Dana’s journey is one of faith, self-discovery, and resilience. Growing up in the Mormon Church, she followed the expected path—baptism, Young Women’s activities, a mission, and BYU. But behind the scenes, she struggled with severe OCD, anxiety, and the pressure to conform to the rigid expectations placed on her as a woman in the LDS faith.

This episode explores Dana’s evolving relationship with Mormonism, from her early belief and dedication to the church to the cracks that began to form as she faced challenges in mental health, relationships, and personal identity. Her mission to Atlanta, Georgia, marked a turning point—what was supposed to be a faith-strengthening experience became a battle for self-preservation. Struggling with anxiety and depression, she fought to return home, a decision that set her on a path toward deconstruction.

After BYU, Dana navigated the complex world of Mormon dating, purity culture, and the intense pressure to marry. A failed relationship shook her belief in the system that had dictated so much of her life. Discovering resources like MormonThink and the CES Letter led her to critically examine the faith she had devoted her life to. As she stepped away from the church, she began the process of rebuilding—this time on her own terms.

Her post-Mormon life brought new challenges and revelations. She faced PMDD, made the radical decision (especially in Mormon culture) to pursue single motherhood, and experienced marriage and divorce. Through it all, she sought healing, fostered a teenage girl, and ultimately redefined what motherhood and womanhood meant to her. Now, she focuses on personal growth, her PhD, and carving out a life beyond the rigid structures of her past.

Dana’s story is a raw and honest look at what it means to leave a high-demand religion and forge a new path. If you’re interested in discussions about faith transitions, mental health, purity culture, feminism, and life after Mormonism, this channel is a space for open and candid conversations.