kicked out for having a few small doubts.  I don&#8217;t want my kids to know the hurt that I have or have to go through what we have gone through. Best wishes to you!</p>
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		<dc:creator>Dvid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 03:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many Bishops in the church are arrogant, wreckless, and do not belong as a personal counselor.  Construction contractors and dentists are not fit to provide helpful life counsel.  My experiences with bishops have been extremely hurtful since about 12 years old to 30 yrs old. Nothings free in life except bad advice. :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many Bishops in the church are arrogant, wreckless, and do not belong as a personal counselor.  Construction contractors and dentists are not fit to provide helpful life counsel.  My experiences with bishops have been extremely hurtful since about 12 years old to 30 yrs old. Nothings free in life except bad advice. <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<dc:creator>Dvid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 03:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[They have decided it would be good to look Christian as long as its not too Christian. I am very curious as to what the LDS church will look like in 5 or 10 years and who will stay and who will leave.  The rapid and constant evolution of the church was a definite turn off for me.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They have decided it would be good to look Christian as long as its not too Christian. I am very curious as to what the LDS church will look like in 5 or 10 years and who will stay and who will leave.  The rapid and constant evolution of the church was a definite turn off for me.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 02:22:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did anyone see the article in Deseret news ‘Former model leaves the runway for her faith’. What&#039;s intriguing is that this LDS &quot;Christian&quot; model is photogrhaped with a cross around her neck. A little subtle PR to help the church look &quot;Christian&quot; you think? For a church that is supposed to be led by a prophet, they sure do allot of following.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did anyone see the article in Deseret news ‘Former model leaves the runway for her faith’. What&#8217;s intriguing is that this LDS &#8220;Christian&#8221; model is photogrhaped with a cross around her neck. A little subtle PR to help the church look &#8220;Christian&#8221; you think? For a church that is supposed to be led by a prophet, they sure do allot of following.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Dixon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 01:18:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I fear you would be greatly disappointed. :-)  My personal faith is so pieced together it doesn&#039;t even make sense to me sometimes.  I just try really hard to follow the Spirit and be authentic, and just hope I haven&#039;t messed this whole thing up completely.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I fear you would be greatly disappointed. <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   My personal faith is so pieced together it doesn&#8217;t even make sense to me sometimes.  I just try really hard to follow the Spirit and be authentic, and just hope I haven&#8217;t messed this whole thing up completely.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Wotherspoon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 22:56:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We found ours through friends&#039; recommendations. I really don&#039;t know any other way to increase the odds of finding a good match. And if it does not work out well with the first one you try, it&#039;s quite acceptable (and therapists agree, I think!) to make that first visit a last visit and find someone more compatible with your hoped for approach or someone that you simply connect with better. These things don&#039;t work if we don&#039;t trust the therapists&#039; mind and heart and openness and genuine concern for us. Best of luck!

On temple, I&#039;m a freak in that I LOVE ritual and really value its ways of helping us get out of our own way and enter into liminal space (threshold, outside normal space and time) where we can be taught in ways that bypass all the normal mental filters (monkey mind stuff) that are going so strong in our day-to-day lives. So temple was quite wonderful for me as ritual space--roominess for play with archetypal wisdom and situations that might inform my daily walk. I know others don&#039;t experience it this way, at least not as easily as I did. I do think preparation is a big key, including understanding theories about ritual. In them, we can see the sense they make (method to their madness). 

As far as &quot;true origins of the temple&quot; goes, I imagine you&#039;ve heard enough from me to know that human processes and their involvement in stuff doesn&#039;t throw me any more. It certainly did at one time, so know that I  empathize. My hope is that you&#039;ll just keep open to the possibilities that things will look differently to you down the road.

I don&#039;t want to say more, but if you want a chance to better get what I mean when I talk about ritual structures and what it&#039;s designed to do, I hope you&#039;ll listen to this podcast we did at Mormon Matters. Rich with theory as well as personal experience.

http://mormonmatters.org/2011/07/05/40%E2%80%9341-ritual-within-mormonism/

Talk again, maybe privately.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We found ours through friends&#8217; recommendations. I really don&#8217;t know any other way to increase the odds of finding a good match. And if it does not work out well with the first one you try, it&#8217;s quite acceptable (and therapists agree, I think!) to make that first visit a last visit and find someone more compatible with your hoped for approach or someone that you simply connect with better. These things don&#8217;t work if we don&#8217;t trust the therapists&#8217; mind and heart and openness and genuine concern for us. Best of luck!</p>
<p>On temple, I&#8217;m a freak in that I LOVE ritual and really value its ways of helping us get out of our own way and enter into liminal space (threshold, outside normal space and time) where we can be taught in ways that bypass all the normal mental filters (monkey mind stuff) that are going so strong in our day-to-day lives. So temple was quite wonderful for me as ritual space&#8211;roominess for play with archetypal wisdom and situations that might inform my daily walk. I know others don&#8217;t experience it this way, at least not as easily as I did. I do think preparation is a big key, including understanding theories about ritual. In them, we can see the sense they make (method to their madness). </p>
<p>As far as &#8220;true origins of the temple&#8221; goes, I imagine you&#8217;ve heard enough from me to know that human processes and their involvement in stuff doesn&#8217;t throw me any more. It certainly did at one time, so know that I  empathize. My hope is that you&#8217;ll just keep open to the possibilities that things will look differently to you down the road.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t want to say more, but if you want a chance to better get what I mean when I talk about ritual structures and what it&#8217;s designed to do, I hope you&#8217;ll listen to this podcast we did at Mormon Matters. Rich with theory as well as personal experience.</p>
<p><a href="http://mormonmatters.org/2011/07/05/40%E2%80%9341-ritual-within-mormonism/" rel="nofollow">http://mormonmatters.org/2011/07/05/40%E2%80%9341-ritual-within-mormonism/</a></p>
<p>Talk again, maybe privately.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Paul M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 22:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[And I would like to hear that interview!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And I would like to hear that interview!</p>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Kimball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 22:04:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ray, 

&quot;To take differences with a Bishop who is concerned with an atheist, who prays to heavenly mother, and who is only using the church to be a positive influence on his kids, seems a little immature.&quot;

In context, the bishop didn&#039;t take difference with me over my doubts my religious practices, my Elder&#039;s Quorum lessons, my scouting, or my 20 inch ponytail. When my spouse decided that she wanted to speak with him about a concern, he took difference with me for not allowing him to have lone access to my wife. Up until that moment, I had full permission to act as any worthy member, as my spouse and I had been interviewed by him some months earlier to get permission to ordain my youngest son. The bishop asked me, with what I felt at the time was sincerity, to meet with my spouse alone. I responded with similar sincerity that my instincts suggested otherwise and as the father of my family that he respect my decision that he no meet with my family members without my presence. It seemed that it was after this decision that things became punitive directed at me.  

Yes, this is my version of the story. I&#039;m very sure he would have his own. I&#039;m sure he would tell a tale about counseling a troubled family and how he just wanted to advise the wife without the negative influences of her bright but angry husband. The problem with that is this didn&#039;t happen in a vacuum. It happened in front of several people. My spouse, the bishop&#039;s councilors who I knew as close friends, and who mad the initial recommendation to visit the bishop. There were ward clerks, councilors, a Stake President, and so forth. I remember my spouse and I proposing a compromise with the bishop that the Relief Society President sit in rather than myself. This was refused. I honestly felt like we were bending over backwards to find a creative resolution without compromising my concern. I also expressed my concerns in real time with friends like Dan. My guts told me he was up to no good. I&#039;m convinced this was true, and after watching a neighbor&#039;s divorce which was directly related to the bishop&#039;s private counseling sessions with the wife. Not that my spouse is week minded or anything, I&#039;m just convinced that my gut feelings about the man were right, verified later by my own observation, and I am confident that I made the correct decision.    

The trouble continues in the neighborhood four years later. I continue to receive ongoing reports from broad sources about ongoing behavior problems and member&#039;s exiting or refraining from activity. I&#039;ve visited with a handful of members of my former Elder&#039;s quorum over the past few months, oddly in the Fresh Market produce department or along the street in my neighborhood. Some of whom include a few men who were fairly close what was happening to me and others at the time. Thinking about it, I don&#039;t believe any of them allow the bishop to meet individually with their family members. But since he doesn&#039;t have leverage on them (they are not doubters) he doesn&#039;t seem to have abused all of them the way he could me. 

I hope that clarifies things somewhat.  

To me this is an institutional problem rather than a lone wolf. Reports were sent up the line about behavior problems. He remains the bishop, so I&#039;m assuming they were never addressed in any meaningful way. I know my situation wasn&#039;t. 

As to having to deal with me. No, I don&#039;t suppose I would be the easiest guy to negotiate with. Ask Dan.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray, </p>
<p>&#8220;To take differences with a Bishop who is concerned with an atheist, who prays to heavenly mother, and who is only using the church to be a positive influence on his kids, seems a little immature.&#8221;</p>
<p>In context, the bishop didn&#8217;t take difference with me over my doubts my religious practices, my Elder&#8217;s Quorum lessons, my scouting, or my 20 inch ponytail. When my spouse decided that she wanted to speak with him about a concern, he took difference with me for not allowing him to have lone access to my wife. Up until that moment, I had full permission to act as any worthy member, as my spouse and I had been interviewed by him some months earlier to get permission to ordain my youngest son. The bishop asked me, with what I felt at the time was sincerity, to meet with my spouse alone. I responded with similar sincerity that my instincts suggested otherwise and as the father of my family that he respect my decision that he no meet with my family members without my presence. It seemed that it was after this decision that things became punitive directed at me.  </p>
<p>Yes, this is my version of the story. I&#8217;m very sure he would have his own. I&#8217;m sure he would tell a tale about counseling a troubled family and how he just wanted to advise the wife without the negative influences of her bright but angry husband. The problem with that is this didn&#8217;t happen in a vacuum. It happened in front of several people. My spouse, the bishop&#8217;s councilors who I knew as close friends, and who mad the initial recommendation to visit the bishop. There were ward clerks, councilors, a Stake President, and so forth. I remember my spouse and I proposing a compromise with the bishop that the Relief Society President sit in rather than myself. This was refused. I honestly felt like we were bending over backwards to find a creative resolution without compromising my concern. I also expressed my concerns in real time with friends like Dan. My guts told me he was up to no good. I&#8217;m convinced this was true, and after watching a neighbor&#8217;s divorce which was directly related to the bishop&#8217;s private counseling sessions with the wife. Not that my spouse is week minded or anything, I&#8217;m just convinced that my gut feelings about the man were right, verified later by my own observation, and I am confident that I made the correct decision.    </p>
<p>The trouble continues in the neighborhood four years later. I continue to receive ongoing reports from broad sources about ongoing behavior problems and member&#8217;s exiting or refraining from activity. I&#8217;ve visited with a handful of members of my former Elder&#8217;s quorum over the past few months, oddly in the Fresh Market produce department or along the street in my neighborhood. Some of whom include a few men who were fairly close what was happening to me and others at the time. Thinking about it, I don&#8217;t believe any of them allow the bishop to meet individually with their family members. But since he doesn&#8217;t have leverage on them (they are not doubters) he doesn&#8217;t seem to have abused all of them the way he could me. </p>
<p>I hope that clarifies things somewhat.  </p>
<p>To me this is an institutional problem rather than a lone wolf. Reports were sent up the line about behavior problems. He remains the bishop, so I&#8217;m assuming they were never addressed in any meaningful way. I know my situation wasn&#8217;t. </p>
<p>As to having to deal with me. No, I don&#8217;t suppose I would be the easiest guy to negotiate with. Ask Dan.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Paul M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 22:02:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks Dan, what you said makes a lot of sense.  Any suggestions on how to find the right marriage counselor so we don&#039;t have to go through three of them!  

Also, how did you get to the point where you wanted to go to the temple again?  I just don&#039;t see how I will ever get there.  While I wanted the temple to be something amazing and special, outside the day I married my wife, it just never was.  It wasn&#039;t until I had my faith crisis, learned about the true origins of the temple, that it all made sense and I understood why I didn&#039;t like going...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Dan, what you said makes a lot of sense.  Any suggestions on how to find the right marriage counselor so we don&#8217;t have to go through three of them!  </p>
<p>Also, how did you get to the point where you wanted to go to the temple again?  I just don&#8217;t see how I will ever get there.  While I wanted the temple to be something amazing and special, outside the day I married my wife, it just never was.  It wasn&#8217;t until I had my faith crisis, learned about the true origins of the temple, that it all made sense and I understood why I didn&#8217;t like going&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by Ryan Cragun</title>
		<link>http://mormonstories.org/ryan-cragun/comment-page-1/#comment-492188</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan Cragun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 19:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[RayG,

I reticent to mention this, but there is some evidence that conservatives and fundamentalists actually don&#039;t think the same way as other people and are more likely to believe things that are not true.  The evidence on this is growing and is quite fascinating.  Here&#039;s a good book summarizing the literature that is very accessible: http://www.amazon.com/Republican-Brain-Science-Science-Reality/dp/1118094514

I don&#039;t mention this to be demeaning or belittling at all.  Honestly, I&#039;m surprised that this is true as I long thought that progressives and conservatives just interpreted things differently and it was my own bias that was on display. But the science really does suggest that conservatives and fundamentalists literally think differently, and how they think results in them holding more erroneous beliefs. Pretty fascinating, actually!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>RayG,</p>
<p>I reticent to mention this, but there is some evidence that conservatives and fundamentalists actually don&#8217;t think the same way as other people and are more likely to believe things that are not true.  The evidence on this is growing and is quite fascinating.  Here&#8217;s a good book summarizing the literature that is very accessible: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Republican-Brain-Science-Science-Reality/dp/1118094514" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/Republican-Brain-Science-Science-Reality/dp/1118094514</a></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t mention this to be demeaning or belittling at all.  Honestly, I&#8217;m surprised that this is true as I long thought that progressives and conservatives just interpreted things differently and it was my own bias that was on display. But the science really does suggest that conservatives and fundamentalists literally think differently, and how they think results in them holding more erroneous beliefs. Pretty fascinating, actually!</p>
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		<dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 18:56:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[chris, 

I hear you, but it doesn&#039;t make much sense. You say you want diversity and yet you seem to honor those who don&#039;t. I find liberals to be more open to diverse viewpoints. My bishop was rigid and inflexible and ultraconservative. We even had anti-Obama leaflets on our door addressed from the bishops family.    

You want to come here and talk about Limbaugh, Glenn Beck, Fox News and O&#039;Reiley, and in the same breath say you want an excepting, tolerant, open, divers, and honest church?  

I don&#039;t believe I called my bishop a jerk. He may well be a jerk, I think he is dangerous. You said I love diversity, in fact, I honor diversity, I don&#039;t honor hate, prejudice, exclusion, human torture, or discrimination. All of which I associate with those you seem to honor.

I have no idea what to say to you. I hope our struggles were at least entertaining.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>chris, </p>
<p>I hear you, but it doesn&#8217;t make much sense. You say you want diversity and yet you seem to honor those who don&#8217;t. I find liberals to be more open to diverse viewpoints. My bishop was rigid and inflexible and ultraconservative. We even had anti-Obama leaflets on our door addressed from the bishops family.    </p>
<p>You want to come here and talk about Limbaugh, Glenn Beck, Fox News and O&#8217;Reiley, and in the same breath say you want an excepting, tolerant, open, divers, and honest church?  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t believe I called my bishop a jerk. He may well be a jerk, I think he is dangerous. You said I love diversity, in fact, I honor diversity, I don&#8217;t honor hate, prejudice, exclusion, human torture, or discrimination. All of which I associate with those you seem to honor.</p>
<p>I have no idea what to say to you. I hope our struggles were at least entertaining.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 419-421: Tom Kimball and Dan Wotherspoon, 7 Years After &#8220;Stages of Faith&#8221; by John Dehlin</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Dehlin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 18:36:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amen, Chris (to the call for greater diversity).  Glad you are here.]]></description>
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		<dc:creator>chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 18:29:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree with something John said early in the interview about people trading one set of prophets for another set when they leave or become disenchanted with religion or the church.
The way I usually hear it is in the form of ripping conservatives, glen beck, tea party, fox news, Limbaugh as if these organizations are responsible for the problems in the Church.  Tom mentioned the tea party a couple of times insinuating his bishop was a tea partier (not sure tea party was much of anything 4 yrs ago when Tom had his encounter with said Bishop) and this contributed to his awful treatment.  Not sure what the tea party who is about smaller government, lower taxes, and less government spending has to do with the bishop being a jerk. But then there was the bit about laying water boarding at the feet of Romney and Mormon leaders because they did not condemn it.  

Anyway I don&#039;t want to make a big deal of it but after hearing conservatives and their organizations being slighted time after time on many Mormon themed podcast I figured I would pipe up. I’m a small govt fiscal conservative, Limbaugh listener, rarely miss Bill O&#039;Reiley,love pocasts like Mormon stories, Mormon matters, think church leadership has much to repent of and have nothing against LGBT. Tom said he loves diversity, so do I. Tom wants the church to be more accepting, tolerant, open, diverse, honest, so do I.  I have many of the same hopes for the Church as my liberal friends so lets knock off blaming and stereotyping conservatives for the problems in the church.  Liberals need us open minded conservatives if you really want to see change in the church.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with something John said early in the interview about people trading one set of prophets for another set when they leave or become disenchanted with religion or the church.<br />
The way I usually hear it is in the form of ripping conservatives, glen beck, tea party, fox news, Limbaugh as if these organizations are responsible for the problems in the Church.  Tom mentioned the tea party a couple of times insinuating his bishop was a tea partier (not sure tea party was much of anything 4 yrs ago when Tom had his encounter with said Bishop) and this contributed to his awful treatment.  Not sure what the tea party who is about smaller government, lower taxes, and less government spending has to do with the bishop being a jerk. But then there was the bit about laying water boarding at the feet of Romney and Mormon leaders because they did not condemn it.  </p>
<p>Anyway I don&#8217;t want to make a big deal of it but after hearing conservatives and their organizations being slighted time after time on many Mormon themed podcast I figured I would pipe up. I’m a small govt fiscal conservative, Limbaugh listener, rarely miss Bill O&#8217;Reiley,love pocasts like Mormon stories, Mormon matters, think church leadership has much to repent of and have nothing against LGBT. Tom said he loves diversity, so do I. Tom wants the church to be more accepting, tolerant, open, diverse, honest, so do I.  I have many of the same hopes for the Church as my liberal friends so lets knock off blaming and stereotyping conservatives for the problems in the church.  Liberals need us open minded conservatives if you really want to see change in the church.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Trent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 18:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It would be interesting to hear the other side of the story in the Tom Kimball saga. It seems very unfair to only get one side of the issue. I&#039;ve always found that when one person feels like all the fault lays with the other guy (as Tom seems to feel), that there is usually a lack of accepting responsibility from the principal player. It is so easy to give the church a bad rap when only one side is presented.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It would be interesting to hear the other side of the story in the Tom Kimball saga. It seems very unfair to only get one side of the issue. I&#8217;ve always found that when one person feels like all the fault lays with the other guy (as Tom seems to feel), that there is usually a lack of accepting responsibility from the principal player. It is so easy to give the church a bad rap when only one side is presented.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Wotherspoon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 17:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I second the advice about couple&#039;s counseling for anyone whose marriage is under serious stress over faith issues. My wife and I had mixed results with two marriage and family counselors and then spectacular experiences with our third one--someone we have chosen to go back two every so often for tune-ups (reminders). The beautiful thing this counselor did was diffuse the intensity of the stresses by demonstrating how all the faith matters we were struggling with were not really about faith so much as power dynamics, attempts to shape the other person into the mold we want them to be, etc. She unfolded how all of this was working so skillfully that no one felt picked on or more to blame; she helped us feel like normal human beings in a pretty typical relationship (simply with faith as one of our triggers whereas it would be another combination of factors with other couples, etc.). Talking with an insightful listener: priceless (in this case about $100 per hour, but money well spent as now some fifteen years after our first rounds with her we&#039;re still going strong).]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I second the advice about couple&#8217;s counseling for anyone whose marriage is under serious stress over faith issues. My wife and I had mixed results with two marriage and family counselors and then spectacular experiences with our third one&#8211;someone we have chosen to go back two every so often for tune-ups (reminders). The beautiful thing this counselor did was diffuse the intensity of the stresses by demonstrating how all the faith matters we were struggling with were not really about faith so much as power dynamics, attempts to shape the other person into the mold we want them to be, etc. She unfolded how all of this was working so skillfully that no one felt picked on or more to blame; she helped us feel like normal human beings in a pretty typical relationship (simply with faith as one of our triggers whereas it would be another combination of factors with other couples, etc.). Talking with an insightful listener: priceless (in this case about $100 per hour, but money well spent as now some fifteen years after our first rounds with her we&#8217;re still going strong).</p>
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		<title>Comment on 417: Dr. Ryan Cragun on his new book &#8220;What You Don&#8217;t Know About Religion (but should)&#8221; by RayG</title>
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		<dc:creator>RayG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 16:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ryan,

Maybe I&#039;ll have to listen again, but my frustration was not the nuance, but the bias.  After classifying mormonism of being fundamentalist, you are very critical of that position, while being quite generous and forgiving to the liberal religious and non-relligious.  

I would describe myself as fundamentalist, but I don&#039;t think I take everything as black and white, though I guess that is open to interpretation by those debating the point.  I think many times liberals feel conservatives are only being open minded or flexible when we accept liberal arguments and opinions as our own.  Conservatives can still be open minded while disagreeing.  

I agree that good and bad is not dependent on religiosity or lack thereof, though in the discussion with John the tone seemed to be that only liberal believers and atheists actually used their ability to think in any significant way.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ryan,</p>
<p>Maybe I&#8217;ll have to listen again, but my frustration was not the nuance, but the bias.  After classifying mormonism of being fundamentalist, you are very critical of that position, while being quite generous and forgiving to the liberal religious and non-relligious.  </p>
<p>I would describe myself as fundamentalist, but I don&#8217;t think I take everything as black and white, though I guess that is open to interpretation by those debating the point.  I think many times liberals feel conservatives are only being open minded or flexible when we accept liberal arguments and opinions as our own.  Conservatives can still be open minded while disagreeing.  </p>
<p>I agree that good and bad is not dependent on religiosity or lack thereof, though in the discussion with John the tone seemed to be that only liberal believers and atheists actually used their ability to think in any significant way.</p>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 15:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Try a mega church.  You can be more casual about your faith until you can form a better idea of what you believe.  I feel church attendance helps better my life and marriage.  Also here are my earlier comments...

David 
May 29, 2013 at 9:38 am 
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I think you are expecting too much from religion. For more absolute truth check out a science museum. Churches are for people looking for an extended family that believe in higher morals than what the world teaches. I share Einstein’s view of God. The view that there is something bigger at work (Einstein’s view)represents the Father and His Son gives us a divine model to follow in a more human way. 

“and all those churches are founded on the mirage of biblical inerrancy.”

“All those churches”…? a little extreme. SOME churches are founded on the mirage of biblical inerancy.

Again I think you are expecting too much from a religion. Your looking for truth and reason in the wrong places.  

I am a progressive Christian and I have dozens of progressive Christian friends who think like me. Go easy on the fundamental Christian they are clinging to a hope that has carried them through lifes trials.

Good luck in your search I hope you find what your looking for whether its LDS or something else. May the peace of Christ Jesus be in your heart always!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Try a mega church.  You can be more casual about your faith until you can form a better idea of what you believe.  I feel church attendance helps better my life and marriage.  Also here are my earlier comments&#8230;</p>
<p>David<br />
May 29, 2013 at 9:38 am<br />
Your comment is awaiting moderation.<br />
I think you are expecting too much from religion. For more absolute truth check out a science museum. Churches are for people looking for an extended family that believe in higher morals than what the world teaches. I share Einstein’s view of God. The view that there is something bigger at work (Einstein’s view)represents the Father and His Son gives us a divine model to follow in a more human way. </p>
<p>“and all those churches are founded on the mirage of biblical inerrancy.”</p>
<p>“All those churches”…? a little extreme. SOME churches are founded on the mirage of biblical inerancy.</p>
<p>Again I think you are expecting too much from a religion. Your looking for truth and reason in the wrong places.  </p>
<p>I am a progressive Christian and I have dozens of progressive Christian friends who think like me. Go easy on the fundamental Christian they are clinging to a hope that has carried them through lifes trials.</p>
<p>Good luck in your search I hope you find what your looking for whether its LDS or something else. May the peace of Christ Jesus be in your heart always!</p>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2013 15:38:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think you are expecting too much from religion.  For more absolute truth check out a science museum.  Churches are for people looking for an extended family that believe in higher morals than what the world teaches.  I share Einstein&#039;s view of God.  The view that there is something bigger at work (Einstein&#039;s view)represents the Father and His Son gives us a divine model to follow in a more human way.  

 &quot;and all those churches are founded on the mirage of biblical inerrancy.&quot;

&quot;All those churches&quot;...? a little extreme. SOME churches are founded on the mirage of biblical inerancy.

Again I think you are expecting too much from a religion. Your looking for truth and reason in the wrong places. :)

I am a progressive Christian and I have dozens of progressive Christian friends who think like me.  Go easy on the fundamental Christian they are clinging to a hope that has carried them through lifes trials.

Good luck in your search I hope you find what your looking for whether its LDS or something else.  May the peace of Christ Jesus be in your heart always!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you are expecting too much from religion.  For more absolute truth check out a science museum.  Churches are for people looking for an extended family that believe in higher morals than what the world teaches.  I share Einstein&#8217;s view of God.  The view that there is something bigger at work (Einstein&#8217;s view)represents the Father and His Son gives us a divine model to follow in a more human way.  </p>
<p> &#8220;and all those churches are founded on the mirage of biblical inerrancy.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;All those churches&#8221;&#8230;? a little extreme. SOME churches are founded on the mirage of biblical inerancy.</p>
<p>Again I think you are expecting too much from a religion. Your looking for truth and reason in the wrong places. <img src='http://mormonstories.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I am a progressive Christian and I have dozens of progressive Christian friends who think like me.  Go easy on the fundamental Christian they are clinging to a hope that has carried them through lifes trials.</p>
<p>Good luck in your search I hope you find what your looking for whether its LDS or something else.  May the peace of Christ Jesus be in your heart always!</p>
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